Just curious as I finally have a review and would love to eventually have "well-reviewed on Perb" as part of my ad. What's the approximate number that people would agree on would mean I've been well-reviewed?
How many reviews before one can call themselves "well-reviewed"?
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I do not think of it necessarily as the number of actual reviews, but also the number of people who have been active on the board responding to those reviews with similar sentiments (not to mention recommending you in threads that are not directly about you as well). It is true that the quantity of reviews is important, but with people only being able to review so often and a lot of of them assuming that someone else is going to, I’d say five really great reviews. It also depends on how well the gent can actually write a review - not just their personal opinion of the lady, but their ability to create a vibe for likeminded and desirous individuals via the written word.
I personally have 15 over time that I reference in my link hub. It’s always helpful to have them in one collected area.
I personally have 15 over time that I reference in my link hub. It’s always helpful to have them in one collected area.
Thank you so much, this helps a lot. I'm hoping for more reviews/more people coming forward on my reviews to say they've enjoyed their time with me but I'm just so impatient hahaI do not think of it necessarily as the number of actual reviews, but also the number of people who have been active on the board responding to those reviews with similar sentiments (not to mention recommending you in threads that are not directly about you as well). It is true that the quantity of reviews is important, but with people only being able to review so often and a lot of of them assuming that someone else is going to, I’d say five really great reviews. It also depends on how well the gent can actually write a review - not just their personal opinion of the lady, but their ability to create a vibe for likeminded and desirous individuals via the written word.
I personally have 15 over time that I reference in my link hub. It’s always helpful to have them in one collected area.
I agree with @TheBellaRoseXo as I'd also say 5 as a start if I was counting 🙌 It's harder to reach that quota the lower volume you are, but I think even having some name/brand recognition is cool.
You can also say "well-loved" if the public or even private sentiment you receive feels happily positive to you 🥰 This type of descriptor would be more subjective rather than numerical. Personally, I think it's cuter this way.
You can also say "well-loved" if the public or even private sentiment you receive feels happily positive to you 🥰 This type of descriptor would be more subjective rather than numerical. Personally, I think it's cuter this way.
Early on, I'd throw out a quick request to write a review for me at the end of a nice session. Many clients were concerned about whether they could write well-enough to begin with or wanted to keep the experience private.
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It's a function of numbers but also quality. 4 to 5 good reviews by established and reputable clients with a track record here seems like a good start from my admittedly older and more cynical eyes. You see ladies on LL and elsewhere posting their 2 to 3 sentence reviews in their ads and saying they have great reviews....no they don't. And if that short review is purely promotional and says treat her well guys, everyone reading it knows it's highly suspect. Many of those are flagged and removed by the mods, yet they are still screenshotted in some ads.
Well-Loved: That’s super cute! Agree!
@piperblainexxx There’s been a number of clients that did not want to review what services actually took place and openly+randomly apologized to me for having not reviewed because of it. Some also felt pressured to write erotica-style, like a few people do (and there will be more reviews posted by those individuals than many others because they ENJOY writing). My best advice is to find your niche, what makes you come alive in this context, because your best reviewers tend to fall within a dynamic that ignites your passion for being a provider. 🫶🏼
While it would be nice to claim "well reviewed on Perb", even with one decent review I don't see any problem saying "Check out my recent review on Perb".
Good service is still better than a good review, because some people will share info about SPs that doesn't get posted here or elsewhere.
Also be cautious about 'wanting reviews' because we've had more than a few people end up in Perbatory because they wanted freebies or made threats about posting a bad review.
Good to have some reviews, but let them come organically rather than chasing them.
Also be cautious about 'wanting reviews' because we've had more than a few people end up in Perbatory because they wanted freebies or made threats about posting a bad review.
Good to have some reviews, but let them come organically rather than chasing them.
Very suspect if a brand new member posts a review of a previously unreviewed provider and it shows up thirty seconds later in an ad.
Everyone starts somewhere so a first review isn’t necessarily a bad thing.
Regarding explicit details I don’t provide a lot. YMMV always and I have repeatedly stated that. The worst situation for a woman is to have some fucking filthy slob demanding intimate services and intimidating her into providing them.
I pay attention to reviews written in a conversational style which I find of more value than some numerical thing (pretty degrading really IMO). So if I see a few along those lines about an SP I pay attention. And those can be a new perbite writing their first review or an old hand musing about how great this particular SP got him into Nirvana.
Conversely the "reviews' that get passed by usually have a 'I won't go into details' clause somewhere. Those are useless.
Conversely the "reviews' that get passed by usually have a 'I won't go into details' clause somewhere. Those are useless.
That makes sense, thank you. Thanks to everyone for commenting! I really appreciate all the feedback and information <3
I literally had the owner of Dragon spa ask me to leave a review 3 times before I even saw anyone .
Minutes later I then proceeded to have one of the worst experiences ever w a provider in her exact business .
I think that is up to you to decide. I didn’t say I was well reviewed until after a year of doing this, and had maybe 10 reviews. I took into account the time I was in the industry as well to state this in my ads. But I think after a few maybe 5 reviews you could say this. I also think a lot of men who look up our reviews can see how many we have, so imo it’s a good marketing tool to mention being well reviewed. I don’t think it’s really necessary though, to have this wording. I got the most reviews in my first year doing this, before mentioning being well reviewed and was pretty busy work wise. I think it’s good to focus on your brand and how you represent yourself the most and doing things so potential clients know who you are, what to expect and for them to know you’re who you say you are. Myself I have my website, social media, my telegram channel as well, so there are varying places people can look me up.
There’s lots of great advice here so do what works for you!
There’s lots of great advice here so do what works for you!
For me it's 1 well-written review, hitting on all the points that prove the provider is real, safe, discreet, and fun; but also have the backing of the forum community as well. A nice decent sized paragraph, and then have a bunch of people simply agreeing that is the same experience they had when they saw said provider. Then I want to look at the profile of the author of the review and verifiy that he's an active account that wasn't created on the same day as the review.
