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….but are you REALLY chatting with them? I doubt it…. Ignorance is bliss in some cases… I know of a few ladies who only record the custom videos and all the other “interaction” is done by people they’ve hired …. Likely not this way on every single account, but likely for those who are popular...

Fuck if I know, it’s so stupid, but speaking for myself only, it totally comes from early childhood and being raised by parents who never made us feel heard or encouraged us kids express our feelings, and so as an adult I can’t resist trying to avoid being misunderstood. My inner dialog involves...

you stalked my post history to gather even more ammo to lick shots, again? After all that? ….don’t even know what that implies about your state of mind, but I’m a bit worried now. Are you gonna track down my personal info next? I said clearly I wasn’t informed enough to debate generational...

Hey @trustfund - I really am not interested in debating something that doesn't apply to me with someone who appears incapable of comprehending compassion and empathy and repeatedly deflects that back at me in order to pick a fight about something that isn't really relevant to the OP or my...

It’s funny to me to admit that engaging in this hobby for a few years actually inspired me to go back to therapy - I was shit dumping way too much with my fav reg provider and it didn’t feel fair to ask her to take all that on from me when we hung out, with all the other shit she must constantly...

My bad, I totally misread your response, apologies. It was this part that felt personally directed at me and that seemed to presume I’m dismissive to other people’s opinions or viewpoints. I could go on and on. but you probably will ignore this, and rather pretend you are some financial genius...

Um Why you mad at me bro? I was merely trying to share how I was able to afford this hobby and my financial decisions that made it possible now, sorry to have triggered you. To me this feels like quite a leap from the point of my post, but my intention wasn’t to blame anyone for their...

Perhaps so, just sharing my personal experience and observations, not expecting everyone to agree, and generalizing on purpose. Appreciate your input tho, very helpful 🤗 I’ll fact check the legitimacy of my thoughts and opinion first chance I get.

I had a British mum + Yank step dad and we were growing up in the US in the mid 70s - mid 80s and they still made us share the bath water until we were old enough to realize how fucking gross that was.

Ye yeah I figured … I don’t trust a doggone thing I see on the internet so that wouldn’t be for me, but how could someone trust a bloke on here who they don’t know at all either. Just make sure the link you click doesn’t say “sponsered” which means you have to go about half way down the page...

I actually cut down on human food and only eat 2 meals a day + protein shake after gym in the eve. 💪🏼

perhaps we could create a "sound financial tips" forum / thread for the young folks on here who desire some advice. i suppose it could be disastrous so would need some serious forewarnings and liability precautions around risk/reward vs expendable income. i bet i will be notified shortly why its...

I wonder if the young studs pulling girls out of the bar every other night or getting tinder hookups might not consider this hobby “stupid shit” - I know if I was I might have that sentiment. But I feel you, figure out your priorities and spend wisely… I’m sure most providers are grateful for...

Oh yeah, I was on computers from the late 80s and went into computer animation as a result, so was on the front lines for the early internet years on SGI/ UNIX. Shit was bonkers for a while there. Y2K lol ! Trynna bring it back around to the original topic - strong work ethics and wise...

have you seen the price of lift tickets nowadays - ridonculous....

I think us older dudes maybe got more of this kind of tough love financial education from our parents than current generations in their 20s and 30s. Maybe it was just cuz they weren’t wealthy but [insert crotchety old man grumbling voice “when I was your age…”] I had my first job at 12 picking...

Yeah that one was me being a bit snarky - I would probably still be ok and maybe happier had my marriage worked out - so I guess I was not entirely forthcoming in retrospect, but for me my marriage lasted all of 6 months before she stepped out on me and when I found out 6 months after that, and...

This might be more for future you’s long term plan depending on your age and career trajectory. If you aren’t in a career or financial position to do these things, apologies in advance. At 51, this has been my strategy since my late 20s after being on my career trajectory at a company for about...

If you go through life being inauthentic for fear of getting abandoned or hurt, you aren’t truly living. I agree it’s much more joyful to try to trust everyone and know that if you get hurt or betrayed by someone, it might sting for a bit, but in the end you showed up in the best possible way...

I didn’t start going to therapy again until 2 years into this hobby and seeing how it was activating some old damage I needed to deal with, and I’m surely grateful for the less than desirable energy providers took on from me when it became apparent in conversations that I didn’t feel all that...