Addiction!

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Life is the biggest addiction you will ever have , and the most expensive and any other addictions you may have just come from how you relate to your life.
A few weeks ago , i wanted to say something about drug addiction, a few escorts i have meet have this problem, most do it just so the can get through the day and night, some do it because they want feel good about them selves, others just do it because the other girls and guys are..lets party.
And the truth is alcohol addiction is some thing that has pledged my family on all sides. I have been sipping the zinfandel lately ,but for the most part i have abstained from it all. Why because i know first hand what an alcoholic can do to a family , and them selves.
, I hate seeing people screw them selves up on drugs and alcohol.. in fact i don't really want to be round them. That makes it hard when you actually like the person a lot and like to be with them.
That being said , i also had to ask myself what is my addiction? Am I addicted to seeing escorts or is just wanting some companionship and a friend or two of the opposite sex a normal part of life's addiction. For me I find that I am more at easy in this enviorment of people that can talk about sex and admiting they want sex , with different partners then i even am with people that just put on a front( me included) but really are sexual beings . Of course there is healthy sexual behavior...and unhealthy behavior.
So what is addiction when everything we do costs us money, every thing we do is part of our life , and trying to cope. You can name almost any thing we do that can become an unhealthy addiction , when it starts taking away from us enjoying life, or it is a good addiction , if it helps us life life to the fullest with out regret.
 

chilli

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I've never had an addictive personality so it's very hard for me to relate to how someone can mess up their life like this.

The funny thing is the more you try and help the further you get pushed away.

So after a while you just stop trying....

You just think to yourself, well ok, enjoy your drugs...

I used to get mad at the person (s) who originally took them down this road to begin with, but then I realize it's a choice people make.
 

Aerts

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People use all sorts of things for addiction and escapism (to avoid their problems). I have seen people who use work, exercise, online games, internet, and other ways to avoid their life which become an addiction. Many people use alcohol, other drugs, sex, porn, pooning, gambling, etc. as addictions. It is up to the person to decide if they have a problem with something or not.

You can't get mad at people because they become addicted to something, some people just get addicted from their first try because it is their psychological make-up. All addictions are attempts to hide a deeper problem, I think they are just a symptom of the greater disease.
 
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