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Coffeelvr

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Hi,
Tried an escort for my first time in YYC. Got to say, it didn’t go well. The woman was sweet, pretty, nothing wrong there. I was just so horny. As soon as the fun started, just some ball licking I exploded and it was over before it began.
Not sure if this is for me. Maybe I should only find SP’s that do SNS!
 
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Coffeelvr said:
Hi,
Tried an escort for my first time in YYC. Got to say, it didn’t go well. The woman was sweet, pretty, nothing wrong there. I was just so horny. As soon as the fun started, just some ball licking I exploded and it was over before it began.
Not sure if this is for me. Maybe I should only find SP’s that do SNS!
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Drink less coffee.
 
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Coffeelvr

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I thought about that. I was worried, I’m 54, so I was concerned about not getting it up if I did that beforehand. Maybe the night before would do the trick.
 
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Coffeelvr said:
I thought about that. I was worried, I’m 54, so I was concerned about not getting it up if I did that beforehand. Maybe the night before would do the trick.
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Buy some dick pills.
Actually curious where to get some as I'm running out.
 
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This is a classic case of performance anxiety. The “problem” is all in your mind. Take it slower next time and try and calm your mind. If the sensation is too strong, stop briefly, change your focus to something else in the room, or even switch up positions to help you control the sensation and calm down a bit.

Before seeing another SP, practice edging. This will also help in controlling the sensation.
 
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I’m in the same age range and my suggestions, based on what has worked for me, are (1) tell her beforehand that you would like to pop more than once (msog) and make sure she includes that, (2) Book a longer session. That takes some of the mental pressure off you if you pop quickly and makes things more comfortable (if I’m going for multiples I usually book 90 to 120 minutes), (3) spend your recovery time giving some pleasure and that usually helps you as well, and (4) you can tilt the odds in your favour by getting the little blue pill.

Also pick someone well reviewed. You can just ask for suggestions here for a patient lady who meets your criteria.

Good luck! (or save your money, and don’t go any further with this)
 
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I used to book 2 hours minimum bc of the same problem (it's not really a problem, actually, it means you're fit enough to fuck) but now I've got the edging down to a science so I can take my time with her and we can enjoy 2 hours at our leisure and then *big finish lmao*
 
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Coffeelvr said:
Hi,
Tried an escort for my first time in YYC. Got to say, it didn’t go well. The woman was sweet, pretty, nothing wrong there. I was just so horny. As soon as the fun started, just some ball licking I exploded and it was over before it began.
Not sure if this is for me. Maybe I should only find SP’s that do SNS!
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If you get out now, you’ll save thousands of dollars!
 
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What I'd really like to know is: who's the provider with the magic tongue that can do that after a few licks? Booking on my next trip to YYC!
 
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MikeyLikey99 said:
I’m in the same age range and my suggestions, based on what has worked for me, are (1) tell her beforehand that you would like to pop more than once (msog) and make sure she includes that, (2) Book a longer session. That takes some of the mental pressure off you if you pop quickly and makes things more comfortable (if I’m going for multiples I usually book 90 to 120 minutes), (3) spend your recovery time giving some pleasure and that usually helps you as well, and (4) you can tilt the odds in your favour by getting the little blue pill.

Also pick someone well reviewed. You can just ask for suggestions here for a patient lady who meets your criteria.

Good luck! (or save your money, and don’t go any further with this)
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Totally agree with every word. About the blue pill, I was mentally refuse before too, because it make me sounds like 'unable', but we are not, we can totally do it no problem, just anxiety.
 
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