Ooooooookaaaaay.... thank you all so much the replies. I did not expect this to heat up such a debate.
To answer the concern of whether this was a troll. No it definitely was not, this is really how I feel about this.
And to answer the question of "why does it need to be from a beautiful woman?" The way I see it, historically speaking, beautiful women has always been praised, treasured, fought for, by men that wanted her or had power and wealth. Like regardless of their class, they were still viewed some what as a treasure. I mean part of it is mainly because men have always been horny and wanted sex more than women, but because of all this, I believe that beautiful women are universally at a higher class than other people, and has more of a moral say on a lot of life things. So by hearing positive things from that kind of person, I think that I would feel that I am doing something right in life, and get a confirmation of that. I know this is TOTALLY MESSED UP, but this is the only way I can confirm my life's worth.
And someone here mentioned a Life Coach. Not really sure what a "real" Life Coach is, but I got to know one these types of people, and this guy was retarded. Just keeps saying all this stupid cliche positive stuff, and nothing actually useful. Plus he more copied everything he heard from other "Life Coaches", and didn't sound like he had an opinion of his own. And he kept trying to invite me to events for his own benefit, so I try staying away from these types of people obsessed with "Life Teachings" and stuff like that. but maybe real Life Coaches are different.
People always tells me like embrace your life, or like be happy with yourself and what not. But ever since i was a child, I have based qualities of myself off of what other people tell me. I usually think "If people compliment me on something, that must mean i'm doing something right. and if they don't, that means I suck at it". And because I've realized at the same age that no matter how good I am at something, I can never be more than the prodigies, talented or geniuses. If I am better than someone, it's always people that are more pathetic than I am (but I am never PHYSICALLY better than any of those pathetic people either). Yeah I'm not gonna go too deep into this, it gets long and stupid. but you get the idea i hope
Anyways, thank you again for all the replies, and it's good to see people that has the same opinion I do, along with some other people's opinions. Whoever said "you are asian and fat, you should be ashamed of yourself", YES, I totally agree. I am pretty disgusted with myself, since almost EVERY OTHER Asian person i see is thin. I mean i was thinner in highschool, but yeah I suppose that's just how my life turned out. And yes, I do realize that I am the one that needs to take action, and I sort of am, finding ways to lose this weight with my current schedule and situation. again, thank you all.
By the way, from all of what I read, I don't think I really got the answer to the question "is there a type a service that does what i describe?". I mean it may have, but I can't rememeber, someone mentioned tantra, never been sure what that is.... THough by the lack of answers to that question, i'm assuming the answer is a "No".
To answer the concern of whether this was a troll. No it definitely was not, this is really how I feel about this.
And to answer the question of "why does it need to be from a beautiful woman?" The way I see it, historically speaking, beautiful women has always been praised, treasured, fought for, by men that wanted her or had power and wealth. Like regardless of their class, they were still viewed some what as a treasure. I mean part of it is mainly because men have always been horny and wanted sex more than women, but because of all this, I believe that beautiful women are universally at a higher class than other people, and has more of a moral say on a lot of life things. So by hearing positive things from that kind of person, I think that I would feel that I am doing something right in life, and get a confirmation of that. I know this is TOTALLY MESSED UP, but this is the only way I can confirm my life's worth.
And someone here mentioned a Life Coach. Not really sure what a "real" Life Coach is, but I got to know one these types of people, and this guy was retarded. Just keeps saying all this stupid cliche positive stuff, and nothing actually useful. Plus he more copied everything he heard from other "Life Coaches", and didn't sound like he had an opinion of his own. And he kept trying to invite me to events for his own benefit, so I try staying away from these types of people obsessed with "Life Teachings" and stuff like that. but maybe real Life Coaches are different.
People always tells me like embrace your life, or like be happy with yourself and what not. But ever since i was a child, I have based qualities of myself off of what other people tell me. I usually think "If people compliment me on something, that must mean i'm doing something right. and if they don't, that means I suck at it". And because I've realized at the same age that no matter how good I am at something, I can never be more than the prodigies, talented or geniuses. If I am better than someone, it's always people that are more pathetic than I am (but I am never PHYSICALLY better than any of those pathetic people either). Yeah I'm not gonna go too deep into this, it gets long and stupid. but you get the idea i hope
Anyways, thank you again for all the replies, and it's good to see people that has the same opinion I do, along with some other people's opinions. Whoever said "you are asian and fat, you should be ashamed of yourself", YES, I totally agree. I am pretty disgusted with myself, since almost EVERY OTHER Asian person i see is thin. I mean i was thinner in highschool, but yeah I suppose that's just how my life turned out. And yes, I do realize that I am the one that needs to take action, and I sort of am, finding ways to lose this weight with my current schedule and situation. again, thank you all.
By the way, from all of what I read, I don't think I really got the answer to the question "is there a type a service that does what i describe?". I mean it may have, but I can't rememeber, someone mentioned tantra, never been sure what that is.... THough by the lack of answers to that question, i'm assuming the answer is a "No".
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