3some with the wife

[Balrog]

Hey there. I need help from you guys and specially from you ladies who have experience in 3somes.
My wife is interested in having a FMF 3some, so questions have raised.
1. Safe sex: What's the best way to go about this? obviously condom is worn for penetration, but do you guys have a bunch of condoms at hand so you can use a new one every time you switch partners?
2. Mood: We would hire a SP for this, so any suggestions as to how to set the right mood (I was thinking having my wife meet with the SP first to avoid being too conscious with me at her side).
3. SP: Any SP that you would recommend for this? I've heard that it is better if the SP is actually bisexual (it makes sense).
4. Any hints?
All answers will be greatly appreciated!
P.S.
Has someone here actually done this? I mean, with the wife?

 

[2longjohn]

I had this experience years ago with my first wife it all sounds good on paper but when it comes down to you pounding another woman in front of her its hard for jealosy and emotions not to come into play. You might want to see the sp on your own first too so you don't focus all your attention on her during the session. Anyways good luck on your next marriage and dealing with all the emotional bagage in the weeks to come following the meeting it is so not worth it in the end.

 

[winnerpeg]

I agree and disagree.

My wife and I did this years ago. We hunted single women and it never seemed to work. Eventually it did but emotions and friendships came into play and it was messy.

So we tried an SP. it turned out OK.

It was super sexually charged for the first half during foreplay then when it got into the orgasm phase things kinda went uninteresting for my wife and I. We talked a lot about it afterwards and we thought if we were to have a great time we would need more mental foreplay, maybe a dinner and drinks - maybe a club and some dancing. All the while with lots of flirting and then the act.

So my advice is it can work but you really need to plan it out & figure out each others limits. And I 100% agree you should meet the SP first. Find out what your girl likes and locate an SP with those qualities then bust a nut with her. After the first session with the new pussy you'll be able to spend more time making sure your wife enjoys it.

What ended up making it successful for us was that my wife is truly bi and we do this for her. No male centric threesome. Its all about the ladies and you're their stunt cock for their enjoyment. We don't do this nearly that often anymore but we occasionally indulge. It actually makes vacations very interesting and something to look forward to on a whole other level.

Anyway - thats why I lurk....

 

[shedevil]

Have the SP concentrate more on your SO.

Make sure you decide on your rules together before you meet or discuss them with an SP.

SD

 

[Balrog]

Wow... Thanks a lot to all your replies!
2longjohn: Thanks for the warning, it is always a danger but in this case this is what my lady is requesting (I'm not complaining, but she's the one who wants to do it, so at least I get to tell her: I told you so)
winnerpeg: That's the kind of situation I'm in, so I hope it turns out exciting as it is for you.
shedevil: That's a given. I'm the kind of guy who prefers to satisfy than to get satisfied (or should I say that my satisfaction is enhanced by the lady's?), so what turns me on the most is to have my wife cum at the mercy of another lady. I even told her that I would be OK if she wants to try a session with a lady by herself first, but she insists that I'm also there, regardless, she would be the target (that's why, as I understand, we need a really bi-SP).
Anyway, let's see... this would be in the near future (but not immediate) - maybe when she hits her 40th summer.
Thanks!

 

[Regent]

If you're concerned about safer sex in a threesome then have a nice pile of barriers on hand and expect to go through a lot of them if you switch positions and focus multiple times. I would suggest both condoms and gloves, plus if you prefer covered oral sex, dams as well. And baby wipes are also good to have near by.

It might seem counter-intuitive, but more barriers will make transitioning between partners and positions faster and easier, while still avoiding swapping fluids. If you have one penis and two partners that you'll be penetrating, you'll want to put on a fresh condom each time you swap, and you'll also want to wipe down really quick so that you don't transfer fluids between the ladies on parts of your body that aren't covered by a condom. Also, put condoms on any sex toys that you'll be using for easier swapping and cleaning.

Gloves are a really good idea if the three of you are going to be doing any fingering. Even if you wouldn't normally use gloves for fingering, they're really great because you can pull of a pair and put fresh ones on in about 10 seconds, whereas getting up to wash your hands mid-scene is going to be a noticeable interruption. And just wiping your hands isn't going to do a very good job of getting fluids that are around your finger nails.

Also, if you're going down on both of them, be mindful of cleaning your face between partners and rinsing your mouth, if you're not using barriers for oral (same goes for both of them.)

It's a little more complicated than having sex with just one person, but not really difficult. If you haven't used gloves before, or you don't use condoms very often with your wife, you might want to just practice with each other, so that when you get to your threesome, it all goes smoothly. Have a fun, safe time

And I will second the suggestion to put the focus on your wife.

 

[2longjohn]

Wow I think if you take Regents idea you will be very busy changing condoms, Dental dams and rubber gloves and sterilizing in between sounds like quite an operation. Better bring a sharpie also so you can mark names on everything so you don't mix them up lol. I'm not sure how your wife is going to feel about you coming at her with a pair of rubber gloves but I'd love to see the look on her face. I'd say just get 3 full body condoms like in the movie Naked Gun and you each put one on and go at it, just kidding haha. Probably all you need is condoms for the sp unless you really want to use a dental dam they rarely use them. And I haven't heard of anyone using rubber gloves on a sp that would also be interesting. Its never totally safe but good luck with it anyway.