Here is a bit of a warning to the girls AND the guys out there. Don't date people you meet in this buisness.
I am lucky enough to be working for a really great place where they have so far tolerated me but unfortunately there are some men who just don't realise it doesn't make them a bigger man to abuse (physically, verbally, emotionally). their girlfriends just because they are in this buisness and happen to enjoy it.
For a year now he has been monitoring this board, allowing me very BEGRUDGINGLY to work and blaming all our problems on the fact that I work. To compensate, I have had to kiss his ass daily with laundy and lunches to go to work and homemade meals but all that has done is make me into a flake at work and has never fixed our relationship.
I'm always a "hooker" in his eyes (I suppose because we met one another that way), and I had never EVER brought up the "client" thing to him at all. Relationships are always a two-way street and beating on a girl is never a cool way to handle things. Just tonight, after I had the turkey dinner that I cooked thrown in my face, did I "man the fuck up"(as Denzel would say in Training Day), and decide to leave this disaster. I guess I'm just a bag-lady now!!!!
I guarntee that I have not been the easiest person to be/live with but there comes a time when someone has to be the bigger person and end things.
The working girl/client thing takes a big big person/s to deal with. I tried to be big about it on my end but it always takes two to tango. He wants me to be Sally Homemaker on one hand and then super porn slut on the other but I am not buying into that anymore. It worked for a while........we had some fun
I wish him all the best and think he has alot to offer or else I would not have spent an on-and-off year with him. I hope he finds the stripper/chef/homemaker/carpet cleaner/entrepeneour/ WHATEVER that he craves and may even really deserve. The guy is a bit "confused". Strippers/escorts are NOT GENTERALLY Martha Stewarts nor are they the best Sally Homemakers....we try.....but perfection is never REALLY our strong suit. I used to call us Bert and Ernie. I am the ERNIE....he is the uptight Bert. But no worries...there was no unibrow. . I doubt Martha has had the turkey and gravy thown in her face. She'd probably sue. And what a waste of potatoes right????
Sorry. I'm a bit mad for having turkey and mashed potatoes chucked in my face.
Happy ending is I got a thanksgiving dinner.
I think it always sucks when the guys show no emotion when you break up.......
The happy ending is too that I DID get my thanksgiving dinner....just thrown at me after LUGGING the damn 50 bags from Urban Fair and cooking the flipping turkey for 5 hours. From what I saw it tasted good.
Krista, thanks for being my buddy through this shit.
SMOOCH to all you lovelies (no throwing mashed potatoes or turkeys.....its messy!....I had to clean the damn stuff up!)
So into a nice hotel I go....silly bastard made me turn off my site too....grrrrr.
Oh well.
I'll be back!!!!!!!
SMOOCH!
(licking turkey off her face)
I am lucky enough to be working for a really great place where they have so far tolerated me but unfortunately there are some men who just don't realise it doesn't make them a bigger man to abuse (physically, verbally, emotionally). their girlfriends just because they are in this buisness and happen to enjoy it.
For a year now he has been monitoring this board, allowing me very BEGRUDGINGLY to work and blaming all our problems on the fact that I work. To compensate, I have had to kiss his ass daily with laundy and lunches to go to work and homemade meals but all that has done is make me into a flake at work and has never fixed our relationship.
I'm always a "hooker" in his eyes (I suppose because we met one another that way), and I had never EVER brought up the "client" thing to him at all. Relationships are always a two-way street and beating on a girl is never a cool way to handle things. Just tonight, after I had the turkey dinner that I cooked thrown in my face, did I "man the fuck up"(as Denzel would say in Training Day), and decide to leave this disaster. I guess I'm just a bag-lady now!!!!
I guarntee that I have not been the easiest person to be/live with but there comes a time when someone has to be the bigger person and end things.
The working girl/client thing takes a big big person/s to deal with. I tried to be big about it on my end but it always takes two to tango. He wants me to be Sally Homemaker on one hand and then super porn slut on the other but I am not buying into that anymore. It worked for a while........we had some fun
I wish him all the best and think he has alot to offer or else I would not have spent an on-and-off year with him. I hope he finds the stripper/chef/homemaker/carpet cleaner/entrepeneour/ WHATEVER that he craves and may even really deserve. The guy is a bit "confused". Strippers/escorts are NOT GENTERALLY Martha Stewarts nor are they the best Sally Homemakers....we try.....but perfection is never REALLY our strong suit. I used to call us Bert and Ernie. I am the ERNIE....he is the uptight Bert. But no worries...there was no unibrow. . I doubt Martha has had the turkey and gravy thown in her face. She'd probably sue. And what a waste of potatoes right????
Sorry. I'm a bit mad for having turkey and mashed potatoes chucked in my face.
Happy ending is I got a thanksgiving dinner.
I think it always sucks when the guys show no emotion when you break up.......
The happy ending is too that I DID get my thanksgiving dinner....just thrown at me after LUGGING the damn 50 bags from Urban Fair and cooking the flipping turkey for 5 hours. From what I saw it tasted good.
Krista, thanks for being my buddy through this shit.
SMOOCH to all you lovelies (no throwing mashed potatoes or turkeys.....its messy!....I had to clean the damn stuff up!)
So into a nice hotel I go....silly bastard made me turn off my site too....grrrrr.
Oh well.
I'll be back!!!!!!!
SMOOCH!
(licking turkey off her face)
