Advice for 1st time SP visit

[colklink]

I've got a question for you. If it's your first time visiting an SP and you're the kind of guy who might be really nervous at doing something like that, is it a good idea to have gone a bit without "polishing one off" so that it's easier to get over the stress and let the lower brains take over? (Especially if you have trouble getting aroused if you feel pressured or anxious.) What about having a drink beforehand?

 

[Gwynn]

Seriously, I would expect those likely to be recommended in a thread such as this will have no trouble convincing you to let the lower brain take over, regardless of whether you came last week, last night or that morning. Personally, I would avoid the drink unless she is willing to have a drink with you at the start of the session, or is someone who states they are fine with that.

 

[novemberrain]

If you think you're going to be nervous, probably best not to drink too much before. Look for an SP with a friendly personality, email them (or PM, or whatever) and just tell them it would be your first time. A GFE minded SP will go a long way to help you feel more comfortable. Sometimes, some SP's have a manager who answers email, just move on to another SP if you don't like the way the email is answered. Most of the girls who also handle their own email seem to be in the Independant Ads section on this forum. Lastly, you can book a longer session for your first time so you can get comfortable, and nearly all will offer MSOG for longer bookings. Be safe and have fun!

 

[Mr.Boggo]

Honestly, I find rubbing one out a little earlier made absolutely no difference the first time I went, I still didn't last all that long.

Oh yeah, my personal opinion is that for a first timer, look for a massage parlour over an independent or someone off CL. Nothing wrong with indys or CL, it's just a little more relaxing going to a parlour rather than some strangers condo or hotel room for a first time foray.

 

[bcneil]

From my understanding you are worried about not getting hard.
Not coming too fast?

If thats the case why not start with a rub and tug or something less stressful?

 

[Mr.Boggo]

I actually see a lot of first-timers or men who have only done this a few times, and they take comfort in the privacy offered over a parlour. I only post on CL and I think men who are new to this seek me out because my posts display my open personality. I am not trying to sell myself here, just noting that many men like the privacy over a public location and also that I am sure there are many ladies on CL who are genuine and do their utmost to make you feel comfortable. A person who displays a genuine concern for you and your nerves and goes out of her way to take care of you will be well noted in communications with her beforehand.

I don't doubt that, my experience was an MP first, but I've had a lot of good experiences with indys and a few CL SPs.

 

[SUPERMONKEY]

get drunk, fuck hoes.

But really, a couple of stiff drinks should be good before hand. Don't get too wasted.

 

[TenderLover]

I've got a question for you. If it's your first time visiting an SP and you're the kind of guy who might be really nervous at doing something like that, is it a good idea to have gone a bit without "polishing one off" so that it's easier to get over the stress and let the lower brains take over? (Especially if you have trouble getting aroused if you feel pressured or anxious.) What about having a drink beforehand?

Honest advise, "first time" don't rush in to it, take your time because it's not just waste of time and money but having a bad experience and believe me lots of these girls are just that so to make a long story short try to find non professional woman to have your experience. How old are you?