Alcoholic SP

[SexyN in MB]

Hello all,

I'm an SP that loves to drink a lot (LOTS!). I just got a door refusal because of it.

I work because I am good at what I do. It gives everyone pleasure, plus it pays the bills.

I have regulars that understand my proclivitis. But I'm an introvert by nature, I need a drink to meet a new man!

I am fun once we get to know each other... but that first meet is always fraught with nerves!

Please PM me, or respond openly. For more personal advice, I prefer a PM.

Nikki

 

[Poonian]

Are you drinking during the session? I could understand why that might turn some guys away.

When a new client shows up are you so drunk that you have trouble standing? That would be a big turn off at least in my books.

It comes down to what you mean by "LOTS!" and what the client is seeing.

 

[westwoody]

Get help, AA is good and works for a lot of people.

Dead serious, get help NOW. TODAY. Call AFM Manitoba.

Drinking to the point where you recognise it as a problem is very bad.
Stop it before it gets worse or does irreparable harm.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Please do not set yourself up for refusals, abuse, or worse by working when you are not legally able to give consent due to being in an intoxicated state while you work. Please listen to the many voices suggesting recovery as an option. You are putting yourself in danger by working when you're impaired. Please don't do it.

 

[P3t3rp4n]

Nikki
http://www.aacanadainc.com/

 

[Don Draper]

Seek some help. I used to drink 40oz vodka before dinner just to function.

 

[sybian]

Nikki.....
Just the fact that you have posted this says you have some questions. I also think it was very brave of you.
You don't have to go through it alone, or in private, there is plenty of help out there for you to deal with this.
Miss Erica, and Miss Tanya mentioned the "Danger" factor....You may want to consider that in making your first leap into helping yourself.
There is nothing shameful in reaching out your hand and asking for help. As I said before it is very brave...

 

[rick hunter]

The first step to recovery is recognizing you do have a problem. You should see a counselor/therapist. People who are addicted are usually using it as a coping mechanism/emotional crutch or something is missing in their life. I know a girl who's a former alcoholic and why she turned to the bottle. Everyone has their own reason, you have to determine/realize what's causing you to drink so excessively.

 

[SexyN in MB]

Thanks to all for advice and giving a s**t. I have spoken with family, friends and a doctor about what I need to do to get healthy.

Honestly though my concerns in posting here were because... the door refusal was a STRANGE experience.

I had texted back and forth with a gent. He sent me a message saying "I was going to see you today, but I saw a bad review of you on perb."

He felt this entitled him to a free session. I laughed and said if anybody deserves a freebie it would be the gent who posted a poor review.

But then I got into the sauce and was like, yeah, whatever, try me for free. He said "Oh I will write you a glowing review"..... etcetera.

(What was I thinking? Clearly I was drunk).

The gent shows up and well, not to sound ageist, but he looked half my age. I find that strange... somebody who looks 16 in a suit. And asking for a free session.

And then he looked at me and said no. I don't know what he saw. Clearly my judgement was impaired. I will not accept sessions if I have been drinking at all from now on.

But.... was that strange behaviour on HIS part? I mean the "freebie session because you are a risk" stuff.

I found it odd. But it has been an odd week.

 

[westwoody]

That guy was a jerk and you dodged a bullet! Some people are exploiters/predators by nature, and his number belongs in your blacklist. Guys like him need to be stomped like the cockroaches they are.

You don't owe anyone anything. Except like you said, maybe the guy who wrote that review. Don't be manipulated.

Stay sober, everyone here is pulling for you. You can do it!

Westwoody: clean and sober since October 20, 1999.

 

[Dickson]

Be careful my dear.

When you are drunk bad things can happen. I had a nice young lady who was to play a part at one of my adventures get so nervous she took some medication then had a few drinks and she could not stand up. It was sad and messed up the night. It was complete disappointment but it was not the $12,000 I spent on it but how it was a complete disaster for her. I felt sorry for her. The drinking can really mess things up. It was sad. So be careful not everyone is that understanding.