A txt from an sp out of the blue
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I never did it and I would never do it. If I'm really horny I just take care of myself but I would never initial. That's just me
Yep! Just get poonerphone and say your boss got it for you, a work phone is pretty common.
Also, keep it stashed in a safe place and switched off unless you're trying to book an appointment or expecting a reply from an SP.
1. don't use an iPhone as a pooner phone
2. pull the SIM card when not using the phone
3. don't put an SD card in a pooner phone
Why would you not use an Iphone ? Just curious, as I do know it seems to "know things" !
I don't have a seperate phone, so I do use my work / personal phone. Which happens to be an Iphone
My SO & I have an unspoken rule that we don't answer or look at texts. I usually leave mine upside down, & tend to have it with me or off alot of the time.
I do have a nosy Sister though, so if she's around I keep it close.
You mean you don't have a rule.
Verbal/written agreements are broken all the time. If it's not even articulated, it does not exist.
Why can't ppl just use email? That's what I do with my clients and never a problem there. Problem solved
Do you think the trusting relationships argument holds when we respond to somebody who didn't want his SO to see texts from SPs?
Did you say about the right to privacy, when your SO's clients had none? iirc your case was used by some SPs as an example of breach of privacy they'd never do.
Fair enough, it was a long time ago. At least I hear a hint of admission your practices were not always a good example to others.
No doubt you helped people. On other occasions, like in the context of this thread, your statements can be damaging.
Imagine somebody listens to your warm words about trust in relationships. Instead of at least putting a lock code on their phone. A depression later, 50% assets down or worse, will it look like a good advice? From an alleged security/privacy expert no less, who should know better. Technical tips? Useful. Life lesson comments made for the sake of sounding good? Not so much.
Perhaps I wasn't clear in the post.
It is a business.
So I say to you:
1. Go start a busuness
2. Go sell tgat business
3. Come back in 3 years to PERB and write the honest truth about how things went
Lots if 'horror stories' from typical business owners too.
Most of the time I hear these sob stories about the SP industry its all chalked up to someone trying to make 300/hour without know how to make 300/hour.
This is what we here in the sob stories. And here is tge solution.
Oh someone tried to pimp me - call the police
Oh someone didn't want to pay - call the police
Oh someone got aggressive - call the police
Oh I got a stalker - call the police, use business phone, use business location.
I cant call the police - pay your escort license fee, then the police HAVE to respond.
Alot of these you could just hire a bouncer for and only call police for serious situations.
Oh the client was smelly/disgusting - refer client to your webpage with the visitor expectations section.
I can go on but what it comes down to is that this is a business. And business have expenses to run properly. So expenses eat away at that 300 pretty quickly. Which means you might only be net 40-60 per hour. Still higher than most jobs. So go work at an agency that already handles this stuff.
Now, if you put in the effort, you do lots of work yourself, you vet clients to save on bouncer, rent, other problems. Ya, you can rake in 10grand per month.
So not much sympathy here for people who want to make lots of money but dont even want to pick up a book and learn how.
sadly no one would know whether he was being honest or not, debate over whether or not they were to be trusted or just marketing themselves somehow would ensue
We can all tell the difference between a provider who has spent several years building her brand, getting good reviews, and putting a lot of time and energy into making a a successful business and the occasional lady who thibks its easy.
Sometimes someone makes a post making fun of the ones who dip their toes without really trying. The girl who posts her photos and then henscratches out her face, then demands 1k maybe but wont do bbbj. Once the ad has been up for a week she'll realize how hard it really is
Sometimes someone makes a post making fun of the ones who dip their toes without really trying. The girl who posts her photos and then henscratches out her face, then demands 1k maybe but wont do bbbj. Once the ad has been up for a week she'll realize how hard it really is
I usually get texts from SP when they start working. for that day or returning from vacations. I got a text one night tho telling me that she was very horny, but... i had work next day(so I made it up next weekend with a over night)
A provider who is years in the business of giving bbbj's is generally a turnoff for me, too many miles.
