A week with an ATF on a tropical island

[Sydney]

Provisions often need to be made to deal with responsibilties left at home while a Companion is away working. Some of these may be childcare, elder care, pet care, mainting properties or other businesses one has, responsibilities to volunteer work or clubs that one is a member of.

As well as the more personal things that Isabelle mentioned such as having difficulty sleeping away from home or away from ones' SO, missing ones' pets and forfeiting one's cherished time alone or a good night's sleep. And in many cases even having to lie about where we are going. I'll add that ones' diet and exercise can also be adversely affected.

There is also, as Missy mentioned, the loss of continuity in business ie: regulars may look elsewhere while you are away, the Companion's advertising dollars are not being put to use.

It is these things that, I am sure, is what was meant by "inconveniences". All of those things are made to be more livable when the compensation is right. None of the ladies here are saying that a Companion feels inconvenienced when travelling with a client. And certainly if one feels inconvenienced to go, they should not be going. But simply, provisions for those things need to be addressed before setting sail and that is one of the reasons why we ask the fees we do. That, and well, you have all heard it before, paying for companionship/intimacy is a LUXURY. Luxuries are usually expensive.

Given the choice, with the pay being the same, between having to make provisions for all of those things to faciliate working away from home on a travel date OR staying home to work at my usual pace, I would surely stay home.

It has nothing to do with how much one would like the travel destination. Most people like to travel. It is a moot point when one is being paid to work while they are travelling. We all know many men who work in construction (and such) who get paid premiums for being away from home. There are many other examples of those who ply their chosen profession away from home and get compensated greatly for it.

make no mistake, it is 24 hours of work.

Sincerely, Sydney xo

 

[trentanator]

i would like to add a comment here

I think if i were to come into the kind of money required to have a sp travel with me

i would like to structure it like this

most of the time while at the resort or where ever she is doing her thing i am doing mine

ie i would be golfing most of the day on a world class golf course hoooyaaa!!!

she would be doing the spa thing or touring around seeing the sites


there would be maybe a day or two ot sight seeing together but that would be discussed before hand


then starting at dinner whether it would be dining in the room maybe once or twice and at the resturants she would accompany me and then mostly inseperable til the morning

and no i dont mean sex all night maybe two sessions at the very most and that would be maybe only once or maybe twice during the whole trip depending on the length on the trip

then just spooning and cuddling all night sleeping in the same bed


now does this sceanrio sound reasonable?


go ahead girls put your two cents in as i would like to know if i am on the right track here

basically i mean as i realize some girls are not going to be ok sharing the same bed all night and such

 

[chuckanut]

well, i'm not a baller like a bunch of u on this thread. but if i did have the cash on hand, it'd be like this.

say over the course of a week. scheduled sightseeing and other touristy things together. dinner together would be a must. but breakfast and lunch are negotiable.

i would pick up all meals, transportation, and anything else with sightseeing. but the sp would bring her own spending money. she would be free to do whatever she wants during the day for at most 2-3 days prior to dinner. and of course going to clubs together as well after dinner.

session wise... well i'm a horny fuck. but i'm not there to make her my sex tool. but 4-5 sessions throughout the week would be great. plus a couple mid-day bbbj's wouldn't hurt.

and lastly... and i think the most important... sleep in separate rooms. i learned this one the hard way going to mexico with one of my good friends. he annoyed the shit outta me b/c of all his lil quirks. needless to say, we haven't been as tight since.

so dinner... club... session.... sleep.... then maybe b/fast together the next day.

oh and no hooking up with other gents while on my dime. but i don't mind her dressing up sexy as shit and just taunting them. but she leaves with me boys. haha. my two cents.

-chuck
**retired**

 

[Evilsince81]

I'd kill to find a good travel buddy.. SP or non-SP they're few and far between!
Toured Europe last summer solo just because nobody could get their act together and go.
Ah well....

 

[69alldaylong]

I'd kill to find a good travel buddy.. SP or non-SP they're few and far between!
Toured Europe last summer solo just because nobody could get their act together and go.
Ah well....

That's kinda what I was also thinking about...I only started pooning last year and made a couple of trips with two different SP - one was so-so and one was alright. But, the thing that kills me is I cannot afford both the rates quoted by the SP and be able to travel to some of the exotic places over a long period of time. So, instead, I've been thinking is it possible to travel with a fellow pooner to new places and try out the local talents? Unfortunately for me, my real-life buddies don't do this pooning and don't know that I do either.

I have never been to Japan, South Korea, Thailand, Brazil, other South America and hot caribbean places, not to mention the European red light districts, etc. It would be a far more affordable tour-food-golf-sex-vacation if the right buddy is found. Also, there is no need to "act" in front of a SP and vice versa 24/7. Not to mention that sometimes it is easier/bolder to try new things with a buddy and having someone to watch your back in a foreign land. Of course, many pitfalls of incompatibility and clash of characters would also exist. Or, is the majority of pooners tend to be lonewolf by nature and therefore, this travel pooning buddy thing is unthinkable...?

 

[island-guy]

I'm just gonna post one last comment then I'm done with this thread. I've given what info I have to contribute from my own personal experiences. What I said wasn't unproven theories, it was ideas based on experiences and then later proven true (for me) with further experiences. Debating the theoretical merits of the method is of limited value when it works every time it is used correctly.

My one last piece of advice is this:

While the price that a particular girl charges for a particular service is always set by her and only her and that makes perfect sense as she is the vendor and the price is set by the vendor, always remember this:

When you want to buy a car, do you ask a car salesman how much to pay? Or do you look for the advice of others who have bought the same car in the past?

If you are curious about whether or not you should negotiate for the price of a car, do you ask the salesman if he thinks you should negotiate? Or do you ask for the advice of others who have negotiated (or not) when buying the same car in the past?

In the end, it's all supply and demand. In some situations the vendor has the leverage and in some situations the customer does. Know the difference.

When the person on one side of any business negotiation is treating it like a business transaction, and trying to maximize their end of the deal and the person on the other side of the negotiation isn't thinking of it like a business transaction and is letting their emotions cloud their judgement or is thinking with the wrong head, who do you think is going to get the better end of the deal?

And remember, when someone's doing something because they are getting paid to do it, and they wouldn't think of doing it without getting paid to do it, they are treating it like a business transaction or a job. (that isn't a bad thing, in fact it's quite an obvious and often necessary thing in this hobby) The difference between a so/so SP and a great and successful one is not that the great one doesn't think of it as a job or a business transaction, it is that she maintains the illusion of doubt and the client is able to forget that it is a business transaction and is subtly and subliminally encouraged to do so (see previous paragraph).

 

[ziggy101]

Very interesting thread

What an awesome dialogue! I was considering asking an SP accompany my wife and I on a beach vacation coming up soon. I neglected to consider some valid points that were brought up here.

My idea was that I would cover the cost of the trip (All inclusive 4.5*) and take a few excursions, if she wanted to join she could. I wasn't looking for arm candy - I have that already. If she wanted to vegitate on the beach with a drink in hand... so be it. I was only looking for two sessions throughout the week at night (which I would pay the usual rate) My wife likes to shop... I hate it. I wanted to take in some ruins and be adventurous... my wife would rather hang out by the pool and look at boobs.

I now realize this was a pipe dream, and as though I was in a corny infomercial offering a testimonial.... Thanks Perb~ for showing me the light!