Age, maturity and pushiness

[LADY-VIA]

My preference-- hmmm

Ok personally, I've dated much older men since my early 20s. They were in their late 20s or in their 30s and even in their eArly 40s.

As I got a little bit older- mid 20s I focussed in on men in there 40s and there I've stayed. There's something about men in their 40s I find very attractive. A few of these men who ive known since they were in their early 40s have creeped into 50 and I still think they are very attractive, sexy men.
So my preference in my personal life has always been older men. Usually about 10-20 years older.

As An sp and playing around in LADY VIA LAND. I connect with gentlemen my own age and older. I have regulars who are younger than me, and a few new guys who are significantly younger who have slipped through as well.

There's a natural attraction for me towards men in a certain age bracket.

Which clients to I prefer ?

Every interaction is so different. I can't fully chose.
I thoroughly enjoy helping people and I've had some incredible connections with some younger guys, that I've helped work through some stuff, and given them every bit of advice I could.

I havnt had very many pushy younger guys, I'd push right back plus I play around with dominance as well, so I can read and swiftly mold in the moment.

There also isn't a difference for me in booking times / length. I have younger regulars who always book for 2 hours.

I've been treated very much the same over all from all my clients. Younger or older.
Some of the younger guys are adorable, sweet and very respectful because they are happy to have the opportunity as other girls won't see them.




Ok I'll chose. -- older, but I'm open minded and I treat everyone the same regardless of their age or race.

But Now I want to say no preference in age. This is a tricky one. I am a women. I think that entities me to about 100 mind changes in one day. So perhaps it just depends on the day, or the moment.
Lv

 

[yazoo]

Women are attracted to nobility and men are attracted to nubility. Nothing wrong with that

 

[summerbreeze]

when I started doing quite a bit of business in Asia a number of years ago, I was shocked that women in their mid 20's were attracted to me.

these were very good looking women and it took me a while to understand the logic behind it.

first, there is no stigma in Asia for a young woman to be with an older man, they think it makes sense. stability, good provider, etc, etc

my friends wives over here were horrified and thought I was becoming something they did not care for, when cornered by them and their questions I told them it was not a nubile issue. these women were refreshing in terms of their outlook on like and had far less baggage than women my own age.

when queried about why the women were compatible I told them that the common thread in my case was that these women were gorgeous but also very smart. it was simply a case of them growing tired of always pretending they were dumber than the particular boyfriend they were with.

in my case they could just be themselves, being older with some maturity I was not threatened by their IQ and in fact encouraged them to be themselves. I had prior to that not realized how threatened most Asian men in Asia were by intelligent women. (probably a portion of the Asian men over here as well but not nearly as much as in Asia)

so in my case, I found age difference was never an issue in Asia but then that was casual dating, no potential in-laws in the equation....

 

[hornygandalf]

... potential in-laws in the equation....

I think if you represent security and stability, especially if there is some prestige involved, then potential in-laws are often approving as well.

 

[badbadboy]

Younger people in general are 'pushy'. This generation has an entitlement issue "I want" is a part of their vocabulary as they've been raised/socialized that way without any mitigating factors surrounding that mindset. It's good to want things, but it's also good to be respectful and kind.

That's a very succinct comment.

The way a mid 20's SP worded it to me the younger guys are really into "value for money" while the older guys (Like me) are in it for "the whole experience". ie younger guys will work them for the full amount of time to check off their checklist. Mature guys tend to enjoy the full experience which means the SP's satisfaction is important to them too. So I have been told

 

[Caramel]

Funny we actually went from a discussion on "Age, Maturity and Pushiness" to well, genetic survivalist mechanisms ingrained into us from early human history.

Women prefer well established, a little older, able to take care of them and keep their family unit from dying off in a hunter gatherer world
Men prefer younger, more fertile, youthful attractive women because they're all signals of good health, child bearing etc.

I think sybian said it right when he said "age don't mean shit". There are younger mature and respectful clients just as there are older immature and pushy clients. Women in this industry should now this from their experiences. Screening should have to do more with than just age of clients you're willing to provide services too.

The minimum or maximum age limits are there for other reasons such as not letting people in their friends or age group find out what they do, feeling unattracted to way older clients and the like.

yup I feel that personalities, cultures & upbringing is more important than their ages. I've had more well behaved 20-somethings boys of certain cultures over the other one that has grown men who are married with children over age 30 and have very terrible manners & disrespectful behaviors. Education and literacy also plays a role more than their ages. I personally categorize based on culture & race and place of birth/upbringing, rather than age, age is almost never a factor in my decision (except for under-age issues but thats never happened...)