Addiction or Not?

[Pleaser]

Hi everyone

Would you say that this Pooning Hobby is an addiction?

I mean I have never been addicted to any thing in my life before so I am not sure if it compares to some addictions such as Alcohol/ ciggarettes/ drugs/ or others however it definately has an immediate power over me.

I need to Poon and sometimes often. The gems in the industry have caused me to continuously wait for my pay checks so I can Poon.

I do not want to sound like some Perv because I am not, I am a good looking guy however Its a hobby that I believe is turning into an addiction.

Saying this however I am not ready for AA and my 12 steps yet (laughing)

Pleaser

 

[afterplay]

Hi everyone

Would you say that this Pooning Hobby is an addiction?

I mean I have never been addicted to any thing in my life before so I am not sure if it compares to some addictions such as Alcohol/ ciggarettes/ drugs/ or others however it definately has an immediate power over me.

I need to Poon and sometimes often. The gems in the industry have caused me to continuously wait for my pay checks so I can Poon.

I do not want to sound like some Perv because I am not, I am a good looking guy however Its a hobby that I believe is turning into an addiction.

Saying this however I am not ready for AA and my 12 steps yet (laughing)

Pleaser

I don't think it's an addiction for me. I get out and play a couple times a year. But like any intensely pleasurable experience, some people may find themselves returning with a greater intensity. I'm not a psychologist/psychiatrist, so I can't diagnose whether or not you're addicted. Heck, I can't even define it for you. I can point you to wikipedia for a start though. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Addiction

If you're starting to think you're addicted then you might very well be. Certainly the waiting for payday to play is a hint along those lines. Ask yourself why you "need" to poon. Maybe seek professional advice. Or hang out with us in the lounges and bitch about your day. I think we can all understand the urge to go get some, I think a few members have experienced that urge becoming destructive, and I'm sure we'd all prefer it if the hobby stayed fun.

Maybe it's enough for you to take a time-out. Stay off the boards, stay away from the ladies, get a hobby that requires some discipline for a while. Dunno. I'm not competent to advise you on the matter beyond saying "If you feel this is becoming a problem for you, seek professional assistance."

 

[perbedm]

DOubt yer alone.

I can see that happening.. And I bet there are ALOT of guys just like you..
I was sorta like that, when I found the hobby and tried it.. Went thru a 2 month phase (2-3 times a week) going thru the popular girls on perb.. Im not sure if it was the 'act' itself that got me, or the curiousity of seeing these girls you've read about.. Still had lots of fun, but its deffinatly out of my system now.. Not that I wouldnt go again, Im sure I will but I dont have that urge/drive to go.. Like you still do

I would think it will eventually pass... If it goes a while, I'd consider going cold turkey. Anything that makes you behave compulsively, is'nt good..

S.

Hi everyone

Would you say that this Pooning Hobby is an addiction?

I mean I have never been addicted to any thing in my life before so I am not sure if it compares to some addictions such as Alcohol/ ciggarettes/ drugs/ or others however it definately has an immediate power over me.

I need to Poon and sometimes often. The gems in the industry have caused me to continuously wait for my pay checks so I can Poon.

I do not want to sound like some Perv because I am not, I am a good looking guy however Its a hobby that I believe is turning into an addiction.

Saying this however I am not ready for AA and my 12 steps yet (laughing)

Pleaser

 

[old pooner]

Confession

I confess. I am a total addict. I have been told (by a doctor) to contact a group for compulsive sexuals. It's like a slow build up. As I get farther along I find myself walking in areas that have SW's (I tell myself it's just to look - but it leads to contacting an SP for my "fix"), reading the ads in GS, CL, WE for hours and the need keeps building and building. Eventually I NEED PUSSY. I need to see it, touch it, taste it. I need to feel a girl's mouth around my cock. I have, at times blown an entire paycheque on ho's (and then spent the next two weeks eating plain rice and walking to work). Why the Hell am I posting this?

 

[Maury Beniowski]

It can be, but not in the same vein as substance or chemical dependency. It usually is a symptom of things just not being quite right in your life, particularly as it pertains to your partner, or even the lack of one. Once you address those symptoms head on, and treat the condition, such as looking for and/or finding a more suitable partner in your life, the compulsion subsides, with the symptoms not too far behind. It's easier said than done, mind you. It took me seven long years to get over it. I had to recognize my condition and develop a strategy to overcome it. Falling in love with the right person is a very effective cure...

 

[Chingada]

I can be, but not in the same vein as substance or chemical dependency. It usually is a symptom of things just not being quite right in your life, particularly as it pertains to your partner, or even the lack of one. Once you address those symptoms head on, and treat the condition, such as looking for and/or finding a more suitable partner in your life, the compulsion subsides, with the symptoms not too far behind. It's easier said than done mind you. It took me seven long years to get over it. I had to recognize my condition and develop a strategy to overcome it. Falling in love with the right person is a very effective cure...

Usually, sexual addiction has very little to do with your partner. It has more to do with your psychological makeup. How do I know? I've been to a psychologist who told me I was a sex addict and that I needed help. I've also gone to psychiatrists who, for the most part, have virtually no understanding of sexual addiction.

I went to a group called Sex Addicts Anonymous for some time and met some very interesting people, from all walks of life, who were addicted to sex for a multitude of reasons. It's extremely emotional to sit around a table with a group of strangers who open themselves up to you and tell you about their addiction and how it has adversely affected their lives.

It's a very powerful addition - as powerful as drug or alcohol addiction for some of us. I know why I'm an addict but I won't bother you with the details of my personal issues.

Patrick Carnes, one of the foremost authorities on sexual addition, has written an excellent book about it called "Out of the Shadows."

Best wishes to anyone trying to break their addiction.

 

[georgebushmoron]

If you are truly addicted to sex, then I'm sorry that you have such an affliction. At times I wondered if I was, and am glad to say that I realised I'm not. Instead I realised my addiction is in wanting women to tell me that I'm attractive to them. So instead I worked on getting that instead of getting sex. In the end it saved me a ton of money, validated me, and served my true addiction.

But I can see that being addicted to sex can be a very dangerous thing. Like any addiction, you'll probably have to hit rock bottom before you attempt to turn things around unless you can jump on it immediately with some hard therapy. By rock bottom when it comes to sex, I mean going flat broke or going for more and more risky behaviour like bbfs, or getting a nasty disease. Perhaps you'll have to be a brave soul like Chingada to face it like he did. Good luck to you friend, but be warned it's a path fraught with peril.

 

[87112]

Dont worry you'll stop


a. lack of money
b. found a real woman
c. boredom
d. impotence


Lets hope all men here see option b as their future.

 

[Lurker 123]

But I can see that being addicted to sex can be a very dangerous thing. Like any addiction, you'll probably have to hit rock bottom before you attempt to turn things around unless you can jump on it immediately with some hard therapy. By rock bottom when it comes to sex, I mean going flat broke or going for more and more risky behaviour like bbfs, or getting a nasty disease. Perhaps you'll have to be a brave soul like Chingada to face it like he did. Good luck to you friend, but be warned it's a path fraught with peril.

Hey GBM,it sounds like you are my addiction therapist. For the last 12 months ,I have spent over 20 gr for pooning. I am getting flat broke soon!

 

[georgebushmoron]

I confess. ...I need to see it, touch it, taste it. I need to feel a gril's mouth around my cock. I have, at times blown an entire paycheque on ho's (and then spent the next two weeks eating plain rice and walking to work). <b>Why the Hell am I posting this?</b>

Cuz you're so addicted to pooning, you even love talking about it and proclaiming it publicly. That's how far gone you are!

 

[Chingada]

If you are truly addicted to sex, then I'm sorry that you have such an affliction.

George, the addiction really isn't to sex, it's what sex does to satisfy that mysterious psychological need within me.

It's the same for everyone with addictions. For many men, and women too, who are sex addicts it's the rush you get prior to and during the act that gives you the buzz (it's called "Being in the Bubble") and once the act is over the guilt and shame set in.

I met a guy in Sex Addicts Anonymous who bought sex like me and we became good friends and still are to this day. He also bought sex and when we discussed our feelings prior to, during and after having sex with a woman we both had identical feelings. I knew it was wrong (I was married at the time) but once I got in The Bubble I didn't care. Afterwards however, I felt guilty about what I did, vowed never do it again ... but always did.

The addiction involves psychological processes that are triggered within you that are difficult to control.

 

[neo-matrix]

This was a big reason why i retired....the more and more I thought about it...the more it did feel like an addiction....almost everyone seems to have a vice or hang up about something and this was mine and even tho Ive had a blast Ive come to realize that unless I hit the brakes...I'll be digging myself into a hole that I may not be able to climb back out of

 

[rollerboy]

Would you say that this Pooning Hobby is an addiction?
...
I need to Poon and sometimes often. The gems in the industry have caused me to continuously wait for my pay checks so I can Poon.

Yes, that is addiction.

The desire to seek out and fuck pretty women exists for a very obvious reason. It's a primal biological imperative. Eating, sleeping, fucking.

I got in as a distraction from a bad break. Went at it obsessively now and again. And then one day, about a year later, it just stopped. She was so beautiful, and my last time with her bliss...I think she broke my poon-o-meter.

Next the "What the fuck am I doing?" moment hits me. I've been clean for almost 7 months. I get tempted occasionally. "God give me strength, but not yet..."

 

[old pooner]

Did it again

Now I've gone and booked with Dea and Szabina $$$$$. AM I FUCKING NUTS (or just super horny - at 55)???

 

[logsplitter]

I restarted this hobby about 16 months back. 15 years ago I also did this for a year or two. Each time I would say I was quickly addicted to the hobby. The last time (15 years back) it ended when I found a great lady (thru normal dating) and settled down. This time I found my pooning to be very intense for a while with many ladies (just like last time). Then I found one SP that I connected well with and I settled down to fun times with her. She often books off for the afternoon and our 1 hr. session becomes a visit between friends with fun mixed in. While I would have self diagnosed as being adicted I sure lost interest in multiple sp's week after week when I found a lady that I really liked that showed an interest in me also.

SP sex is way better than relationship sex. For my part I always come clean and neat and very presentable and in the mood for getting as much sex as I can from a lady that I percieve as very beautiful and sexy. As a SP professional they present the same. Therefore sex with a SP is usually fun and exciting.

Relationship sex can be less exciting because neither party is always fresh as a daisy when they are in the mood and they can also be tired and ready for bed to go to sleep. It also takes two people equally in the mood and prepared to put in the effort for great sex for it to be over the top! I think that sex would be a lot more fun and the engine of every relationship if both the lady and the man treated it as a special event more often booking off prime time for it and putting in the extra effort to make it an over the top special fun time mutually with their partner.

 

[pooner144]

For me, I'm not so sure it's an addiction but rather a way to fill an emptiness of some sort. maybe your SO isn't so interested in sex, difficulties in the relationship, that kinda thing. If you're single it's just an easy way to get some without a hassle. Actually, I do believe that's one of the reasons for me. It's simply a lot less work and effort. I can visit someone at any given time, drop a little cash and she's there, ready, willing and able to do virtually all I want. No waiting, or asking or anything. It's an easy thing to do.

 

[Gentleman First]

Now I've gone and booked with Dea and Szabina $$$$$. AM I FUCKING NUTS (or just super horny - at 55)???

Damn am I jealous of you.....those are two smok'n hot ladies!

I sure wish i was in your shoes that day....have fun...I am sure you will

 

[old pooner]

Damn am I jealous of you.....those are two smok'n hot ladies!

I sure wish i was in your shoes that day....have fun...I am sure you will

I jacked off twice just reading a review of those two.

 

[n2supersymmetry]

Now I've gone and booked with Dea and Szabina $$$$$. AM I FUCKING NUTS (or just super horny - at 55)???

heh heh ... still got a little ink left in that fountain pen heh ... allllrriiiggghhhtt gigidygigidygiiigiiiidddyyy