A Question

[WinnipegCharlie]

Do you think men play into the "dumb plaything" scenario. It seems to me thats the way it is. If you are too intellectual, they arent interested, but as soon as you act like a stupid Ho, they are in.

Just my opinion.

What are your thoughts.

 

[Avery]

I can only speak for myself, but I can't stand that kind of woman. I find smart much sexier than dumb, and women who dumb themselves down for men fare even worse than the naturally dumb ones. I think some women dumb themselves down because they think that's what men want, and they don't know how to flirt.

Rightly or wrongly, I judge posters here on the quality of their posts - not just the message, but also the quality of the writing. If an escort's posts are incoherent and full of errors, I'm not likely to want to see her. I may be wrong in presuming she's not very smart, but that's the way I think.

I also find that sex tends to be better with smarter women than with not-so-smart ones. It's probably because smart people have more confidence, and confident people are naturally sexy.

 

[WinnipegCharlie]

Thanks Avery, I appreciate your opinion!!

xoxoxoo
Charlie

 

[tom25]

I'm totally with you on that Avery. There is nothing sexier than a smart woman. I love flirting with a woman that can come back with a sharp, smart witty retort. Dumb giggles I can live without.

Stay smart Charlie ... dumbing down is beneath you!

Tom

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

Dumb?
Bring her on!!

 

[Justin Case]

Being a simple insecure human being with problems of my own; I sometimes "thimk" that smarts are over-rated. I usually "thimk" this is the case when some brainiac uses his or her brains to make you look or feel stupid or foolish.
That is the last thing I need when I just want to unwind and have some stress relief from a SP.

But seriously, when I really think about it; I would have to say that brains are a good thing to have for anyone, male or female. After all, stupid people probably cause a good percentage of the problems in this world.

As for SP's that pretend to be dumb; I can only say I haven't met one yet that was dumb or even pretended to be dumb. I don't know how I would react if that happened. I like blondes and I like curvy women but I don't think you'll see me asking on this board for the names of any dummies who are providers. It might be exciting once to have an SP pretend she was Marlyn Monroe (you know , the dumb blondes she usually was cast as). As a fantasy that might be great, but not something I would want to repeat too often. I am more interested in someone who will be nice to me and make me feel comfortable. That is an art in itself.

 

[WinnipegCharlie]

thanks all!!

well, this has been interesting, i appreciate your opinions and comments.

Keep it real

xoooxoxo
Charlie

 

[WpgTrucker]

I agree with you on this one Avery, a smart, quick witted woman who can carry on a good conversation is a definite turn on. I don't want to hear about all thier problems, I have enough of my own. I don't need any more stress in my life, I need my stress level lowered not increased.

WT

 

[Chantal]

Well!! There is by the book smart (university) and there is life skills smarts.I personally have met some people that have degree's but they are by the book and that is it"which i call narrow minded" and there is people who do not not have that degree but can blow the socks off your feet with their "wisdom"My grammar is not the best because my first language is french but my spelling is mediocre.When it comes to "problem solving "I know I do not need a Degree in psychology and I also beleive we can learn something new from anybody on a daily basis.Which is the beauty of our "Part-time Hobby" being SP'S.I am always learning...and that IMHO..

 

[Chantal]

Well!! There is by the book smart (university) and there is life skills smarts.I personally have met some people that have degree's but they are by the book and that is it"which I call narrow minded" and there is people who do not not have that degree but can blow the socks off your feet with their "wisdom"My grammar is not the best because my first language is french but my spelling is mediocre.When it comes to "problem solving "I know I do not need a Degree in psychology and I also believe we can learn something new from anybody on a daily basis.Which is the beauty of our "Part-time Hobby" being SP'S.I am always learning...and that IMHO..

I also believe if a person is judging and pointing a finger there is three pointing back at them..

 

[Chantal]

I'll agree to disagree.I am a girl from "Winnipeg Town"...I would not put anything past anyone...To each his own...I would not see a man that is crude or rude...obnoxious..or arrogant...

 

[paigesplaymate]

I'll agree to disagree.I am a girl from "Winnipeg Town"...I would not put anything past anyone...To each his own...I would not see a man that is crude or rude...obnoxious..or arrogant...

Chatal I agree I would not see them either knowing there handle. I have ran found out after getting to locations that some of the guys who are rude are some of the most passive guys there are. Sometimes the computer isnt the best place for ppl like me to be as I don't leave people with a good impression.

 

[Chantal]

Paige!! I've corresponded with you enough to be able to say you are a Class Act!!Who gives a rat's ass if people .. judge you only after ... a few posts on this board.....F$#% T$@^# if they can not handle the truth...

 

[paigesplaymate]

Paige!! I've corresponded with you enough to be able to say you are a Class Act!!Who gives a rat's ass if people .. judge you only after ... a few posts on this board.....F$#% T$@^# if they can not handle the truth...

I care a little bit, I don't want ppl to think Im some leakin peckered sleeze ball or some jarlicking lesbian who tries out her girls. I forget sometimes if I piss someone off the girls pay the price too..
As far as some on this site.. Well lets just say I would rather have a yeast infection than spend two minutes of time with them. Days like today though its raining and its all about causing shit!! Something to keep me busy so I can avoid cleaning the house.. Im thinking of taking up stalking as a passtime. Now just who to stalk?
And thanks BTW , so when are ya coming out so I can line my pockets??? (kidding) Joke from another edmonton thread

 

[Mchatte]

Help, we're getting pretty darned complex. Personally, I would never judge an SP by her spelling or grammar. Sometimes mistakes are made when people are in a haste. The only possible judgement I would make whether it be an SP or other poster would be in attitude.

If someone displays arrogance and disrespect to any other poster, then that is a person I have no interest in meeting.

The answer to the question is that yes, I prefer my SP to be smart, witty, intelligent and have a great sense of humour. The SP I see now on a regular basis makes the "down" time so enjoyable that I almost forget the reason I went there in the first place.

For example, people may judge me by my posts to be a person that does not know how to be serious. Well, serious and responsibility is my profession and I get enough of that without milking my brain some more on perb. However, what you see in my posts is pretty much me. Good or bad? Well, let's just say I'm not here to create a new character. Much easier to be me than to be someone else.

M

 

[logsplitter]

I can enjoy a vist with a lady that has a lower IQ if she is attractive and makes the best of what she has intellectually and she is clean and respectful. Sadly in this business low IQ and low self esteem sometimes go hand in hand with a low-tack style lady which I find repulsive. I say I can enjoy but I will add that I am less likely to repeat.

I think smart ladies have a greater potential to be safe and that is very important. They also are more enjoyable to converse with and have more self confidence, self awareness, a better self image and generally are more open minded and adventurous.