Wow that's cold. Sex is a biological need, an imperative to procreate the species which because humans attach lots of shit to it, gets overly complicated. Maybe I am on old romantic, or a naive romantic, but when it is actually love, sex is just an extension or an expression of that love. I can't speak to the gifts, the only time I felt the way, I was poor and so was she. The sex/money/power bullshit, well that is something, but I wouldn't call it love.