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Because of the recession maybe this should be a $300 question.

Would anyone be willing to offer some friendly advice to a rookie?

Say you've got $300 to spend on an escort. How do you know if what you think is a high end lady is likely to be clean? I know this isn't Nevada and there is some degree of risk, but are there any relatively safe places in town? The Fox Den, for example?

I just don't want to make any stupid mistakes right off the bat and I heard this forum was a good place to do some homework.
 
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A $150/hr girl is no safer than a $1000/hr girl and you can still get herpes while wearing a condom. So, put things in perspective, relax, and enjoy yourself. If you're one of those STD-paranoid guys, I don't honestly see how you would ever enjoy yourself in this hobby.

And the guys that always play it safe, are the guys that only do that so they don't bring anything home to wifey, which begs the question why they're cheating in the first place... it's tit for tat.
 
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MrPeterNorth said:
If you're one of those STD-paranoid guys, I don't honestly see how you would ever enjoy yourself in this hobby.

And the guys that always play it safe, are the guys that only do that so they don't bring anything home to wifey, which begs the question why they're cheating in the first place... it's tit for tat.
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Sorry, I 100% disagree with this. I have met clients that are married that have no regard to their wives, and single guys that don't want to catch anything or give somebody anything.

I love sex. There are so many fun things to do, and different ways to play. I don't understand the risks some are willing to take.:confused: I also don't understand why people who are looking for safe play have to be put down by those who don't. They also make some condoms so ridiculously thin these days, you feel bare. I just don't believe in jumping out of an airplane with out a parachute ;)

All right, I feel better now, lol. Mr. Peter North, I think sometimes you say things, and I think I bet this guy is so sexy in person, but then you say things like the above post and I just feel like spanking you.:mad:
 
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Missy Mariposa said:
using someone who does safe GFE only. CBJ, no DATY, no digits, no kissing. .
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Safe GFE means no BBBJ not no kissing/DATY...
What you describe is normal FS not GFE at all.

If you are worried about disease then you need to just go for a BJ (with condom ) avoid sex.
You do have just as much risk with any girl you see of getting a disease but its very low, higher odds really with unprotected sex with a stranger from a bar vs protected sex with a SP.

The only difference between girls who charges 150, 300 or 500 a hour is how many guys they see a day.
So given the odds its less likely for a girl who sees 1 or 2 guys a day to be infected vs a girl who sees 5 a day 4 days a week. Simple odds.
Though you could get infected with something the first time you have sex or go 100s of times and never get anything.
 
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james in van said:
Because of the recession maybe this should be a $300 question.

Would anyone be willing to offer some friendly advice to a rookie?

Say you've got $300 to spend on an escort. How do you know if what you think is a high end lady is likely to be clean? I know this isn't Nevada and there is some degree of risk, but are there any relatively safe places in town? The Fox Den, for example?

I just don't want to make any stupid mistakes right off the bat and I heard this forum was a good place to do some homework.
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You can get herpes because you might touch the girl on an area that's not covered.

Honestly, for your situation, I would go to a nice rub and tug and get a nice long blowjob with a condom. Basically neglibible risk - in my non-professional, non-medical opinion.

Nothing in life is totally safe. You could probably be fine with FS and some light kissing but you'll freak out afterward and take showers and start scrubbing yourself down with rubbing alchohol and having paranoia fits.

Just take it slow and get a good hummer at a massage parlour - with a condom. One of the benefits is that you'll be able to come in her mouth if you're wearing a safe.

Chill, relax, enjoy.
 
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Originally Posted by Harmony-bc
They also make some condoms so ridiculously thin these days, you feel bare. :

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hardly. There is no comparision. Maybe from a woman's point of view.
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This was such an extremely small part of my point and not at all worth quoting or arguing with. I was trying to make the point of its, crazy and not nice to shame people for preferring to do things safe, and that you don't have to be married to prefer safe, or single to prefer risky.



To the original poster, erotic massages can be a lot of sexy, slippery fun, involve no fluid exchange what so ever, and can be better than sex. :)

My suggestion if you decide to go erotic massage route, is look for a provider that is well reviewed. Some girls say they do erotic massage, but have no idea how to give a sensual hand release or a massage. :)

My version of safe gfe is kissing, flirting, cuddling, sex and a blow job. Anything extra is ymmv. Never anything bb.
 
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Oldfart said:
I have yet to find a condom that doesn't feel as insensitive as a rubber boot.
If you could recommend a good brand, I'd be grateful.
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Crown Skinless Skin, this was just recommended by a pooner in another thread.

I usually use durex avanti bare, because they are non latex and don't irritate me. You can buy them at a drug store, slightly more expensive. I like to have lots of condom options though. Quite often I have 4 or 5 kinds to choose from, lol

Sometimes I buy from condom specialty shops. Rainbow condoms, just moved to Main street, so if anybody knows a good place downtown, I'd be grateful. I cannot remember the name, but I tried this one condom, that the lady recommended. It was so ridiculously thin, I had trouble rolling it down. Made me look like an amateur, hahahaha. The guy said it was the nicest feeling condom he had ever felt.
 
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Harmony-bc said:
Sorry, I 100% disagree with this. I have met clients that are married that have no regard to their wives, and single guys that don't want to catch anything or give somebody anything.

I love sex. There are so many fun things to do, and different ways to play. I don't understand the risks some are willing to take.:confused: I also don't understand why people who are looking for safe play have to be put down by those who don't. They also make some condoms so ridiculously thin these days, you feel bare. I just don't believe in jumping out of an airplane with out a parachute ;)

All right, I feel better now, lol. Mr. Peter North, I think sometimes you say things, and I think I bet this guy is so sexy in person, but then you say things like the above post and I just feel like spanking you.:mad:
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Oh Harmony, you should know what I wrote was in jest. I'm sure there are many married guys that are crazy, and single guys that are clean-freaks.
I'm simply stating from a broad perspective that if you're going to dabble in this scene, you shouldn't get too bent out of shape otherwise there are good chances you probably won't enjoy yourself as much as you should if you just relaxed and let whatever happens, happens, without trying to crunch risk numbers in your head - it takes all the fun out of it.

To each their own, all I'm saying from personal experience that while the risks are there, some of the risks are blown way out of proportion, too.

I know a friend who plays it safe 24/7. Super cautious guy you could say, and as such, lives a very monotonous and rather inconsequential life. I'm not talking about his sex life, for that I have no idea and that's his business, but sometimes you just have to 'live a little'.

I'm a simple guy who thinks sex is something to be enjoyed not something to be afraid of or worried about. That's why I think guys and girls who follow strictly to the no kissing, no bj, no fluid-exchange whatsoever routine take out all of the intimacy. And once that's been removed from the equation, what's the point of having sex in the first place? Because masturbating to porn provides the same result and is a lot cheaper :p

I'm naughty - I always deserve a spanking, lol.
 
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