A session went wrong... why?

[HB40]

What I still don't understand, is why she hasn't replied to my e-mail.
I think that my e-mail was polite and courteous that would deserve a reply.
Does this have to do with the girl showing no good manners, or there is something else that is holding her back from answering?

Quote:
“On my way home I was thinking at what happened tonight.
What I can say is that I'm sorry if you felt judgment in my words, it was not meant to be.

Regarding my initial comment about you walking out the balcony in your underwear, please consider that I don't even walk in my underwear alone in my house... different background - different behavior. Hence my comment (not a judgment).

You are certainly a very sensitive woman and the topic of our discussion was not appropriate.
From my side, I have to say that I was surprised by your reception, and I didn't react well... sorry.”

I don't see anything in your e-mail that deserves a reply, you were polite and courteous but you made a statement of apology that can be intrepreted as putting the incident to rest. She could acknowledge you with a reply but as it is likely you will never see her again she probably just doesn't want to bother. It's over, move on.

Or.....She's too busy e-mailing with all the other guys who do like her naked.

 

[kodiak_bear3]

I don't see anything in your e-mail that deserves a reply, you were polite and courteous but you made a statement of apology that can be intrepreted as putting the incident to rest. She could acknowledge you with a reply but as it is likely you will never see her again she probably just doesn't want to bother. It's over, move on.

When she offered to come again for a free session, she knew that she was holding my money without title. I would have expected her to reply and mention something about it. That's all.
I would decline an invitation to go back, but I may accept a proposal of full or partial refund. That would be the proper way to handle the situation given that, in the heat of the moment, not all actions may have been properly handled.

 

[lenny]

I would decline an invitation to go back, but I may accept a proposal of full or partial refund. That would be the proper way to handle the situation given that, in the heat of the moment, not all actions may have been properly handled.

What would be "proper" about declining an "invitation to go back" for the
free session she offered? Her body doesn't do it for ya? Didn't you see
her pics on Facebook before you went there?

 

[HB40]

When she offered to come again for a free session, she knew that she was holding my money without title. I would have expected her to reply and mention something about it. That's all.
I would decline an invitation to go back, but I may accept a proposal of full or partial refund. That would be the proper way to handle the situation given that, in the heat of the moment, not all actions may have been properly handled.

Yep, don't hold your breath. You just answered your question.

 

[wilde]

我不會停止談

你的中文非常低能, 你食蕉啦! 契弟

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[lenny]

你的中文非常低能, 你食蕉啦! 契弟

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"Your Chinese is extremely feeble-minded, you eat broadleaf plants! Sworn brother"

http://www.worldlingo.com/en/products_services/worldlingo_translator.html

 

[lenny]

我不會停止談，因為我知道它使您困惱。 當我使您困惱時，我是愉快的。
您有低精子數。您有小陰莖。 婦女不喜歡您的小陰莖。 婦女嘲笑您的小陰莖。

"I cannot stop discussing, because I knew it enables you to be vexed. When I cause you vexedly, I am happy.

You have the low sperm number.You have the small penis. The woman does not like your small penis. The woman ridicules you the small penis."



http://www.worldlingo.com/en/products_services/worldlingo_translator.html

 

[xoxo Amie]

I don't have the time and inclination to read through 8 pages of bear being ridiculed for getting ripped off...

他不是男性的. 他沒有勇氣，并且他沒有男子氣概.

He is not masculine. He does not have the courage, and he does not have the male spirit.
http://www.worldlingo.com/en/products_services/worldlingo_translator.html

... but Sperminator, "Confucius you are not." lol

... and making fun of the poor bear's manhood in a foreign language doesn't make much sense... does bear even know chinese?

you guys are funny lol

 

[kalel]

Why would she want to respond? She's already scammed you. Would an armed robber reply to your emails or phone calls about returning the stuff he stole from your place?

agreed. but much like willingham (or whatever his name is) the white knight beleives that all hardships should be cast on the man not the sp and then figure out what went wrong.

 

[mercyshooter]

“Are you comfortable in your underwear out on the balcony?”

That's a total mistake. I never initiate anything like that. First, offer her blankets or towels or whatever to cover her. That's how you roll. Treat her like your girlfriend but respect her decision. And then see where it takes.

 

[letitrock]

My quick 2 cents on the whole thread.

The OP should have declined the appointment within the 1st few minutes as it seems pretty clear that he was turned off/not interested in the SP from the start.

If the SP became uncomfortable & asked you to leave IMO, she should have refunded either part or all of the donation.

*I've had to ask a client to leave on 2 occasions (weird vibes right away) & refunded the whole donation as no services took place.

Once the SP asked you to leave, you should have followed her instructions & not tried to talk about her decision further .

I hope your next experience is better.

But how do you go about telling a SP that you're not feelin her without sounding like a dick?

 

[letitrock]

That's a tricky one .

I'm sure there are some that would get offended no matter how you went about it & others that wouldn't get offended.

How about "I'm sorry, I'm just not feeling it or I was expecting something else, or I'm feeling too nervous, etc.

Speaking for myself, I would prefer the client be upfront & decline if he wasn't feeling it.

I don't know if that helps at all .

That totally helps, I think the "I'm feeling too nervous" is the safest one. It doesnt indicate that they're not attractive, but more that the customer just isnt ready

Thanks for the response

 

[Krustee]

I have enjoyed your polite correspondence in the past Krustee, but forgive me, I didn't realize that I had seen you .

You should have revealed who you were in session.

Its always nice being able to put a face to the handle .

I rarely use my handle with those I see.

Especially those who are active on the boards.

Believe it or not there are some here who would not see me if they knew my handle before hand?

How crazy is that eh?

 

[sirlickheralot]

Amen

Every single time a SP asks you to leave without any service, and without any refund, it is an intentional rip-off. There was never anything for her to "talk over" so you wasted your time asking. She wasn't scared or afraid or truly upset or she would have said "here's your money, please leave or I'll call the cops". You KNOW she was trying to rip you off!

Most logical and unbiased post by a SP in this thread. Don't really understand everyone trying to look for any little reason to defend her behaviour. Every dollar that goes into the pocket of a scammer is one less dollar that goes in to the pockets of the honest SPs out there.

 

[hawkervac]

let us know

i agree with massagegirl totally scammed. kodiak you are a dick you come on here and tell this story and not willin to let the rest of us know so we can get scammed aswell well guess what bud thats what this board is all about. thanks for nothin. believe me if i happen to get fucked over by her for somee stupid chance i wont be a pussy like you. no harm to the girl, but there will be one motherfucker of a scene, believe me, from one guy to another you deserve a punch right in the head

 

[kodiak_bear3]

Breaking news... she replied to my e-mail

Just got an e-mail from her today:
"Thanks sweetie, Call me if you want to try again."

Although in normal circumstances I wouldn't go back, the curiosity of seeing her again is intriguing. I will think about it.

BTW, I don't agree with those who have too easily judged her as a drug addict. While I was there it never occurred to me that she may have addictions (besides smoking cigarettes).

 

[Im Cuming]

Just got an e-mail from her today:
"Thanks sweetie, Call me if you want to try again."

Although in normal circumstances I wouldn't go back, the curiosity of seeing her again is intriguing. I will think about it.

BTW, I don't agree with those who have too easily judged her as a drug addict. While I was there it never occurred to me that she may have addictions (besides smoking cigarettes).

Is this on the house?

 

[Krustee]

Just got an e-mail from her today:
"Thanks sweetie, Call me if you want to try again."

Although in normal circumstances I wouldn't go back, the curiosity of seeing her again is intriguing. I will think about it.

BTW, I don't agree with those who have too easily judged her as a drug addict. While I was there it never occurred to me that she may have addictions (besides smoking cigarettes).

I am sure all of these posts have made her quite happy.

 

[hawkervac]

go for it kodiak

i hope u go kodiak, man the fuck up and get what u deserve, someone who might just lick those raisins u apparantly have instead of a set of balls.

 

[Fullhouse]

Breaking news...she replied to my e-mail
Just got an e-mail from her today:
"Thanks sweetie, Call me if you want to try again."

Although in normal circumstances I wouldn't go back, the curiosity of seeing her again is intriguing. I will think about it.

BTW, I don't agree with those who have too easily judged her as a drug addict. While I was there it never occurred to me that she may have addictions (besides smoking cigarettes).

Breaking news....she knows a sucker when she sees one !!!!!!!!!!!!

Are you serious about the curiosity of seeing her again is intriguing????????? Boy, you need help, or you are just glutted for punishment.

You sent her an e-mail that's about 8 lines long, saying you're sorry she felt judgment in your words, another sorry 'cause you didn't react well. Not a word about the promised make-up date, not a mention about the money.

Then it only takes her approx. 12 days to reply. And what a charming, concerned and friendly reply that is. Makes you want to drop everything, have a shit, shower, shave and shampoo, grab a few browns and greens and race over to see her.

A total of 10 words in her e-mail.--- I'll add a few that she neglected to put in there.

Thanks sweetie, for being such an easy mark and such a gentleman when I kicked you out.
Call me if you want to try again for the same action you got last time, and the same donation. Oh sweetie, after you pay me again, could you please leave after the first time I ask you to, I hate it when I have to ask 3 or 4 times.

BTW, you don't agree that some judged her to be a drug addict, 'cause it never occurred to you that she was.
A lot of us also judged her to be a rip-off artist.--- Did that ever occur to you?????? Obviously not, 'cause I'm sure you've already made another appointment with her.--- Good luck, we're all waiting with abated breath to read another drama that will mirror the first one ------- yah, right.