So I am completely new to all of this and am incredibly nervous about possibly getting scammed or doing the wrong thing at an AMP. Do you just walk in and ask for a massage, and extras are offered later or does it all happen upfront? I assume it’s all cash, especially for extras but do I keep on hand but not in my wallet? Touching? No touching? Just HJs or can more happen at places in Kelowna?
Sorry for the really basic questions, been separated for almost 6 months and don’t want to get into the dating scene so thought I’d try this out a few times and see how it goes…
....getting scammed....
No, it hardly ever happens in AMPs. It's an actual business of renting commercial spaces and maintaining a license, the last thing they want is to make it a practice of actually scamming you; they don't want that reputation.... The only real 'scam' to worry about is competing with your own expectation that you're going to get superior service of some young nubile girl that'll make time-stand still when massaging you, before making love to your manhood... no...90 % of the time, it's going to be some 'auntie' that might give you a good massage, but either you get a 'sad handjob', or a 'toothy rushed BJ' in the end... And considering what you'll pay in comparison to an high-quality Escort doing the same thing, at an AMP "you get what you pay for".
... doing the wrong thing...
Like what? Not being respectful, and 'stepping out of bounds'? Or going to a REAL RMT clinic and assuming the therapist gives head? lol.
I would say the worst thing you can do, is go into those places expecting sex. Don't do that. These places aren't 'exactly' brothels; and they dont want to be associated as one, because they always get the stink-eye from the cops, develop that rep, and be subject to raids. The idea of these places is going in for a typical Asian-style massage, until suddenly
"lo-and-behold, by surprise she wants do something spicy to end the session, because you're just that special!"... Unfortunately, people walk in, throw down their cash, and basically tell them to skip the foreplay and get to the good stuff. And usually you wind up getting push-back and be lucky with a 'sad handjob' in the end, or nothing at all, because they'll think your a cop.
....do you walk in and ask...
You can get lucky with a drop-in, but best to make an appointment. Most AMPs know why you're there in the first place, so they can either take the room fee from you then, or take the fee and the tip altogether if the person you first see is the girl that is going to work on you. Again the fantasy here is just getting a massage, not getting freaky. So yeah, sometimes there'll be a 'mamasan' at the door, who'll take your money for the room and direct you to the room... the rest is up to the girl they send.
...Touching? No touching?....
I would say this. If you paid for the fee and the tip to the girl who is giving you a massage the moment you walked into the place, then you both know what's about to go down, and should be 'okay' to get a little touchy as the massage goes on.... However if the payment is done separately, keep your hands to yourself until the offer is made. If that's the case, then read the room, pick up on the signs, then you'll know the offer is about to be made to you. Like for example (true story), you're on your stomach, and she's at your side, working on the closer side of your back, then moves to the far side, but instead of walking around to that side she reaches over and you notice she's grinding her vag on your elbow, or if you hand is there, she'll glide her thigh-skin across your fingertips... that kind of thing... eventually, the real selling point is after working the back side of your legs, she'll eventually start touching the bottom of your ballsack, and then that's when the offer is made, and I'm sure touching is allowed after that...
....Just HJs or more....
Depends on the place. Depends on the girl. Depends on you.
Again, AMPs don't generally want to be known as brothels. So some places forbid straight up sex, because they don't want that reputation. Many AMPs have shut down because having that rep is more trouble than it's worth for them. But sometimes the rules are ignored and money needs to be made, so it can happen if you're well-mannered, respectful, clean, young and fit, anything that increases your chances of getting extra-extras on top of the HJ/HE...
...where? who does what?...
I come to Kelowna, once every few months, so the scene changes all the time for me. Hard to keep track of who does what. So I'd say, 'do your research', here or on the massage section of Leolists.... Some AMP just only allow HJ as per their policy. Other AMPs allow BJs but nothing more. And then there are AMPs that will turn a blind-eye if the girl in question didn't make her quota for the day.
