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    What to do about people who try to make you feel embarrassed about sex talk?

    Thanks, Ms Sarah. This is a very pertinent—and saddening—commentary on the lives of many men. Certainly highlights one aspect of so many men`s "loneliness and isolation." https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?194813-Isolation-and-lonliness&highlight=lonliness I can`t help wondering: Here...
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    What to do about people who try to make you feel embarrassed about sex talk?

    What worries me most about this thread Thanks, brothers Hatrick & hornygandalf, for adding first-hand perspectives to this topic. What worries me most about this thread are the survey results. A lot of guys here say they don't ever talk to anyone about their sex lives! It's not healthy...
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    What to do about people who try to make you feel embarrassed about sex talk?

    Why traveling hobbyism is so beneficial If Tugela is right, then that's precisely the warped perception that needs correcting. I want to discuss "sex tourism" in public—any reasonable chance I get—for the same reason we should all promote play-for-pay in general: it's an unfairly stigmatized...
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    What to do about people who try to make you feel embarrassed about sex talk?

    "Pooner evangelism"—you got it! Hey yazoo, Thanks for naming my calling: I'm full of missionary zeal about this fantastic hobby. And it's not just to the converted I want to preach. I'd like to help nudge society in a direction that makes play-for-pay—including traveling hobbyism—as socially...
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    What to do about people who try to make you feel embarrassed about sex talk?

    Interesting reactions—nice diversity of opinion Hey Oliver, Thanks for sympathetic comments and for your suggestion of what I should have said. I agree with brother Tugela: sex talk is often inappropriate—but sometimes the context is ambiguous. I certainly don't inflict my opinions about sex...
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    What to do about people who try to make you feel embarrassed about sex talk?

    Ran into a bit of priggishness lately. I went with 2 acquaintances to a late-night coffee shop, after a social event. Didn't know either of them particularly well. "Just got back from Asia," I mentioned. "Had a great time in the Philippines." "That's a far-away place," the woman said. "Why...
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    First time in the Philippines..."not a day without a lay"

    The final word (?) Wow, judging from comments by brothers like Trav, this travel report actually reached a few people. There`s real satisfaction in that. This has been a rare opportunity for me to speak my truth. My erotic side is at the core of my identity, but most people I know want to...
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    Did it change you?

    Nice topic It’s a fact about my sexuality that it thrives on a stream of strangers. When I've sex with the same person—even someone I deeply care about as a person—the electrifying buzz soon goes largely out of it. My tendency to enjoy strangers more than regular partners originally drove...
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    Pooner Diaries: Homebound

    Erotic non-fiction at its finest! Feelings many of us have had, scintillatingly expressed. Love to read "pooner diaries"—and especially yours, brother. You're a fiendishly talented writer. But are you serious when you say that you'll be "finally whole" only if and when you find yourself in...
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    First time in the Philippines..."not a day without a lay"

    Before I store those diaries away... I thank brothers Walk Softly, GATSBY, Justin Beaver & quite a few others for their interest in my Philippine travel report. Browsed through my diaries one last time before putting them away...and came up with a few "notes to myself" that might be worth...
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    Digits?

    Thanks for much-needed advice An important topic. If a lady restricts digits, I find this a real downer, because it limits a guy's chances of arousing her too. And DATY goes really nicely with digits, though of course some ladies nix both. One thing you might add to your 3 points: why not...
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    hot asian chics

    Hey marsvolta, Well—I understand Maggie's girls do outcalls, at a somewhat inflated "Outcall" rate. Try e.g. ERS 1668. I'm sure, if you've dinner & drinks in mind, these girls would have no objection. And brother allhorses is right about at least one thing: generally these girls haven't had...
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    Philippine Adventures - Taxi's, Casa's and Ladyboys

    yazoo—kindred spirit, brother-in-arms, fellow Filipinaphile! We`re definitely traveling down Pooner`s Road on parallel paths. Thanks for sharing your Philippine story. And nothing better than a "photo-heavy" report. With Michelle as the appetizer, hundreds of brothers—if not thousand—will...
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    Back from an eight month hiatus! (Updates inside)

    Wondered if that tall, dark, handsome millionnaire had drawn you out of circulation! A warm "Welcome back" from me too, Holly! In my book, you've long stood out as a paradigm of the bright, classy, impressive SP. Glad I had the privilege of your company, even if only once. But I’m sure...
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    First time in the Philippines..."not a day without a lay"

    Afterthoughts I'd briefly like to address a few points, some of which were raised in PMs. 1. I've been asked: How do you find time to write a diary? Is there any benefit or reward? I realize, writing this kind of detailed travel diary strikes many fellow pooners as ridiculous or quixotic...
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    First time in the Philippines..."not a day without a lay"

    I want to say thanks I thank those brothers—and several wonderful ladies here—who cheered me on while cutting me some slack. Was a bit hesitant at first to post my diary notes. I knew, some would trash me for being on an ego trip, and others would play the "exploitation" card. Then I got a...
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    First time in the Philippines..."not a day without a lay"

    DAY 26: Flight Manila — Vancouver / Final poon, with Arlene @ Southern Cross bar Arlene is the cuddly type, and submissively lustful—just what I like. Around 9am we seriously make out again, after a pretty restless night. Was never crazy about overnighters in the past. But this is my 10th...
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    First time in the Philippines..."not a day without a lay"

    DAY 25: Manila / Arlene @ Southern Cross bar The eve of my departure... I'm on an endorphin high, but unsure how to celebrate my last night in the Philippines. Again, serendipity takes the decision out of my hands. I've just had a good professional massage and want to return to my hotel room...
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    First time in the Philippines..."not a day without a lay"

    DAY 26: Manila / Duo with CECEL & JOBEL, freelancers @ Manila Bay Cafe Early afternoon I stroll down Ave. del Pillar and drop into Manila Bay Cafe. Droves of girls are sitting around, but hardly any guys. I've barely sat down when I get friendly vibes from two pleasantly meaty ladies at the...
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