What's your budget?
What type of look does she prefer?
If the SP is too attractive it runs the risk of her feeling threatened, inadequate and even jealous.
Sounds like risky stuff.
1. budget is not too much of problem, I am not going to go cheap on the 1st time

the 400-500 range is acceptable
2. She prefers a fit/toned woman, over 5'3" (I ma 6'3", so anything up to 6' is good)
3. SP being too attractive would not be an issue.. she is very self-confident... and did enjoy the stippers without any concern (granted this is taking it a step further, but still)
In terms of age, anything over 23 and below 40 would be fine (we are in out 30's)..
I am awareof the inherited risks, so that is why I am doing my research... and no I am not pressuring my wife into it... just facilitating her desires.