Age, maturity and pushiness

[Cappa]

Today, I enjoyed a one-of a-kind experience from a young and terrific SP (review will soon follow) and one particular thing she said really stuck on my mind:

I love older guys... Hot. Old. Men. Do you think it's weird? *giggle
I dunno... I find [younger] guys really pushy.

I admire her straightforwardness first of all because I'm not in her targeted age group.

Guys, how do you feel about the validity of the statement? Are younger guys more pushy? For the older audience, if you compared to your former self, how would you fare?

Or maybe she's talking strictly in terms of people in this generation. Ease of technology and competitive markets does make for a more demanding crowd.


As for myself, yeah, I have passing fancies that I expect better experience with SPs due to my youthfulness. A charmer versus charmer that's young is just an additional quality over the same base set of qualities. However, this is not something I push, or even communicate to a SP for that matter.

 

[wetnose]

I speculate the younger guys don't have that much cash and as a result, want to maximize each encounter.

 

[rickoshadows]

One young lady told me she preferred older clients because she felt less self-concious about her appearance during a session an was able to relax and enjoy herself a bit more. She was probably in her later twenties at this time and at the time was a popular girl at a now defunct agency.

 

[1nitestan]

Younger people in general are 'pushy'. This generation has an entitlement issue "I want" is a part of their vocabulary as they've been raised/socialized that way without any mitigating factors surrounding that mindset. It's good to want things, but it's also good to be respectful and kind.

 

[Equity Market investor]

I speculate the younger guys don't have that much cash and as a result, want to maximize each encounter.

Bulls eye.

One young lady told me she preferred older clients because she felt less self-concious about her appearance during a session an was able to relax and enjoy herself a bit more. She was probably in her later twenties at this time and at the time was a popular girl at a now defunct agency.

True, but as concrete is to concrete, quite positive her lingo was towards this industry only. I'm very sure most, if not all, would NOT be caught outside of this industry with much older men. Another words, in normal civilian life.

So, what it eventually boils down to is.......CASHOLA! A topic that has been discussed ample times here on Perb.

Business vs friendship .

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Sorry guys this sounds like a blanketed statement.

I'm late 20s and always treat the girls right just no gifts and I understood that the whole this is what it is.

Other than that. I've repeated many girls many times and been asked or told by sp's that they'd like to or hope to see me shortly.

I will concede that's there's a lot of weird younger clients that lack respect but let's not paint everyone with the same brush

This is why I'm dissapointed by those really good sp's that advertise a minimum age.if only they saw me

I'll say this. I don't like rude pushy people, male or female. I don't like aggressive men.

I enjoy spending time with older men, and I see many gentlemen that are above the age that many younger SPs will not see. For me, there is a really wide range of ages that I find sexually appealing! I would be lying if I said I don't like younger men; they are DELICIOUS! However, too young and it feels a little weird to me. The youngest client I've ever seen was a guy who snuck past me on his 19th birthday, but his appearance, manner and skills made him a pleasure to deal with! I also really love to see men older than me; 10 to 15 years older, silver hair, well looked after man? Bring it on!!! The most mature gentleman I have routinely seen is more than 20 years older than I am, and the last time I saw him, he left me worn out and panting after his second orgasm in 2 hours... Minimum age isn't so much about the date on your birth certificate; it's your attitude and outlook! Many of the older men that I see often tell me they are younger than their age when they book, then tell me later, bashfully, that in fact, they're mid-60s, not late 50s. Unless she's going to ask to see your licence or birth cert, what's to stop you from booking with a 'pooner's age' just like SPs advertise our age? Round up a little!!! :eyebrows:

 

[hornygandalf]

... I'm very sure most, if not all, would NOT be caught outside of this industry with much older men. Another words, in normal civilian life.

So, what it eventually boils down to is.......CASHOLA! A topic that has been discussed ample times here on Perb.

Business vs friendship .

I'm not sure this is necessarily the case. There are many women who prefer older men for a range of reasons. There is one young lady (totally outside the business, and she has lawyers, doctors, MPs and whoever chasing her) who could just about be my daughter, but she is very much attracted to me. My SO is also significantly younger. And it certainly ISN'T about the cash I have (what cash). So, not necessarily true at all.

 

[sybian]

...^...Thats a fact Gandalf, I couldn't agree more.

 

[Dickson]

Interesting. Just want to throw this on the table but maybe she does not like older men just tolerates us. But you are standing there with a wallet full of cash. Guess what, she loves older men.

I often wonder about SPs who are younger and how it must be difficult. They close their eyes moan a little clinch their fist as well as their jaw. And swallow like taking medication you hate but do it for long term gain with short term pain.

I feel for them. Especially after Nicole Green situation.

When I was younger I don't think I was Pushy. I was grateful if a SP would even consider getting into my car. Did not start the events with SPs intil back in the 1990s. So I was not pushy then or now.

I have specific fantasies I want to live out and therefore I need specific roles for them to play. So age is important to me.

 

[Claire Monet]

Personally I prefer to spend my intimate time with gentlemen older than myself. The only time in my life I dated those who were the same age as me was in highschool because we were all lumped together-- but that is not what real life consists of. Once we start working/pursuing higher education it's quick to see that different generations, religious/social backgrounds can share common beliefs, priorities, and preferences. Age doesn't matter so much as compatibility does.

My last few boyfriends have been 5, 7, 14, and 18 years older than me (in sequence... seems I go for older the older I get...?)

That is my personal preference, so I relate it, in turn, to my professional preference. I state in my ads and website that I see men 30+. But life is not cut and dry.

Ms. Erica said it best:

Minimum age isn't so much about the date on your birth certificate; it's your attitude and outlook!

 

[sybian]

When it comes to women, I love them all, and almost any age. I tend to date women in their early twenties, because at Rodeo's ,thats the target rich environment I've been placed in...And for some reason I never could understand...they like me.
I like to have "Fun" with women my own age or a little more advanced in years, because they have experience..They know what they want, there are no head games, and they've already explored...I mean if they are hot and confident...I'm on them, like a fat kid on a Smartie.
I also know a Lady that is between 88 or 90...She just hints at her age.
I have spent countless hours listening to her history and knowledge. Her children just ignore her, and her stories...Obviously there is no sexual attraction there ,but I adore her company.
Age...Don't mean shit!

 

[Cappa]

I like to have "Fun" with women my own age or a little more advanced in years, because they have experience..They know what they want, there are no head games, and they've already explored...I mean if they are hot and confident...I'm on them, like a fat kid on a Smartie.
I also know a Lady that is between 88 or 90...She just hints at her age.

Totally understandable. My supervisor is a handsome but aging man in his 70s. I used to have some verrrry confusing thoughts about him.

Interesting. Just want to throw this on the table but maybe she does not older men. But you are standing there with a wallet fun of cash. Guess what she loves older men.

Was that directed to me or are you self-projecting?

Sorry guys this sounds like a blanketed statement.
I'm late 20s and always treat the girls right just no gifts and I understood that the whole this is what it is.
This is why I'm disappointed by those really good sp's that advertise a minimum age.if only they saw me

Ah, we are so alike then. However, I'm not disappointed at all by the age criteria and neither should you. I'd actually glad because it makes the filtering process easier. Guys have a weird tendency of focusing what they can't have and become shortsighted of all the alternatives and delicacies around them. Unless you are, or plan to be a billionaire completionist, please be reminded there are so many babes out there without age restrictions and you have only so much resources to spend in your lifetime.



So back to the topic, is the older generation immune to the new-found feeling of consumer entitlement?

 

[vancity_cowboy]

My last few boyfriends have been 5, 7, 14, and 18 years older than me (in sequence... seems I go for older the older I get...?)

so you're saying there's hope for me yet - maybe in another 10 years or so? :eyebrows:

 

[Caramel]

One young lady told me she preferred older clients because she felt less self-concious about her appearance during a session an was able to relax and enjoy herself a bit more. She was probably in her later twenties at this time and at the time was a popular girl at a now defunct agency.

I agree...I feel the same...I've always dated and picked guys who were cute rather than hot, and made sure they had love handles and a cushion in the front made me feel so much more comfortable lol

 

[Caramel]

When it comes to women, I love them all, and almost any age. I tend to date women in their early twenties, because at Rodeo's ,thats the target rich environment I've been placed in...And for some reason I never could understand...they like me.
I like to have "Fun" with women my own age or a little more advanced in years, because they have experience..They know what they want, there are no head games, and they've already explored...I mean if they are hot and confident...I'm on them, like a fat kid on a Smartie.
I also know a Lady that is between 88 or 90...She just hints at her age.
I have spent countless hours listening to her history and knowledge. Her children just ignore her, and her stories...Obviously there is no sexual attraction there ,but I adore her company.
Age...Don't mean shit!

what if their cup size is a cute small and perky B or A

 

[sybian]

Well now....They have to have their drivers license, and not an "N" hanging off the back of their pick-up truck...So in that case "Age Does Mean Shit!"

 

[Equity Market investor]

I'm not sure this is necessarily the case. There are many women who prefer older men for a range of reasons. There is one young lady (totally outside the business, and she has lawyers, doctors, MPs and whoever chasing her) who could just about be my daughter, but she is very much attracted to me. My SO is also significantly younger. And it certainly ISN'T about the cash I have (what cash). So, not necessarily true at all.

Yes it does happen but it is very rare in big picture terms.

Just look around everyday living couples or one's who are about to get married. More than 90% are close to each others age. And by close I mean within 5 - 7 years. Casual dating, well....I doubt those relationships for the most part last long if you are referring to 15 - 20 years separation. That, on a percentage base is extremely small. It as equally small as the amount of total woman living in metro Vancouver who escort vs non- escorts. What......less than 500 escorts vs over 300,000 woman? Those #'s are a guess of course. Just giving an example.

Now, my reference is towards " read dating " leading towards marriage etc, and not casual dating or this industry.

 

[InnocentBoy]

Truth is they love the old folks because they are not able to do MSOG.

 

[hornygandalf]

Yes it does happen but it is very rare in big picture terms.

Hmmm... I wonder. Am I that unusual? Current SO, 11 years younger. Potential... about 18 years younger?
I'd like to see some figures on it, but I don't feel that I'm alone with these kinds of age differences. Maybe rare, but I don't think it is 'very rare'.
Wonder if there is any empirical data to provide some substance to this?

 

[Equity Market investor]

Hmmm... I wonder. Am I that unusual? Current SO, 11 years younger. Potential... about 18 years younger?
I'd like to see some figures on it, but I don't feel that I'm alone with these kinds of age differences. Maybe rare, but I don't think it is 'very rare'.
Wonder if there is any empirical data to provide some substance to this?

http://www.austin-institute.org/2014/11/09/ask-a-data-scientist-age-differences-between-couples/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships