What is one thing a SP can do that will definitely make you come (cum) back?
“That’s it I’m coming back”
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A long goodbye kiss at the door. Works on me every time.
Connection. Or the willingness to connect. The things that can't be faked.
Hard to say. It's not one thing. It's the feeling, the relationship and the vibe of the whole session.
And frankly, due to getting too close to a recent ATF I've decided to actually not go back to anyone anymore.
And frankly, due to getting too close to a recent ATF I've decided to actually not go back to anyone anymore.
Would you like to know the polished comment or the hard truth?
Three fold ;
-A genuine effort to give a positive experience,
- Good service ( similar but not necessarily the same thing )
-This is just a personal thing but emotional intelligence ( being a huge turn on and something that has a fairly vast scale from one person to the next ) I guess you could also phrase it as the ability to connect which is similar to what @Dick Ford said .
-A genuine effort to give a positive experience,
- Good service ( similar but not necessarily the same thing )
-This is just a personal thing but emotional intelligence ( being a huge turn on and something that has a fairly vast scale from one person to the next ) I guess you could also phrase it as the ability to connect which is similar to what @Dick Ford said .
For me, it's always been the overall attitude and flow of a session that gets me to come back. Granted, it's usually the looks that get me to go at first. If there's a great attitude and hot action, then I'm going back for more.
Connection/attraction. Mental and physical.
Great sex and effort.
Decent in call. Cleanliness.
Leaving satisfied and believing them when they say they want to see you again.
Great sex and effort.
Decent in call. Cleanliness.
Leaving satisfied and believing them when they say they want to see you again.
Presenting yourself accurately:
-Accurate pics, not heavily edited, no deceptive angles, no old pics from when you were younger , tighter and thinner
-Accurate age
-Accurate list of services etc.
Good service and attitude:
-being friendly, feminine, and just normal are helpful
-however, when booking shorter sessions as long as you arent an absolutely miserable person to be around and arent a starfish in bed, personality etc arent nearly as important as looks.
-being youthful not just physically but personalitywise is nice
-not being a misandrist, or man hater
-offering a variety of appointment lengths, I have met a few providers who advertise as having "one hour minimum" but will offer 30 minute or even 15 minute appointments at lower rates for repeat customers, this definitely makes me more likely to repeat, especially since alot of the times I just want to have sex
-not being overly active on perb lol
being good at responding to texts and having availability, not making me wait in my car for 10+ minutes when I arrive on time etc.
Honestly though, the variety is what I like about this hobby, so you gotta be really hot for me to want to repeat. looks are the most important thing. im not looking for a "connection"
-Accurate pics, not heavily edited, no deceptive angles, no old pics from when you were younger , tighter and thinner
-Accurate age
-Accurate list of services etc.
Good service and attitude:
-being friendly, feminine, and just normal are helpful
-however, when booking shorter sessions as long as you arent an absolutely miserable person to be around and arent a starfish in bed, personality etc arent nearly as important as looks.
-being youthful not just physically but personalitywise is nice
-not being a misandrist, or man hater
-offering a variety of appointment lengths, I have met a few providers who advertise as having "one hour minimum" but will offer 30 minute or even 15 minute appointments at lower rates for repeat customers, this definitely makes me more likely to repeat, especially since alot of the times I just want to have sex
-not being overly active on perb lol
being good at responding to texts and having availability, not making me wait in my car for 10+ minutes when I arrive on time etc.
Honestly though, the variety is what I like about this hobby, so you gotta be really hot for me to want to repeat. looks are the most important thing. im not looking for a "connection"
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If you still gotta pay her , the connection isnt real. hate to burst your bubble 😂
For me it’s having an positive attitude towards me. Sure great looks draw me in and having a variety of services too Sometimes I feel the transaction is too businesslike and that’s okay for a one timer but the ones I repeat tend to make me feel like a friend or someone I like to hang with around outside sex
A great session that leaves me fulfilled and feeling good about myself is a pre-requesite for repeating.
However the most powerful thing is when she tells me it was a fun for her—and that “She’d Like To See Me Again”.
It amazes me how infrequently SP’s ask a good client to return. Maybe they don’t feel right about it or don’t want to come across as pushy. Too bad, because for us guys, the feeling of being wanted is extremely attractive.
A sexy lady once said to me “that was great, I really like you…I want to see you back here in a few weeks”. Kind of like a doctor would say at the end of an appointment. I went back in a few weeks. It was great. Next month was great too. Pull me in and I will come back.
-Punt
However the most powerful thing is when she tells me it was a fun for her—and that “She’d Like To See Me Again”.
It amazes me how infrequently SP’s ask a good client to return. Maybe they don’t feel right about it or don’t want to come across as pushy. Too bad, because for us guys, the feeling of being wanted is extremely attractive.
A sexy lady once said to me “that was great, I really like you…I want to see you back here in a few weeks”. Kind of like a doctor would say at the end of an appointment. I went back in a few weeks. It was great. Next month was great too. Pull me in and I will come back.
-Punt
I noticed no one mentioned one thing that makes me come back. Maybe everyone else felt it was too crass to mention.
For me, not being a wealthy person, value for money is important. I hope I can explain what I mean in a manner that doesn't cause me to be dumped on ;-(
If I see a lower priced SP, my expectations are also lower, either in terms of how attractive she is to me and/or the level of service she provides me. And if the SP is is more expensive, I expect that I will find her more attractive and/or the level of service better. If I visit a SP that meets or exceeds my expectations based on the fees that she charges, I am more likely to see her again. Of course this is not the only reason I will see a SP again. Other good reasons have already been mentioned earlier in this thread.
JD
For me, not being a wealthy person, value for money is important. I hope I can explain what I mean in a manner that doesn't cause me to be dumped on ;-(
If I see a lower priced SP, my expectations are also lower, either in terms of how attractive she is to me and/or the level of service she provides me. And if the SP is is more expensive, I expect that I will find her more attractive and/or the level of service better. If I visit a SP that meets or exceeds my expectations based on the fees that she charges, I am more likely to see her again. Of course this is not the only reason I will see a SP again. Other good reasons have already been mentioned earlier in this thread.
JD
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