$20,000 lesson

[booblover]

I am sorry I don't feel sorry for these suckers. I have seen guys buy houses etc for the ladies. There is one local lady that most of us all know who had one moron sign her name to his multi million dollar lottery ticket!! She took the money and dated the guy till his half of the money started to peter out and I think she has no left him with her house in the Dunbar area.
I know of another lady who was popular on here a while back do the old "I'm pregnant" and score an apartment in BBY. Then at three months when she wasn't showing anything, because she wasn't ever pregnant, she lays down the "I had a miscarriage". All the time the guy soaked and bought it all. He was an older guy with a wife and family on the west side by Jerico beach. Mommy and Daddy's bottle capping business made him a rich kid who never grew up by the sounds of it. Well now richie guy is slipping through the fingers of poor little Asian girl. She needed a new con. So she got schooled by her mother on how to screw the guy better. This time really get pregnant. Well the guy's wife was dying of cancer so little gold digger applied all her momma taught her and finally got pregnant, then another apartment, then pregnant again and this time a house in Point Grey and more.
Idiots keep making the same mistakes over and over in this hobby. There might be a few real nice ladies amongst 100's of sharks. You have better odds in Vegas at the tables. Give your head a shake and remember they date you because you PAY THEM TO. It has nothing to do with your personality, looks or love.

 

[booblover]

I am sorry I don't feel sorry for these suckers. I have seen guys buy houses etc for the ladies. There is one local lady that most of us all know who had one moron sign her name to his multi million dollar lottery ticket (she didn't ask for it to be done)!! She took the money and dated the guy till his half of the money started to peter out and I think she has now left him with her house in the Dunbar area.
I know of another lady who was popular on here a while back do the old "I'm pregnant" and score an apartment in BBY. Then at three months when she wasn't showing anything, because she wasn't ever pregnant, she lays down the "I had a miscarriage". All the time the guy soaked and bought it all. He was an older guy with a wife and family on the west side by Jerico beach. Mommy and Daddy's bottle capping business made him a rich kid who never grew up by the sounds of it. Well now richie guy is slipping through the fingers of poor little Asian girl. She needed a new con. So she got schooled by her mother on how to screw the guy better. This time really get pregnant. Well the guy's wife was dying of cancer so little gold digger applied all her momma taught her and finally got pregnant, then another apartment, then pregnant again and this time a house in Point Grey and more.
Idiots keep making the same mistakes over and over in this hobby. There might be a few real nice ladies amongst 100's of sharks. You have better odds in Vegas at the tables. Give your head a shake and remember they date you because you PAY THEM TO. It has nothing to do with your personality, looks or love.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Actually, I've found that the lessons learned in this business have contributed to a certain emotional freedom. Years ago, I thought that when a guy found me attractive, that meant he wanted to be with me. Sadly, the hard truth was often that he wanted to have sex with me, and it had little or nothing to do with wanting to be in any kind of a permanent loving relationship with me.

That may sound lame, but our culture really does teach this idea to women. That if a guy comes on to you, he wants to be with you, like date you, get to know you, possibly be your man!

How freeing it is to have the open discussion.

Him: "Hey I like how you look and I'd like to have sex with you."
Me: "Not a problem, let's do it. $200 for the hour."

And off we go! I see this as a win/win. I'm serious.

Even when I'm not "at work", when a guy treats me like he finds me attractive, I no longer wonder if he wants to be with me. I now know, without a shadow of a doubt, that what he's letting me know is that he wants to have sex with me! Wow, talk about an eye-opener and a life-saver!

Fellas, just use this story in reverse, and it'll work for you too!

Her: "Hey I like your money and I'd like you to spend some of it on me."
Him: "Not a problem, let's do it. What do I get for my money?"

It's really very simple, being human...

 

[sdw]

I am sure this happens out there, and it is awful. There are good people and bad people and everything in between in all walks of life. But maybe her change in service came because of something the client did to make her feel less comfortable? Ahhh I could "maybe" and "what if" forever. I like playing devils advocate. But I am too tired to even begin on this one..

lol, It was when he introduced her to the wedding planner and his adult children at the restaurant. She probably would have liked the ring set, but she ran when she saw the video crew getting ready to film him asking her to marry him.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Can we please all just accept that the lady is supposed to make you feel like a million bucks (and be done with it)? If she's done that, and rekindled a desire in you to feel like that more often, but for real, then maybe dating is the answer. Not expectations of your SP. Some of you get it, and you know that GFE is exactly that!

If she is excellent at her craft, you will think that you've found the love of your life. You haven't, not with her. But, if that's what you want, then you must continue your search. Just don't get it twisted! Enjoy every GFE for what it is...GF Experience!! Muah!

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Thanks CR, there have been a number of times when I've had to have 'the talk' with a wonderful gentleman. I feel bad about having to do it, but it's only fair. To him and to me. Sadly, they never call again but I believe that's the right action to take, if they were losing their ability to navigate good boundaries. And I believe that all ladies should strive to be fair, as we are playing in the realm of emotions. Using someone, or lying to someone, to get more out of them, is just wrong. And karma is a bitch, so I wouldn't take that chance!

 

[Dickson]

talk to dickson. he knows all about this and has spent far more then $20,000.

Yup been there done that and spent more than 20,000. The last Russian lady cost me about 50,000and that was about 6 monts. She was pissed because she gave me too many freebees. Or so she said. Never mind the clothes, trips, spa treatments, shoes, hand bags, meals, concerts but it only money. We had some good times and she was so hot. Come guys no point crying over the past. What happened happened. It is about the moment. Some of the ladies will tell you about the wedding I had last year. I think the 6 hour event cost me nearly $20,000 I think there was 6 or 7 SPs and I had a blast. To bad my bride took to many pills beforew the event. But nice to see VV again and Your Jordan, Bree was a great maid of honorand Jenna did a great job as the make up artist. The our waitress was so hot. I really enjoyed banging her up stairs in the suite.

So guys it an't about the money it is about the moment.

Lesson to be learned is enjoy the moment. At the end of the day that is all we got is these moments. If I am going spend my time worrying I might as well spend it in the arms of a hot SP. Can't take your money with you!

 

[Dickson]

I have had the opportunity to have had a sugar daddy relationship on a few occasions. In my life there is no room at this time for a steady relationship nor the time to develop a solid relationship. So when I have met a lady who, in her spare time is offering to join me for dinners, maybe a BBBQ on my deck or any other activities when available I have enjoyed this arrangement.

Yes you do get attached emotionally, as, if you are human, there is always a factor of caring for someone as you get to know them.

I suggest if you worry about the money you donate, spare or use to enjoy your time together, chalk it up to the fun times you had, don't let her business get in the way of your emotions and when she is ready to fly away, be thankful for the good times.

Another day, perhaps another lady and yes, more money. But hey, if you are in this world, then realize it is most often temporary and never let yourself feel down when the fling is over.

In my case I have 6 or so real decent lady friends from my adventures, some still in the business and some long since retired. it is nice when the friendship lasts.

G.A.

Totally agree GA the longest relationships I have had has been with SPs. So just enjoy guys have no regrets. Use or be used but no question we can all be victims if we choose to be that. Hell you only life once so enjoy it!

 

[nickcan]

but it only money. So guys it an't about the money it is about the moment.

Can't take your money with you!

Well most guys make less than $80K/year (gross not net income).
If we made money like you we could all say it's not about the money.
Not easy come easy go for me.

 

[Justin. Credible]

What makes this an ongoing thread is because there is so many valid opinions. There is no clear cut right answer because of different situations and scenarios. Over the years I have been in relationships with women with different professions. One lady was an escort, another exotic dancer and a couple soccer moms in the mix...and I cherished them all with no regrets. If I would of stuck to the "Don't date an SP" rule, I would of missed out on some great memories. I am optimist, the glass is half full not empty type of guy. There will always be good and people, sharks and suckers in all walks of life (not just in this business/hobby).

I am not naive, I know there are people who lie and cheat, I know hearts and promises can be broken...but I like to think there is something good in everyone. There will always be 2 sides to a story, his, hers and the truth. In my opinion not everything has to be black and white. Personally I will always take an open minded approach towards a possible new relationship and experience. Life is too short to listen to the naysayers and close the door on something or someone. That`s my 2 cents on a $20 K thread....Lol!

 

[Juno]

I am the guy who fell for an sp, when I got up, I realized there was nothing there.

I know it is a well worn story in this industry, but let me be the latest cautionary tale. Guy meets provider, enjoys time with provider, falls for provider, devotes his free time and money to her. As trust develops they are open with each other, she changes his life, the way he sees himself, they talk of friendship, caring and love.

Slowly he recognizes she is chronically late for appointments, she begins missing and forgetting appointments. She is no longer ready for him, certain common services become mirage like, requests go unfulfilled - its 'not as easy as that, maybe next time.' Disappointments become discussions, appointments become discussions. All their time is on the clock.

Things she did in her past with one visit clients aren't available to him, maybe she is down today, its complicated, but when?

Realization sets in, nothing really matters - frequent long time patronage is absent of goodwill - this relationship is only built on his current bill.


I am not painting everybody with the same brush, but be careful with yourself.

Isn't this what happens in most failed relationships. In the end both parties blames the other but the truth is somewhere in between.

 

[sdw]

Hookin up with a regular broad can cost you a bundle as well that's why I switched to Motorcycles!

But, but - - - Motorcycles work just like Guitars

 

[sevenofnine]

I kind of think when things fail when the shit hits the fan,

it takes two, your both to blame.

Even if your only fault was I saw it coming I knew it all the time, you just couldn't get out. Until way to lait.


You have to ask yourself why are you there in the first place.