A Lecture from GBM

[georgebushmoron]

I'm fucking pissed. Some of you guys out there need to learn a lesson.

I'm not going to mention names, neither the pooners nor the SP in question. Some moron pooner was stupid enough to state that an SP provided bbfs. I happened to be visiting her that very day and I saw first-hand the reaction. She was devastated. It looked like she was going to kill herself. Such an allegation is not to be taken lightly at all, and the posting of it on a public board is a serious matter.

One thing you guys have to keep in mind is that even a girl who is an SP has a reputation worthy of protecting. Perhaps you don't think she does, or perhaps you had not bothered to consider that such a thing exists for an SP. Don't go imposing your own sense of worthlessness on someone else; just because you pay for her services does not give you the right to make such a claim true or false. Bbfs is a serious allegation with a terrible stigma. It ostracizes her from her peers, it shames those near to her, it marks her with a number of terrible terrible names I don't even want to speak them. In case you need an example to make you understand, the nearest thing I can think of for a guy would be publicly calling a guy a pedophile.

I've railed against this in the past, and I will continue to do so more now. Mention of bbfs should be automatically deleted and the pooner banned. I've given plenty of reasons before, and now victimization of the SP is yet another reason why this practice of posting this has got to stop. You the Mods may not have seen the wisdom of my suggestion, but how many of these girls' reputations have to be destroyed before you finally catch on. "Freedom of Speech / Freedom to Know" was the basic reason given against my suggestion, but let me tell you here and now there is no true freedom without responsibility. And since posting on this board is essentially an anonymous activity even if you have a username, no one can truly be held to account, so thus no responsibility can be had. Since no responsibility can be had, the freedom should also be taken away.

I hope you all heed my advice this time.

 

[Quarter Mile'r]

I'm so with you on this one!

The Sp in question (And don't even Fucking think of PM'ing me for her name)
happended to be a regular at one time for a few months.
She asked me never to post a review of her and I did not just out of
respect for what is a sweet and sensous human being.

I phoned her about it and like GBM said , can any of you contemplate
what devastation feels like?, she walled me off like the berlin wall
and couldn't even talk. God I hope she heels from this.

Ya she's an SP that you can buy services from, it sure as hell
doesn't mean that we have to degrade them to that point in a
public forum where they going crying out into the street.
For Christ sakes these girls are human too.
Fucking Christ am I pissed right off !!!

Wise UP !!!

...............QM'r

 

[Herb_The_Perb]

Is there at least a partial solution to this?
If we can prove that the guy's claim wasn't true, is there a way to ban him (or at least his computer) permanently?

 

[ace85]

Prove his claim was true.

So you think the claim that the BBFS story was a lie is untrue?

 

[t1163]

Sorry, but I have to anoy the GBM!

What's the difference between GBM and a pimp? GBM types his threats to Jon's and a pimp does it face-to-face. Get a grip GB. Most people don't take that shit seriously - why are you? Every time you get back up on your soap box I'll be there to try and knock you off... or at least shake it a bit to scare you!

 

[Ilovethemall]

........and

........and what if it was true?

 

[ace85]

I really don't care if it is true

Becasue with an SP I will be doing Full Service with a cover.

So it doesn't matter to me.

 

[Ilovethemall]

no no no

I didn't mean what iif it was true - would I do it....I would not, not now, not ever. I meant what if it was true and peopple want to shoot the guy that posted it? Don't quite seem fair now do it?

 

[georgebushmoron]

Why is it all you guys seem to care about is whether or not it was true?

My point is not that. My point is, true or not, posting such things is bad for the SP. It makes it difficult for her to work in an MP environment with other girls, who suddenly will make her feel like shit. It makes it difficult for her to look her boss in the eye. It makes the freaking telephone ring off the hook looking for her, and making the other girls pissed off. It makes it difficult every time a pooner visits her because there will be pressure for her to cave in to whatever he wants. Think about it from her point of view, which is why I posted what I did. Alleging an SP does bbfs victimizes her!

 

[Quarter Mile'r]

The Sp in question (And don't even Fucking think of PM'ing me for her name)
happended to be a regular at one time for a few months.
She asked me never to post a review of her and I did not just out of
respect for what is a sweet and sensous human being.

I phoned her about it and like GBM said , can any of you contemplate
what devastation feels like?, she walled me off like the berlin wall
and couldn't even talk. God I hope she heels from this.

Ya she's an SP that you can buy services from, it sure as hell
doesn't mean that we have to degrade them to that point in a
public forum where they going crying out into the street.
For Christ sakes these girls are human too.
Fucking Christ am I pissed right off !!!

Wise UP !!!

...............QM'r

One word...............EXACTLY !!

iF IN DOUBT READ THE ABOVE AGAIN!

 

[Ilovethemall]

hmmmmmmm

GBM, you are usually more logical than this. Assume for a moment it was true - not saying it is but since I know neither party, I cannot judge the validity.

If it is true and since it damn well causes a potential health hazard, I would want to know so I could avoid it. We all know (or we fucking ought to) that none of us are the special ones - "I only do this for you" - if you buy that, then I have a really nice plot of land in N.O. that I would like to talk about.

So, if someone is doing bbfs and it gets posted - well, it is unfortunate but the fact is that it puts all our health at risk, more so than the risks everyone takes already. If people think there are no risks, then please refer to my comment on land.

And besides, just deny it, after all, we all know that everything posted on these boards is bullshit.

 

[ace85]

GBM, you are usually more logical than this. Assume for a moment it was true - not saying it is but since I know neither party, I cannot judge the validity.

If it is true and since it damn well causes a potential health hazard, I would want to know so I could avoid it. We all know (or we fucking ought to) that none of us are the special ones - "I only do this for you" - if you buy that, then I have a really nice plot of land in N.O. that I would like to talk about.

So, if someone is doing bbfs and it gets posted - well, it is unfortunate but the fact is that it puts all our health at risk, more so than the risks everyone takes already. If people think there are no risks, then please refer to my comment on land.

And besides, just deny it, after all, we all know that everything posted on these boards is bullshit.

Your head is in the sand.

You are taking risks everytime you see an SP. If you take care of your safety you are fine. Do you think SPs divulge everything about their personal lives. They could very well have boyfriends who have un protected anal on a regualr basis.

Look after your safety, and don't wait for others to give you tips on whether you are safe with an SP or not.

if you are repulsed by the idea of KISSING an SP who was licking someguys asshole 15 minutes ago, you are in the wrong hobby.

Plus think about what you are willing to do in a personal relationship with a new partner (assuming you have those). what did she do yesterday? You have no fucking clue.

Why do you think reputable clean SP's are safe with everyone as a rule.

I am clean, never had an STD, have been checked ever 6 for the last 8 years, I could totally have UNPROTECTED sex with anyone and give them nothing other than a good time.

The only people I will do that with are those who I beleive to be clean and safe. That involves trust, and some sort of history.

DO you think FORREST GUMP though Jenny had AIDS when he was with her. God no she was on a pedestal to him.

You have to protect yourself.

But trying to determine safety based on what you think an SP does with other clients is a waste of your time.

There are lots of SPs out there that have put themselves at some risk with me (no real risk to me). But I am not going to tell anyone about it. It was the SP's choice.

Like I said you really need to think of the worst if you want to protect yourself.

 

[Ilovethemall]

agreed

.........and on that note, I am going to walk away from this whole thing....there is a war brewing here and I am heading in the other direction with no comment.

 

[ace85]

There is no WAR

GBM is simply calling out POONERS that get off on telling cute little stories.

My bet is there are low end providers that offer BBFS.

My second bet is the POSTERS that are talking about getting BBFS from anyone in the $100+ crowd are full of shit.

 

[rockyy]

GBM is simply calling out POONERS that get off on telling cute little stories.

My bet is there are low end providers that offer BBFS.

My second bet is the POSTERS that are talking about getting BBFS from anyone in the $100+ crowd are full of shit.

Who exactly is the moron pooner, and wherë/how was this malicious gossip spread? Expose the guy so he can defend his claim or eat it.

There's one of him, and many of us...some of us lawyers with skills in cross examination. If he`s wrong, then he's wrong. Alternatively, if he's right, he's right.
Am I right or wrong, gentlemen of the jury?

 

[georgebushmoron]

Who exactly is the moron pooner, and wherë/how was this malicious gossip spread? Expose the guy so he can defend his claim or eat it.

There's one of him, and many of us...some of us lawyers with skills in cross examination. If he`s wrong, then he's wrong. Alternatively, if he's right, he's right.
Am I right or wrong, gentlemen of the jury?

Again, I say right or wrong, fact or fiction, does not matter. What an SP does is at her discretion. Where the problem lies is if the pooner publicly posts that he had bbfs with an SP who he identifies. The public posting of such a highly sensitive act victimizes the SP.

Judging whether the act was fact or fiction is besides the point. Both victimize the SP. If it were fact, then she has a potential health hazard and must live with the dire social consequences of everyone knowing she does something deemed very stupid. If it were fiction, she still has to live with the same social consequences but also defend herself against pooners who will now pressure her to do this very act or other unhealthy acts.

When a pooner posts, why is his focus completely on himself? Should he not also be concerned for the welfare of the SP?

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

What`s the difference between GBM and a pimp? GBM types his threats to Jon`s and a pimp does it face-to-face. Get a grip GB. Most people don`t take that shit seriously - why are you? Every time you get back up on your soap box I`ll be there to try and knock you off... or at least shake it a bit to scare you!

I whole-heartedly agree with GBM. Perhaps you don`t take it seriously, but the SPs whose livelihood it affects take it mad fuckin serious. I`d be more than pleased to meet you in person to discuss this matter.

As for GBM, if ya got a beef, post it in that thread, instead of opening up a whole new can of worms with a new one like this. No point drawing more attention to the matter. That`s almost as dumb as posting a link to the thread in this forum, like this:

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=35206&page=1&pp=15

 

[HowieMeeker]

My bet is there are low end providers that offer BBFS.

My second bet is the POSTERS that are talking about getting BBFS from anyone in the $100+ crowd are full of shit.

Ace 85 and all 84 before you, I am not full of shit and the ONLY time I have been offered (and turned it down BTW), BBFS has been with higher priced SPs. And, yes, MORE THAN ONCE. Will admit one was someone I had seen a few times but the offer still stunned me.

Will not mention names, locations or dates as I agree with concept that such is bad news. HOWEVER, don't start implying that because someone charges more that they are "safer" as while it may be true sometimes, it is not an absolute.

 

[t1163]

Fact or Fiction hey?

GBM - "Fact or Fiction it victimizes the SP"?? That is the dumbest thing you have said to date... and you have said alot!! You have to drop the GB part of you name before you post another of that quality.
It is all about Ass isn't it? Either kiss it or kick it! GBM kisses it -- Fuzzy kicks it (see his threat posted above) I, myself, am smart about it -- so you can call me the 'smart ass'.

 

[junior brown]

I agree

I agree with hattrick here, if an sp provides bbfs i would like to know about it so i know not to go near her. I know this hobby has risks im not a fool but then again pickin up and fuckin chicks you just met at a bar is just as risky even riskier in my mind( i dont even like to think about some of the pigs i barebacked when i was hammered).Anyways i see gbm's point of view also but if this sp or any sp for that matter proveds bbfs she's out of her fucking mind and any grief she gets from someone posting that here well it's her own fucking fault.

If someone is gonna lie about recieving bbfs there just a fucking loser and they should get a fuckin life and on the other hand if they did get bbfs they're insane and should give their fukin head a shake.

I will say i do feel bad for this particular sp, she is a very nice person but i won't be seeing her again even if theres a chance she gave someone bbfs cause if it happened[theres no reason to believe the guy was lying], i highly doubt he was the only one.