“You Complete Me”

[Poseidon]

How many people can honestly say that they have met someone in their lifetime or have been in a relationship where your partner is your “Soul mate.” Or can you honesty say that your SO fulfills your list of the perfect mate. I’ve been in a few relationships, but I can honestly say that I haven’t met my soul mate and have been in the constant pursuit of her. Maybe my standards are high, or maybe I’m looking for her in the wrong places, but pooning sure doesn’t help. This hobby can in fact steer you in the wrong direction in the search, as it artificially “raises the bar” sort of speak on finding the one. Are we pooners and Sps with unsatisfactory relationships destined to be unhappy and never find our true love or will we be stuck as a hobbyist forever? I dread the thought but then again, is it so bad?

 

[naughtygirl]

Or maybe your soulmate comes to you when you're not looking Who knows the true answer. What I do know is that I complete me, and if true love follows I have open arms. If not, there's still alot of happiness around

 

[Aurora]

I met my soulmate.......he was my S/O.
But even a bonding of the souls doesn't mean that other variables & circumstances won't/don't interfere sometimes.

Aurora xxx

 

[Captain Bly]

so he is soulmate checked now

 

[Aurora]

Likesdaladies,
Soulmate is a term which can mean different things to different people. For me it's not only about true love, cuz love itself is often subjective depending on the individual.
For me personally, a soulmate is that special person who feels more like a part of you, than an extension of you. He knows what's in my heart & mind and appreciates me for exactly who & what I am. He's someone who has totally accepted me, faults and all. He has an indepth insight into what makes me tick and what I'm all about. It involves a deep understanding of me.
And vice versa also.......soulmates are not one sided. I also have had those same insights, understanding, and acceptance of him.
I guess it also means that you can't imagine your life without that person being a part of you! And even though it may not work out in the long run, those times together and those memories are to be treasured and held precious. I was never anything but supremely happy that he was in my life and as such, is now a part of who I am! Hope this makes some sense.
Aurora xxx

 

[sirlickheralot]

“You Complete Me”

Ah Shucks Poseidon
"You had me at Hello"

 

[yoniluvrca]

soul mates

Naughtygirl-very well put. Why do folks run maddly around searching for their soul mate when happiness surrounds them. I myself belive I have met at least two (I see that we all have lore than one) of my soul mates and we spend very little time together here in this physical plane. Why would we hang out here when we have/are hanging out together in all eternity. Seems alittle stupid to me to do that. Have fun in this dimension. Be responsible but have fun.

 

[BS Detector]

I have to agree with Naughty Girl. Happiness comes from within. Your "soul-mate, SO etc" should just be the person you want to share everything with, the good, the bad, and the rest of your life. If you are not a generally happy person, someone else can not give it to you, at least not longterm.

 

[brocketrocket]

A Current dilemma..

What if you are currently married or committed to someone that you are in complete love with, thinking that they are your "soulmate", as time goes on and the newness goes away, and you become comfatable with each other, you meet another person, who is definatly your "soulmate" way more so than your current S/O. You never realized what a true match was until you met this new person.You are still happy and in love with your S/O, but now what do you do???

 

[brocketrocket]

I agree.. this is purely hypothetical of course.... but If you make the choice to stay with person B (current S/O) wouldn't their always be that "what if" in the back of your mind? What is Person C also felt that I was her "soulmate" as well and was very aggressive in persuing a new relationship.. (She is even ok with sharing??) Ohh what is a brother to do?

 

[chuck1561]

Re: Some poison for Hifi and Panda Goooood Morning!

some

with mine please

 

[brocketrocket]

Just some back ground.. this did happen to me a few years back..

Lady ~B~ - Definatly not all about sharing!!

Lady ~C~ I wasn't in Love with her, as I was with ~B~ I think love is one of those things that grow with time, experinces etc.. I had issues with~B~ and the "infatuation" with ~C~ didn't help the situation. I truly believe that I was a better match with~C~ but as the say the grass is always greener on the other side!

In the end.. I ended up with neither! Too many issues with ~B~ (that is why I got into pooning & I cheated on her with ~C~ and couldn't live with the guilt of cheating) and although I was very "compatible" with ~C~ She had some mental/dependancy issues that I didn't want to deal with at that time in my life.

So... Still searching, as I do believe that there is more than one "soulmate" out there.. until then I am just going to continue spending my cash on the easy way to get laid!