3 guys threatned me. Scary Incident on Campus

[joe45]

i'm currently taking 2 courses at Douglas.
At time i sarge on campus between breaks and yesterday as i was returning to my class 3 asian guys(one japanese-he spoke japanese)faux hawk, stocky build-works out), one chinese(5 10, medium build)and the other asian(didnt say anything-was there just for enforcement) all cornered me to a wall.i wouldnt be able to run

they asked me if i was chinese or japanese . im guessing so they can speak in our languages so no outsider would be able to listen.i told them i wasnt able to understand either languages fluently. the proceeded to speak in english. i was born and raised in TO.

all 3 of them corned me ,and one of them asked "why i asked for his gfs number", "do you always go around asking for girls number","what do you want my gf number for and you want to have sex with her" "i let you go this time, but next time if you talk to them we will be able to do anything we want to you-meaning beat me up . this all is a very threatening and mad like tone. it was scary. i didnt now what do do, but after class i told my instructor and he told me to report it to security.security told me to ignore them and if they come back at me or anything i should phone them on my cell. i have their number. i asked them if i see them around the cafertia or library would i be able to drag you guys along and go catch them. they said No .
i was early returning to class ,and there wasnt anyone around. i t hink one of his gf told the bf, and they followed and found out where my class was. this was probably done before.

i mean there was literally no one around since it was in a corned area in the middle of an intersection of a hallway.

i just told the 3 guys that " i didnt now it was his gf, and that if i got her number i just wanted to meet her for coffee, and if she was taken i wouldnt do anything " --one of them backed off a little. i was so scared. they did this in a very serious tone. i told them that approaching his gf and female friends wouldnt happen anymore.

i sarged a few asian girls around Douglas. I wouldnt now which was and wasn't his gf.

from now on im no longer going to sarge on campus and just keep it to downtown. first time this incident happened to me.
can't afford to loose out on broken teeth and bones. i have no dental plan at the moment.

i never said anything sexual or offensive to the girls either. first time this happened to me after sarging over so many girls in dwtn and metro. even the security guard on campus told me that their was nothing wrong with what i was doing(approaching girl and asking for their numbers)

anything like this happen to you guys before. if so let me now.

 

[CJ Tylers]

Call the police in on it.... they were harassing you, threatening you physically, and from your description...somewhat detaining you. Did they actually touch you? If they did, that's assault. I'm not joking, bring the holy handgrenade of the Law down on them... creeps like that will eventually hurt someone badly because they feel that they can't be touched.

The Long Arm of the Law can reach almost anywhere... the sooner they realize this, the better off they will be.

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

I use to be bullied in high school and even at a truck paper route stop when I use to deliver papers.

I learned, that the only real way of dealing with it is to actually fight if necessary. I remember this one guy use to punch me over and over again and finally I said next time he does it, I'm hitting back. I was scared shitless, but it shocked the hell out of him when it happened.

Most of the time, if they even know you're prepared to fight, they'll back off, but that said, I alway felt that if I was fairly certain a fight was inevitable, best to get the first punch in.

So as long as no weapons are involved, the next time you see them, I'd personally tell them to f*@K off and I'd take a swing if they invade your personal space. Might want to wear a ring or something.

Now the 3 against 1 isn't good odds, so hopefully if this happens in a public place they all won't jump you.

I guess the other option is to go to some student counsellor or whatever resources they have on campus to deal with it in that manner. But I have no idea if this is likely to resolve the issue or not.

That said, I must admit I never actually approached any girl I didn't know and just randomly ask for their numbers..that's a little out there for me.

And I have no idea what "sarged" means

 

[CJ Tylers]

^ Given what he said, engaging them physically would be a bad idea. Guys like that have a thing about bringing backup...and more backup...and weapons...if they feel like their victim actually might pose a threat (ie, fight back). Also, they seem to know his movements and the local area well enough that they can catch him in an isolated spot and gank him.

Get the police involved... charge them. See how tough they are in jail, when they don't have such good odds. Doing it any other way is likely to end up with him face down, battered and bleeding out... while the cowards beat feet.

There are some people, some places, where pushing back physically will work. This REALLY doesn't sound like one of those places.

 

[overdone]

Phone Dood.

 

[Lancaster]

Depending how big you are, just stand up against them.
1st, you're in a public area with cameras, so they won't do squat.
2nd, call them out as cowards that they are. He's obviously a wimp for calling backup, he's probably afraid you'll clock him.

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

Easier said than done. To charge someone you actually need proof of some kind, good luck getting that when three people are going to deny this type of discussion ever took place. If you want to go down that route, best to have a small tape recorder on you and you can then tape the discussion. That at least might result in some extremely minor charge that there is absolutely no chance of them ever doing any time at all for. And if you think they're pissed off at you now, wait til they get their first lawyer bill.

I hate to say it, but the best course of action is to make yourself a difficult target, the more difficult the better. If necessary have a weapon close by, even a pen or a pair of sissors can stop someone in their tracks if it looks like it's going to get physical. But it's highly unlikely that anyone would want to risk getting hurt over something as petty as this. Especially if you already told them you're not going to engage in this type of behaviour again. So I think they're just going to leave you alone, unless they think they can toy with you just for the fun of it.

And speaking of security guards, why don't you run this by them? See if they can offer any suggestions.

^ Given what he said, engaging them physically would be a bad idea. Guys like that have a thing about bringing backup...and more backup...and weapons...if they feel like their victim actually might pose a threat (ie, fight back). Also, they seem to know his movements and the local area well enough that they can catch him in an isolated spot and gank him.

Get the police involved... charge them. See how tough they are in jail, when they don't have such good odds. Doing it any other way is likely to end up with him face down, battered and bleeding out... while the cowards beat feet.

There are some people, some places, where pushing back physically will work. This REALLY doesn't sound like one of those places.

 

[luvsdaty]

the guy doing all the talking gets his nose broken 1st!Then start swinging till some one hits the dirt, either him or you.Usually its over after one punch.Believe me when i say this, you have every right to sucker punch the loud mouth of the group! Especially if its 3 against one,no need for talking, these guys won't listen anyways.Good luck dude
LD

 

[wilde]

i never said anything sexual or offensive to the girls either. first time this happened to me after sarging over so many girls in dwtn and metro. even the security guard on campus told me that their was nothing wrong with what i was doing(approaching girl and asking for their numbers)

If you had a gf and somebody sarged her, she told you about it and pointed the guy out to you. What would you do?

 

[nd1]

If you had a gf and somebody sarged her, she told you about it and pointed the guy to you. What would you do?

Corner the sob with 2 of my pals and scare the shit out of him??

 

[luvsdaty]

Chicken shit mo fo's, doing a 3 on 1, happened to me in Vic & i did smoke the loud mouth in the head,The other 2 weren't quite so tough when they saw there loud mouth buddy lying on the sidewalk,they just got lippy asking me what i did that for? Not very bright either, if they needed to ask that question. Mind you i'm old school, when somebody asked you to fight back in the day it was always 1 on 1 & if the guy went down you let him get back up or asked himif he quit. Matter of fact, some of my best friends are guys that i fought with 1st. It was different 20 years ago, nobody carried knives or had bear spray & they didn't fight in packs.It was always 1on 1, & yes Intagir i have been knocked out before, the dude that did it is still my friend to this day, mostly cus he had respect for me cus i took him on & he was 3 years older than me in high school.

 

[Unpossible]

If you had a gf and somebody sarged her, she told you about it and pointed the guy out to you. What would you do?

Nothing unless he was outright harrassing her or groped her.

 

[lenny]

Nothing unless he was outright harrassing her or groped her.

Exactly.

The GF need only tell the guy she's got a BF. End of story. And i'd tell my GF the same thing
if she came whining to me that some guy asked for her number. "But don't you want to
know what he looks like so you and two buddies can corner him"? Umm, duh, no. Duh.

I'd suggest the OP protect himself as in staying around crowds, if at all possible, and learn
a deadly or defensive martial art. Buy some bear spray or other items {e.g. alarms} to deal
with wild, uncivilized "animals". Have campus security & 911 on speed dial. Be at peace
knowing karma will soon crush the a-holes.

 

[luvsdaty]

Thats the price you pay for having a pretty gf, you cant be so insecure about your relationship that your gonna beat up every guy that hits on your hot gf.

 

[Lonelygoer]

Just don't talk to girls who has a boy-friend, simple like that.

 

[Verb]

its a shame what happened to you.

If you didn't do anything wrong and these guys came after you, go do something about it. Never live you life in Fear. Couple of guys came after me before because they thought I snitched on them regading something. Never met these guys before but I said fuck it. Lets go....the guy back down right away.

Take some self defense classes, it will raise you confidence in defending yourself. Never get pushed around and stand up for yourself.

on a side note....don't ask for a girls number unless they show interests....read the signs....goes a long way. Plenty of girls at schools, just take your time and be confident! Asian girls are a mess to pick up....look for the white chicks, easier to get along with and half the fucking drama. Going to BCIT was the best as I never met so many opened white girls in my entire life. Dating and fucking white chicks was the best. Dating Asians during my college years was the worst experience of my life.

 

[humanfly009]

I'd say take a lesson from Bas Rutten. A swift kick to the groin, and a knee to the face will end most fights quite quickly.

 

[Tugela]

Oh, so the OP got to see what it feels like to be a girl who gets cornered by a strange guy she doesn't know who is trying to get her phone number out of her? And he didn't like it? Wow!

I believe its called Karma.

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

Tell him that his gf is only a 4 out of 10 in looks and that dating her is a waste of time. That you pump whores 100 times better lookin that what this guy dates. Also you wouldnt spend 160 for 45 mins on his gf if she was a whore


Also this guy sounds really lame the one threatening you.

 

[WreckBeach]

Oh, so the OP got to see what it feels like to be a girl who gets cornered by a strange guy she doesn't know who is trying to get her phone number out of her? And he didn't like it? Wow!

I believe its called Karma.

Chuckled into my breakfast cereal reading that. Kinda an 'Oh, sucks that it happened to you' thing, but not feeling particularly sorry for the OP. Yeah ok, the three dudes weren't particularly bright for threatening someone like that. But then again, running around campus sarging virtually everything with a vagina isn't exactly a great idea either. Not all women like getting hit on, or being propositioned for sex. Just be glad one of them didn't mace you, then call for the boyfriend and buddies. That would be particularly unfortunate.