Thanks for the info and good points but that doesn't apply to me at all. I've been in the hobby long enough to realize how it works and understand this isn't where you look for a soulmate or girlfriend. I would also never go with anyone that isn't well reviewed or give out any personal info just like a normal interaction in this hobby. It's just a bucket list thing for me and I'm trying to hammer out a few off the list before I retire from the hobby and settle down. I just want to try something new and see how it goes but good advice for anyone new and checking out the thread.
By the way I do know a guy who's a friend of a friend and he actually let some girl take control of all his finances. It was just some girl that he barely knew and she very quickly took control over his life so that he would hand over his paycheques to her and she'd decide how it got spent. Pretty sad situation but I'm not that type of guy lol.
Thank you Yes Bigbutts2 that is why i posted this so than anyone .Who may have the quality's that these predators look for would not be taken in . Unfortunately it is Olney clear to the predator and the victim if they are made aware of the scam who the potential target will be . As we are talking about looking for a certain type of mental condition. so that unlike a limping deer that both the hunter and the wolf can see . I am guessing that you could not see the Qualities in your friend of a friend that this woman who he gives his paychecks to had seen
heres a story that illustrates what i am talking about I call it "I am glad i don't have it "
this happened at Aquarius before the fire .
I saw a tall very in shape man with what i later found out from this forum was a woman advertising her services on back page . They walked into a room she was fully dressed. With the exception of her shoes which she was holding in her hands . A few minutes later I saw her running out of the room With her still fully dressed holding above her head what looked to be a mans wallet.
With the tall man running after her with just a towel on she then ran out the door and left him.
A couple of nights later I saw a woman in her 60's with a small nude man with a dog Collar on.
She told me that she was a Dominatrix of some sort.
As if the small nude man with the dog Collar and leash that she was holding was not evidence enough of this fact. I then saw the tall in shape man once again . The elderly Dominatrix. told her slave boy to wait in their room. .As she approached the tall in shape man she said " some guys have it and some guys don't"
I thought she was talking about him being in better physical shape than me or her slave .
I later found out From reading the ball forum . That her and the tall in shape man where in some sort of full time DS relationship They where going to give a workshop at the kink community's annual fall from grace event That would involve the the elderly Dominatrix standing over the tall man and urinating into his mouth .
as i said in the start of this story " I am glad i did not have it" what the elderly Dominatrix was looking for . As well as what the rip off artist from back page was looking for.
Don't remember much about the back page girl .Except that she was the first one That I had ever seen used the term "Italian services " which I think was ejaculating on her ass or something .