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Soccerbud89

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Hi,

just getting out of a long term relationship. Do you think it’s worth it to see an SP during this time. If so who? And am willing to spend to see one.

I’m on the fence of seeing one as I’m not sure how I’ll feel after and if it’ll be worth it.
 
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Soccerbud89 said:
Can I ask why?
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It can mislead you to think there are plenty of the fish in the sea and help convince yourself that you can find another girl that desires you again rather quickly.

The reality is you most likely won’t find someone easily and will fall deep into loneliness and sadness if you don’t try to work it out with your gf/wife. Moreover, if the relationship cannot be saved, you won’t do the necessary work on why it failed and will simply go fuck more and more hookers until you become too warped to return to regular dating.

It’s a Faustian bargain that in place of money, power or success, you simply take the easiest and mostly stress free path to get women.
 
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Soccerbud89 said:
Hi,

just getting out of a long term relationship. Do you think it’s worth it to see an SP during this time. If so who? And am willing to spend to see one.

I’m on the fence of seeing one as I’m not sure how I’ll feel after and if it’ll be worth it.
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I would suggest you not. Hang out with friends, spend time pursuing things that you enjoy, dabble in self improvement if that’s your thing…but don’t fall into the rabbit hole of paying for sex.

I know I’m a hypocrite for saying it, but it’s a bit of a slippery slope…and can end up as an addictive behaviour quite easily. You see some guys on here falling over themselves to chase the new girl…always chasing the dopamine hit of sex with the next hot girl. It’s also an expensive pastime. Anyways, my two cents for what it’s worth.
 
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MikeyLikey99 said:
I would suggest you not. Hang out with friends, spend time pursuing things that you enjoy, dabble in self improvement if that’s your thing…but don’t fall into the rabbit hole of paying for sex.

I know I’m a hypocrite for saying it, but it’s a bit of a slippery slope…and can end up as an addictive behaviour quite easily. You see some guys on here falling over themselves to chase the new girl…always chasing the dopamine hit of sex with the next hot girl. It’s also an expensive pastime. Anyways, my two cents for what it’s worth.
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I can add also not to expect that this will solve your problem(s). It is a bit complicated. It is the same type of question when a non-drinker asks advice what wine he should start to drink in order to get healthy and wealthy. I would respond do not even start.

On the other hand, if you need a relief, you could certainly find a girl (paid or not) because you body and mind need sex to properly function.

You have to get those answers with a grain of salt. I wish you all the best to cope. You have to understand that you need to soldier through life and there is no other way around it.
 
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