Accuracy and quality of reviews

logsplitter

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While I have frequently posted reviews after only one or two visits with a lady over the last year I have come to learn that a more accurate review follows several visits. While 'one offs' are of some value (particularly if they are negative) they do not give a reasonable picutre of whether YMMV from one visit to another as is sometimes the case.

Sometimes while YMMV is an issue other things that I/you become aware of other than the fun part (may give rise to concern about repeating) and may cause me to not review favorably even if the service is tops. Once I found myself having posted a favorable review of a lady only to wish I had never done so as the result of a subsequent visit/s that was/were less than favorable. Like many others I presume I have learned well here not to post the negative stuff.

On the other hand 'one offs' when put together with other reviewers comments can bring back balance but I believe that most poons do not put up the negative comments, in part, in fear of the ladies wrath or fellow pooners taking cheap shots at them. In such a world where negative reviews are less likely to get posted I presume the lack of reviews is a good indicator that the lady is not worth seeing particularly if she has been around for a while and conversly lots of reviews and favorable comments can reasonably be interpreted as favorable. Having said that there have not been many reviews of some of Winnipeg's finest ladies recently on here and they probably deserve current reviews.

For my part I intend to not review anyone anymore unless I have seen the lady 3 or 4 times or if the session was really bad I may consider inviting the wrath of the lady (and her friends, in the business, as well) and the less favorable comments from fellow pooners and post a negative review. I have noticed that some poons have long since adopted such a reporting system which makes their reviews even more valuable and the ones that report most every conquest in its best light as marginally useful but entertaining none the less.
 

Avery

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You make some very valid points.

There are some ladies out there who are very YMMV, not only with different clients, but also on different days with the same client. While minor variation from one time to the next is just human nature, major variation can be a sign of a serious problem such as drug use or bipolar disorder. I haven't run into anything like that myself for a long time, but it certainly exists.

A reviewer is probably more likely to get flak from other pooners for a lukewarm review than an outright negative one. Last year, I got flak from a couple of members for a lukewarm review of one of their favourites, even though I didn't attack the lady, nor did I question the more positive experiences claimed by her fans. I attributed the so-so experience to a lack of chemistry between us. When I posted a very negative review of another lady last winter, there was also a shitstorm, but it resulted in that lady being banned.

Negative reviews are much harder to write than positive ones. The reviewer has to resist the temptation to attack the person, and concentrate on what made the experience negative. He also has to determine whether the bad experience resulted from a bad attitude on the SP's part, or poor chemistry. Ultimately, the purpose of the review is to give other pooners sufficient information to make their own decisions, not to promote or trash the SP.
 

Avery

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rob9593 said:
The only time I wouldn't write a review is if you've already reviewed a girl, and then seen her again and the service hadn't changed.......
That's my policy also. I only review a lady once, good or bad. If the first time is bad, I'll never repeat. If it's good, I'll only review her again if the service deteriorates significantly. That's never happened to me.
 

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The sum of all probabilities

When researching an SP, it's best to read as many reviews as possible. A lady may have ten positive reviews and one negative, that doesn't mean the negative was written by a liar or someone with a grudge. She may have treated them all the same, but for one guy, that wasn't what he wanted. Maybe she doesn't do greek, and for the first ten guys that was no big deal, but for the last guy, it was a mission-critical service. Or the first ten like curvy girls, but the last one likes spinners and thought she was a cow. Same girl, same service, but different points of view.

I just don't like the way some guys take the whole experience so seriously. Like the guys who are in a big dilemma over seeing girl A or girl B:see them both and make up your own mind. In fact, if you're new to this activity, the best thing is to see as many different SPs as possible, because only you can judge whether they are right for you. And when you find one you really like,and you repeat with them, things will get better as you both become more comfortable with each other.
 

Avery

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westwoody said:
When researching an SP, it's best to read as many reviews as possible. A lady may have ten positive reviews and one negative, that doesn't mean the negative was written by a liar or someone with a grudge.
Exactly!! In such a case, always check the record of the odd man out before jumping to conclusions.
She may have treated them all the same, but for one guy, that wasn't what he wanted. Maybe she doesn't do greek, and for the first ten guys that was no big deal, but for the last guy, it was a mission-critical service.
He should know in advance about something like that, especially if he had read ten reviews. It might be fair to say he was disappointed because of that, but it wouldn't be fair to give her a poor review on that basis alone.
Or the first ten like curvy girls, but the last one likes spinners and thought she was a cow. Same girl, same service, but different points of view.
Again, true, sort of, but he should have a pretty good idea of her actual body type before booking her. He only has a right to complain if her photos and/or posted description are obviously inaccurate. If they are inaccurate, he should just say that she doesn't match them and why, not call her a cow, beached whale, etc.
 

therealrex

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Fuck all that YMMV and having a bad day shit. If you had a bad experience feel free to write about it. If no one else agrees with you it will become obvious very quickly. No SP has ever lost very much business from one bad review by one person. This is a review board so go ahead and review
 

Avery

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I agree too. Just don't call them nasty names if you're not happy. Explain why it was a crappy experience.
 

WinnipegCharlie

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YES, I am retired, so don't ask. But I do still read the board, and I couldn't help not comment on this thread.

IMO, this board is a chat board. Which I actually think there is nothing wrong with that. I mean lately you have people on here posting messages to other members that should have been sent in a pm. The pooners give reviews, all usually very positive because they are scared to put down what they really feel for fear of being bashed by SP or other members. So what's the point of putting up reviews. Everyone makes up their own minds anyway. YMMV right?

All you need to know as pooners is: is she bait & switch, are her pics accurate, is her service good. Do you really have to give a harlequin romance type review of every single move that was made, every moan, every orgasm? If you want to share intimate details, send them in a pm for the SP's sake please.

Also as for discretion, this board makes it very difficult to have that. I have seen posts on here about someone asking how to get a hold of an SP that hasn't been around for awhile, and someone posts what hotel she is in and the room number!!! Also, I have seen posts asking about retired SPs and a member posting where he saw her and where she now legitimately works!!!
IMO that is very wrong!! I hope everyone keeps these things in mind when posting information. As you can tell part of the reason I left this business is because of this board.

That's all. Back to your regularly scheduled program. Flame away.

C
 

Avery

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Charlie, I see no reason at all to flame you for your post. I saw nothing offensive in it, and I agree with most of it.

It is totally unacceptable for anyone to post personal information about SP's or pooners on the board. It's not only rude and possibly dangerous; it's against board rules.

Re details in reviews, I don't agree entirely with what you said. Some details are necessary because otherwise, the reviewer just looks like a shill for the SP (or a negative shill). Most shill reviews are short and lacking in detail. Details enhance the credibility of the reviewer and pique the interest of other pooners who are deciding whether or not to see a lady. At the very least, a review should state, either directly or indirectly, what activities were performed.
 

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I'm with Rex & Slothy on this

therealrex said:
Fuck all that YMMV and having a bad day shit. If you had a bad experience feel free to write about it. If no one else agrees with you it will become obvious very quickly. No SP has ever lost very much business from one bad review by one person. This is a review board so go ahead and review
Gotta go with these two gentlemen on this one. :)
 

logsplitter

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I agree with Avery. Some detales are very important. Pierciengs and tatoos are one example but comments like Avery once made about a lady being quite tight and another pooner who commented on only being able to 1/2 stroke with a certain lady due to percieved vaginal capacity are important. Does she allow a lot of touching, intimate touching, oral touching? Even the big O comments and whether it was delivered with vocals are all things that may lead another poon to have fun or not with a certain lady. Does she ride the pony or lay there, doggy standing up, Chinese cowgirl etc. etc.??
 

westwoody

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Damien Jones said:
Gotta go with these two gentlemen on this one. :)
You guys missed my point.
There are no guarantees in life, and an SP may do a hundred great sessions with all kinds of guys but you may be the one that she doesn't click with. It doesn't mean you're an asshole or she's an asshole, it just means that things didn't work out. Go ahead and post that it didn't work out and specify why not. But don't act like it's the end of the world because you had one bad date.
Certain crybabies have PM'd me to give me shit for giving good reviews to women they have gone to see and had not-so-great experiences with. If you can't afford this,don't do it, don't go crying that someone owes you two hundred! Every single woman has had a bad session at some point, if you can't risk that then forget it.That's why I posted this.
 

Avery

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westwoody said:
There are no guarantees in life, and an SP may do a hundred great sessions with all kinds of guys but you may be the one that she doesn't click with. It doesn't mean you're an asshole or she's an asshole, it just means that things didn't work out. Go ahead and post that it didn't work out and specify why not. But don't act like it's the end of the world because you had one bad date.
Exactly right! I click reasonably well with most ladies, but not all. Last year, I posted a rather lukewarm review of such an experience. It wasn't a bad experience, just not as good as some others, because we didn't click very well.

One complicating factor is that the fan clubs of some SP's attack the reviewer even if he doesn't attack the SP in question and reports his experience honestly. Either they can't read, or they're in thrall to the lady, and interpret even fair comment as a personal attack on her. That's why I've said elsewhere that negative or lukewarm reviews are harder to write than positive ones.
 

therealrex

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westwoody said:
You guys missed my point.
There are no guarantees in life, and an SP may do a hundred great sessions with all kinds of guys but you may be the one that she doesn't click with. It doesn't mean you're an asshole or she's an asshole, it just means that things didn't work out. Go ahead and post that it didn't work out and specify why not. But don't act like it's the end of the world because you had one bad date.
Certain crybabies have PM'd me to give me shit for giving good reviews to women they have gone to see and had not-so-great experiences with. If you can't afford this,don't do it, don't go crying that someone owes you two hundred! Every single woman has had a bad session at some point, if you can't risk that then forget it.That's why I posted this.
I think you should send me 2 hun for having to listen to your drivel
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