Have you met up with a PERBite for mfm or mffm before?
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No, but I did attend bukkakes and gang bangs when I was younger and it was weird to enter a room with a bunch of other naked strangers you dont even know to pile on a woman none of you even know.
Some guys are chill, there's also always a couple guys who get kicked out for hygiene reasons, and the rest are fucking weird and not in a good way.
The last one I went to some guy was obsessed with staring at everyone's junk and making comments ("hey nice low hanging balls dude", "wow nice girth bro!") and this obese guy who took the bus came on this girls face and made a loud noise like the whale from Finding Nemo and then started complaining of chest pains which killed whatever was left of the vibe. Oh, cant forget the guy who couldn't get hard when it was his turn and started slapping himself in anger, got embarrassed, and then put his clothes on and ran off.
For these reasons I'm very hesitant to meet up with strangers as much as a hetero MFM can be fun.
Some guys are chill, there's also always a couple guys who get kicked out for hygiene reasons, and the rest are fucking weird and not in a good way.
The last one I went to some guy was obsessed with staring at everyone's junk and making comments ("hey nice low hanging balls dude", "wow nice girth bro!") and this obese guy who took the bus came on this girls face and made a loud noise like the whale from Finding Nemo and then started complaining of chest pains which killed whatever was left of the vibe. Oh, cant forget the guy who couldn't get hard when it was his turn and started slapping himself in anger, got embarrassed, and then put his clothes on and ran off.
For these reasons I'm very hesitant to meet up with strangers as much as a hetero MFM can be fun.
I’ve had a bit of experience with this so I’ll add my 2 cents and hopefully the OP will avoid some of my pitfalls of these adventures.
I agree with Bang4theBuck that getting involved in group play of any kind can turn into a shit show. I think we - who are interested in this type of kink - are imprinted with fantasies of a porn set in our minds, with svelte bodies engaging in the debauchery of an all-you-can-eat sex buffet. But the reality can be far different as per Bang’s stories.
I’ve participated in larger group and MFM action and my preferences, after making the rounds, is for smaller group play, specifically MFMF. Larger groups can get a little unwieldy and be a lot of waiting around bored while others are in on the action. MFMF is a little more controlled and curated and you can pretty much get into most of the debauchery of an orgy.
Regarding how to go about recruiting a suitable wing man, I would say that this is the most important decision you will make. When I started doing this activity I erroneously thought that I just have to find the hot and willing SP and everything would magically turn out amazing. Wrong (for me). I’ve found that the vibe between the 2 guys determines the outcome of the session.
Between the two guys you must decide a whole host of logistical criteria: type of woman; location and time; budget; is the other guy more dominant or less; what is the fantasy; who chooses the SP; what’s the plan inside the room; length of time.
Regarding the SP, not only do you need to agree on race, body type, budget, but it’s advisable for one of the dudes to have a pre-existing relationship with the SP. I have found in doing this over the years that many SPs have an MFM fantasy that has not yet been realized; so for me it is equally important that she and her needs (safety) be a central part of the story.
So I’ve mentioned in any MFM(M) reviews that I’ve posted that we are a small group of like-minded gentleman who are open to newcomers. I’ll get DMs inquiring and I’ll shoot them a DM back describing ourselves and a few criteria. I’ll meet a few for coffee and if we vibe we’ll go for a test ride and see how it goes. Over the years I’ve prolly had more than 100 guys contact me; had coffee with 20; and done MFM with 6-7 (just to give you a sense of the labour).
But I will say this, some of the guys who are part of the group have become good friends, both professionally, socially and pooning. We regularly meet for lunch or coffee; we can all talk about a wide range of topics completely uncensored; one minute it might be a hot SP we TOFTT with, and another it might be about some project we’re working on at work, and then another about our relationships.
Doing the MfMF thing is fun and hot. We’ve had some epic experiences over the years. It’s pretty amazing when an SP says “I’ve always had the fantasy of two men.” And you can respond with, “well, I have a friend and we have some experience with this….”
But honestly, the friendships and relationships I have with the guys is probably the greater reward.
I agree with Bang4theBuck that getting involved in group play of any kind can turn into a shit show. I think we - who are interested in this type of kink - are imprinted with fantasies of a porn set in our minds, with svelte bodies engaging in the debauchery of an all-you-can-eat sex buffet. But the reality can be far different as per Bang’s stories.
I’ve participated in larger group and MFM action and my preferences, after making the rounds, is for smaller group play, specifically MFMF. Larger groups can get a little unwieldy and be a lot of waiting around bored while others are in on the action. MFMF is a little more controlled and curated and you can pretty much get into most of the debauchery of an orgy.
Regarding how to go about recruiting a suitable wing man, I would say that this is the most important decision you will make. When I started doing this activity I erroneously thought that I just have to find the hot and willing SP and everything would magically turn out amazing. Wrong (for me). I’ve found that the vibe between the 2 guys determines the outcome of the session.
Between the two guys you must decide a whole host of logistical criteria: type of woman; location and time; budget; is the other guy more dominant or less; what is the fantasy; who chooses the SP; what’s the plan inside the room; length of time.
Regarding the SP, not only do you need to agree on race, body type, budget, but it’s advisable for one of the dudes to have a pre-existing relationship with the SP. I have found in doing this over the years that many SPs have an MFM fantasy that has not yet been realized; so for me it is equally important that she and her needs (safety) be a central part of the story.
So I’ve mentioned in any MFM(M) reviews that I’ve posted that we are a small group of like-minded gentleman who are open to newcomers. I’ll get DMs inquiring and I’ll shoot them a DM back describing ourselves and a few criteria. I’ll meet a few for coffee and if we vibe we’ll go for a test ride and see how it goes. Over the years I’ve prolly had more than 100 guys contact me; had coffee with 20; and done MFM with 6-7 (just to give you a sense of the labour).
But I will say this, some of the guys who are part of the group have become good friends, both professionally, socially and pooning. We regularly meet for lunch or coffee; we can all talk about a wide range of topics completely uncensored; one minute it might be a hot SP we TOFTT with, and another it might be about some project we’re working on at work, and then another about our relationships.
Doing the MfMF thing is fun and hot. We’ve had some epic experiences over the years. It’s pretty amazing when an SP says “I’ve always had the fantasy of two men.” And you can respond with, “well, I have a friend and we have some experience with this….”
But honestly, the friendships and relationships I have with the guys is probably the greater reward.
Yes, I had one mmf a long time ago with Olivia at the old Beach Avenue location, this was before I really knew that whoever ran the location was terrible.
Fun experience, she was up for it. Probably wouldn't do it again because I'm mostly retired from escorts.
Fun experience, she was up for it. Probably wouldn't do it again because I'm mostly retired from escorts.
Just to cover any bases, if you meet with someone from PERB, the board bears no responsibility or liability as to the outcome. Make sure you have taken proper precautions for privacy and security. The mods will not referee any conflicts.
I have almost met with perb members, but never happened. Things came up for both parties and it never happened, thereafter. Im too much or a hermit these days. As for MFM or MFFM. I've done MF + FM. Literally two separate MF pairs, in the same room and then swapping, but nothing crazy where we had the women play or anything.
I found that the larger orgies I've been to were more comfortable than the smaller MFMF that I was involved with. It's more anonymity and i took some comfort in that. In the orgy, there were issues with some participants but when you have 20 other people there the impact was less than if you have an issue with the other guy in a MFMF.
One suggestion to think about is the impact of engaging this has on your perceptions of life and on your central nervous system. I can't sleep for days after group activities and I get really weirded out in public for awhile after as well as I find it strange that everyone around me is clothed and not fucking. Weird, I know.
One suggestion to think about is the impact of engaging this has on your perceptions of life and on your central nervous system. I can't sleep for days after group activities and I get really weirded out in public for awhile after as well as I find it strange that everyone around me is clothed and not fucking. Weird, I know.
