unless they changed the rules ... adultfriendfinder is NOT free .... ok .. it is ..... but it isn't ..... I'm sure you will find out yourself ... soon
I think that it is only free to send a "wink" or place someone on your hot list, but eventually you want to send a p-mail.
So you try out their silver or standard membership. It is a real meat market out there. And this meat market goes both ways.
A pooner has to practically take a picture of his vitals and then post them in order to stand out.