I wish it were true that the police would be helpful, unfortunately it is after a crime has been committed that the police are able to act. They are almost useless in prevention.
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A Valentines Day Encounter to Forget...
- Thread starter Miss Zoey
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Hey Zoey! Terrible you have to go through this But I agree with the posters here that suggested you go to cops!!
He's harrassing you and Stalking you! Thats a crime! It's that simple.
Not getting away from the point but do you have a Bodygaurd at least??
Stay safe!!
He's harrassing you and Stalking you! Thats a crime! It's that simple.
Not getting away from the point but do you have a Bodygaurd at least??
Stay safe!!
I was seeing this girl at a massage parlour one time and her obsessed stalker showed up. I was forced to hide out in the laundry room. While screaming from this stalker outside our room pounding the door. Afterwards the guy was beat up by a bunch of working girls there and a bit of blood on the floor . Just becareful these guys are sometimes insane.
. Just becareful these guys are sometimes insane.Becareful of that guy and becareful of that bunch of working girls also! They sound kinda insane too. Blood on the floor!! Damn! I wouldn't want to mess with those ladies.I was seeing this girl at a massage parlour one time and her obsessed stalker showed up. I was forced to hide out in the laundry room. While screaming from this stalker outside our room pounding the door. Afterwards the guy was beat up by a bunch of working girls there and a bit of blood on the floor
Shiva aka...
Miss Zoey,
You had a "working" encounter with someone whose behaviour was unacceptable to you and you asked him to refrain from contacting you again. The fact that he approached confronted you somewhere other than your workplace is irrelevant - he specifically discounted your request for no further contact. No still means no.
As well as the aforementioned personal security devices, be alert.
Go to the police to establish a record of his infringement of your stated request to refrain from contact.
Be vigilant and note/report situations where you may see him in your vicinity.
Be careful.
Miss Zoey,
You had a "working" encounter with someone whose behaviour was unacceptable to you and you asked him to refrain from contacting you again. The fact that he approached confronted you somewhere other than your workplace is irrelevant - he specifically discounted your request for no further contact. No still means no.
As well as the aforementioned personal security devices, be alert.
Go to the police to establish a record of his infringement of your stated request to refrain from contact.
Be vigilant and note/report situations where you may see him in your vicinity.
Be careful.
If your encounter with "Shiva" was anywhere near a Bernard Callebaut Fine Chocolatier...
He was purchasing some Valentine's Day truffles for me as a gift for me, his preferred Valentine of the evening, prior to an extremely fine dining social engagement.
He did mention to me that he had bumped into you, (after all the women he has seen), I'm sure he seemed to you, caught unawares, (like a deer in the headlights?) and slightly embarassed while trying to recall your name and respectfully saying a simple hello.
I have had many communications with "Shiva" that tried several times to "reserve" an appointment with me in-between my trips abroad and that also suited his schedule.
On Valentine's Day, he managed to actually talk to ME and not my voicemail and we conversed for awhile...He was a tad sad that his favorite SP was busy at work and we eventually decided to make a two-part appointment. The first on Valentine's Day for a dinner arrangement. The second, for an early morning appointment the following day. He was hesitant about asking me a question and simply put, asked..."Do you know who I am?" He was astonished that I did, and asked how...and that I still agreed to see him. I wanted to experience what all the "HOOPLA" was all about!
I found nothing abusive, intrusive, disrespectful, violent, slanderous, stalker-type personality...(wasn't too long ago, I had a serious one, last year to be precise) and as a matter of fact, just the opposite...
He goes out of his way to please and stimulate in all aspects of his character, both physically and mentally. Very much a respectful gentleman. I personally would not turn down another request for an appointment from Shiva.
In any case, I will certainly post anything that may be leading up to and bordering on mental dysfunction and admittance to the 4th floor!
Shiva in my personal "evaluation", is a full-fledged pleaser, a hopeless romantic, "Addicted to Love"...and finally diagnosed by me as "Lookin' for Love in all the Wrong Places".
Good Luck Shiva on your Love Quest!
Just my .02 sense
Well, I am glad to hear that you didn't have a bad experience with him
.However, as a fellow sp who's seen him, as well as spoken to well over 10 different ladies who have also seen him, please be very careful continuing your relations with this guy
.He seems "totally normal" in the beginning but over time turns into a real nightmare for some
.Shiva
Are you absolutely positive that Shiva was STALKING you ?
That is quite a strong accusation.. is there is no way it could have been A coincidence as ashley has mentioned that he was picking up chocolates for her ?? . I have met with shiva and I wouldn't say that he exhibits any of these behaviours. I do know however that sometimes us girls in the industry can be (have to be in some cases) a little paranoid and not always as understanding as we can be towards the men that we meet. Like i mentioned I have met with shiva and i found him to be charming and respectful. And to some of the posters with so much to say we were not there at the scene.. all I know is that if I really felt threatened I wouldnt have to ask for advice. I would know exactly what to do. It wouldnt have to involve trying to just embarass someone !!
Are you absolutely positive that Shiva was STALKING you ?
That is quite a strong accusation.. is there is no way it could have been A coincidence as ashley has mentioned that he was picking up chocolates for her ?? . I have met with shiva and I wouldn't say that he exhibits any of these behaviours. I do know however that sometimes us girls in the industry can be (have to be in some cases) a little paranoid and not always as understanding as we can be towards the men that we meet. Like i mentioned I have met with shiva and i found him to be charming and respectful. And to some of the posters with so much to say we were not there at the scene.. all I know is that if I really felt threatened I wouldnt have to ask for advice. I would know exactly what to do. It wouldnt have to involve trying to just embarass someone !!
That's just it, he is very charming, respectful & seemingly harmless
. Aren't those the ones you need to be the most careful with .Just because he didn't exhibit any of these behaviors with you or anyone else, doesn't mean he isn't currently exhibiting very dangerous behavior with someone else (whom I've spoken with). To the point that when I read what was written, it got me very very worried
, as in call the cops NOW worried!!!I know that my statements about this issue are strong but there is a hell of a lot more going on here than just "public misconduct" to Miss Zoey & myself
.Also, an agency wouldn't ban him from the premises unless there was a very real threat
.Amen, Audrey. I hope denial won't fog reality and common sense, with tragic results... for everyone's safety. I know it won't for me...That's just it, he is very charming, respectful & seemingly harmless
Just because he didn't exhibit any of these behaviors with you or anyone else, doesn't mean he isn't currently exhibiting very dangerous behavior with someone else (whom I've spoken with). To the point that when I read what was written, it got me very very worried
I know that my statements about this issue are strong but there is a hell of a lot more going on here than just "public misconduct" to Miss Zoey & myself
Also, an agency wouldn't ban him from the premises unless there was a very real threat
