A virgin with a twist

[ThatShyGuy]

Ok, so I’ve been reading this forum over the last few weeks and I’ve decided it’s time to lose the big “V” in about a week or two. Here’s the twist - I’m kinda handicapped. Not to the extent of needing a wheelchair or anything but technically still handicapped. The problem with this is I don’t drive so I think that might rule out MP’s. Which kinda sucks cuz I’ve had my eye on a few of them (Josie, Lilith, Tiara @ Legends, Carmen @ Legends). The only other option would be to find an SP who does outcall because she’d need to come to me. Here’s where I need help from you perbs.

Is it safe to get an outcall to your home? I don’t wanna get robbed lol

here are my preferences

• under 26 (I’m mid 20’s)
• short/tall doesn’t really matter
• blonde/brunette preferred
• MSOG would be nice! lol
• sorry if I can’t ask but any girls at MP’s wanna make an exception? haha!

Anyways, any help would be appreciated! Thanks!

 

[mookster]

If you are uncomfortable having someone to your home and can't drive, why not use public transit or take a cab? You have already committed to spending money... just spend a bit more.
Having someone to your home shouldn't be a problem... the only caution would be call someone who is well reviewed and respected here (stay away from unknowns at this point.)
Good luck and have fun.

 

[DQ Guy]

Luck would have it for you.
Josie is now working as an Indy.
not sure about outcalls but it can't hurt to check out.
Just stay away from most of the CL gals

 

[trawler]

Mookster's Advice is Right On

Well reviewed outcall SP's will be safe or take a cab.

 

[ThatShyGuy]

Thanks for the advice everybody! I kinda figured the well reviewed SP's would be the safest route to go but you never know, right? and I'm assuming it wouldn't be good to PM any of the girls on perb?

DQ Guy: I'll definitely have to check out the Indy situation. thanks

Missy Mariposa: I'm not sure how I'd be able to prove I'm disabled lol


but VFM are there any SP's you guys could recommend?

Anyways, I guess I should do a little more research! thanks again!

 

[ThatShyGuy]

just an update

I'm not sure if anyone will read this but just thought I should give a little update. I guess this is kinda like an almost-review

It's been a week since my previous post and in that time I did a little more research. I figured my best bet would be to stick to CL even though most of them are scams (from what others say on PERB). But after seeing what was available and reading reviews here, I narrowed it down to one girl - Kristy. Despite my best efforts to get passed my nerves to call her (I texted her a few times first) things didn't go so well. The first time I called her and she asked me to describe my handicap, I could barely get words out. She told me to call her back when I figured it out. My nerves kicked my ass again and it took about 30 minutes or so just to call her back. The second call lasted about 5 seconds. I'm not sure if she hung up on me but I called her back. The third and final time I called, I said "hello?" and before I could explain my disability to her she replied with something like "yeah, I don't think I can book you. I'm not comfortable with it". The thing that bugs me though is I couldn't explain it the first time. It's not her fault. I could hear it in her voice that she was trying to be nice about it. And it didn't help that the first call was such an awkward conversation. Thinking back on it (this happened about an hour ago), maybe she thought I was LE or a reporter or something cuz of the way I answered some of her questions. I can guarantee I'm not either of those.

If you're reading this Kristy, I'm sorry that I was stumbling for words. I guess I lived up to this username, eh?

 

[trentanator]

maybe some of the girls on here

could pm this guy and ask some questions break the ice a bit for him

and then when they both comfy and secure they could talk on the phone

and arrange a little something something

 

[trentanator]

or even

"shy guy" you coud pm some of the girls on here and ask if they would be willing to have you over for a little something something

try the following

Josie
Sandy at supreme

those are two who i would recommend to satrt with but the whole world of perb is your oyster

browse the ads (don't forget the travelling girls)

post a review when you get a little something something

 

[namssa]

Give this a try

Also, I think it would be a good idea to stay away from the CL girls, and most of the Escorts in the area. Generally speaking they are very hit and miss (as you found out) and many are just after your money and to get the hell out as fast as they can.

This being your first time (losing the V), and a handicap, plus being very nervous and shy I would like to suggest you stick with a well reviewed and respected lady from PERB. There are likely many here that can assist you, don't be afraid to PM a few, build a rapport, explain your concerns and then when you are comfortable, you can give her a call.

There are MP's, Indy girls, and traveling Indy girls that you will get a lot of mileage from and they will treat you well and respect your disability.

Just my thoughts for the OP.

 

[tammy_angel]

in my defence

This is kristy and I just want to say that I was nervous going to see the gentlemen who said he was handicapped ... I asked him what he ment by it? I asked him if he was in a wheel chair and he said no .... so I didn't know if he was mentally handicapped or physically handicapped ..... now doing what us girls do, is already dangerous enough ... i felt very uncomfortable so that is why i didn't see him. I'm not trying to be a mean girl but i am trying to keep myself as safe as possible. As for the V guy who commented about me ... you had people in your house .... now that obviously didn't help the situation ... and you looked 16! How was I supposed to know your mother wasn't the one wondering the halls .... I know I saw your ID but it was just uncomfortable. Now before anyone starts bashing anyone I just think people should take the time out to call me and see me and make they're own opinions of me not just based on what someone else says!!! I'm a nice person and if I'm treated good I treat you good!! It's a two way street. I'm honest and I can't please everyone. anyways thanks for listening ... btw im now offering in calls =)

<3 kris

 

[amanut]

Well Said.

The other side could have been that you said "yes", took his money and left. Good on you Kristy for your response and your concern for safety.

 

[Bobo The Rabbit]

How can you be Handicapped and not able to describe your disability or "prove it", what are you developmentaly challenged?
If so that's all you need to say, however you write at a level that's effective enough.

Since you said you can't prove to a girl your disabled then you obviously have no physical deformitys, since your not in a chair you obviously can move around normaly, so how does your disability effect your seeing a SP?

Everyone has told you what to do, go see a well
Reviewed girl yet instead you chose to dick around and do exactly what you were told not to do. In doing so your wasteing the time of everyone here and yourself.

10 months and you can't figure out how to hand a woman cash for sex...

Seems to me all your doing is attention whoreing here and have no real intentions of seeing a girl.

 

[schizo_man]

How can you be Handicapped and not able to describe your disability or "prove it", what are you developmentaly challenged?
If so that's all you need to say, however you write at a level that's effective enough.

ya know bobo I've always thought you were a bit of a dick but this time you have outdone even yourself. You obviously have no insight what is it like to live with a disability. I can't speak for the original poster of course, however I have one as well and I can speak from my own personal experience. Have you ever had to explain to someone why you aren't "normal"? Society already judges people with disabilities harshly, seeing and treating disabled people as "less than". Add to that the difficulties in meeting people of the opposite sex to have a sexual relationship with, coupled with a speech problem.... Sometimes it's easier to write down your thoughts than to speak.

you said you can't prove to a girl your disabled then you obviously have no physical deformitys, since your not in a chair you obviously can move around normaly, so how does your disability effect your seeing a SP?

Bobo if you drive, it's amazing you can see, what with your head up your ass and all... Just because he's not in a chair doesn't mean that he can't get around easily. Perhaps he cannot enter a MP discreetly? perhaps he's rather noticeable? canes, crutches, walker..... etc.

has told you what to do, go see a well
Reviewed girl yet instead you chose to dick around and do exactly what you were told not to do. In doing so your wasteing the time of everyone here and yourself.l.

you chose to read and respond......

10 months and you can't figure out how to hand a woman cash for sex...

Seems to me all your doing is attention whoreing here and have no real intentions of seeing a girl.

Bobo, fuck off. Maybe you need to go and deal with your own issues.

 

[Bobo The Rabbit]

If he has crutches or something that would impair him from easily going into a MP then he could clearly show the girl his disability, HOWEVER notice HOW HE said he can't prove his disability? That rules all physical and VISIBLE impairments out.
Also crutches or anything like that would not be an issue since there is no one around the back doors of a MP come 10pm on a Tuesday, unless he is also going in. No one will see him go inside.
Obviously you do have a disability yourself that's why you were unable to understand what the OP said and how my response was right.

Now that leaves mental issues/disability.

So is he unstable? Quite likely.
A speach impairment is not something that will stop one from seeing a SP.

He was told to just PM a good SP here on PERB.
How hard is that?

Hi BLANK
I am interested in seeing you, I would like a hour of your services at my home/I would like to see you in the MP you work, also so you know I have a disabilty BLANK.
I hope that won't be a issue, however if it is I respect your staying within your comfort zone.
Thanks
AttentionWhoreingGuy

Did he do that no.

If he is suffering from a mental disability then that would be something one can't prove easily, however that would not impair him from going to a MP. So why doesn't he?

So next time you want to challenge my opinion you might want to learn to read first.

If someone has a mental disorder that pervents them from driving/getting on a bus(call ets 24 hr ahead and they will arange for the right bus)/taken a cab then it might not be safe for any girl to spend a hour with the guy alone as she may not want to be the one calling 911 if he has a episode and there he is naked and then she has to deal with EMS.