Constructive answers please for an opinion-based question 🙏

Accept the risk factor.
Not every pairing is going to be successful.
It is unrealistic to expect a perfect match every time you meet someone.
Never risk more than you can afford to lose.

What would make the industry better for both sides?

• someone, somewhere, with a bit of integrity, take over LeoList
• get a Craigslist like site going where the GND's and bored housewives can also shop what they provide

What should providers do more of? And less?

• bonafide providers - love all that you do, just keep it going
• offer a couple of role play scenarios - me, I am always on for the cleaning lady gig, doesn't have to be a full suite, just a couple
• more massage providers get milking tables, nothing like having big Jim and the Twins worked while they are hanging down
• sketchy so called providers - please go away

By contrast, what could recipients do more/less of?

• on this forum, woo ee, stop bringing the hate and ugly crap, there is enough of that out there in the real world, but I get it, trolls are gonna troll, haters are gonna hate etc etc etc
• in the real world, I don't know. I just try to be clean, respectful, bring money, an active tongue and a hard on. Should I do more?

There's probably a laundry list of things clients can do to improve the industry, but reading comprehension is pretty high on the list. So many complaints and bad scenarios happen bc guys don't read ads or websites properly, incl. restrictions, etiquette, etc and so they end up in sessions where they were expecting X and got Y instead.

Actually, the very first companion I saw did something few I have seen since have: Once booking was confirmed, she reiterated her restrictions, added a couple things she's really into rn, asked what my restrictions were and what I was expecting out of the session. Something so simple and effective that set the tone for our time and allowed us to get comfortable much quicker since we already knew where and what was a no-go and what we enjoyed. Plus it was hot af to chat a little bit about turn ons etc before we met. I understand the need to keep communication to a minimum but this seems super important and worthwhile so idk.

masterpoonhunter said:

What would make the industry better for both sides?

• someone, somewhere, with a bit of integrity, take over LeoList
• get a Craigslist like site going where the GND's and bored housewives can also shop what they provide

What should providers do more of? And less?

• bonafide providers - love all that you do, just keep it going
• offer a couple of role play scenarios - me, I am always on for the cleaning lady gig, doesn't have to be a full suite, just a couple
• more massage providers get milking tables, nothing like having big Jim and the Twins worked while they are hanging down
• sketchy so called providers - please go away

By contrast, what could recipients do more/less of?

• on this forum, woo ee, stop bringing the hate and ugly crap, there is enough of that out there in the real world, but I get it, trolls are gonna troll, haters are gonna hate etc etc etc
• in the real world, I don't know. I just try to be clean, respectful, bring money, an active tongue and a hard on. Should I do more?

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Taylor Swift Fan?? Haters going to hate....

But with a influx of more escorts, according to the law of supply and demand, then prices will go down. Are there going to be spiralling prices, doubt it.

The mod comment on competition between escort is bang on and the more escorts you have the more it will continue. People are human. Even escorts have fall outs with other escorts.

One thing for an escort is to have a physical training routine, if not from youth into middle age (puts pounds on you), its better for your overall health in the long term.
Dieting (types of food intake), not starving your self, and not just energy food to get the escort through the next date.

More cowbells…

Good question

In an ideal world advertising would be truthful and platforms would at least give a fraction of a shit if they were being used as a tool for scammers. I’m looking at you LeoList.

Guys need to stop wasting the time of ligit providers. Read the SP’s ad and website, and then read it again using your big head not the little one. When you’re ready to arrange a session go for it, but follow through and don’t be a jerk. One well established SP once told me that less than 1 in 20 messages she received actually resulted in a booking. No wonder ladies get annoyed, and it leads to the following two a pet peeves about the booking process of indy’s that I wish could improve somehow.

1) Some SP’s get annoyed when clients send them a request for a booking but don’t give them an exact date and time. I get that to some degree given the time wasting I mentioned above. But I’ll often say something like “are you available sometime on November 21 or 22?” Ladies, when guys ask this it means we want to see you when we’re in town, and we will arrange our schedule if we can to make it happen!! Send back a few options if you have any and we can settle on a time. If I say 2 pm on the 21st and you’re already booked don’t just say no, give me some options or I’ll think we’re not going to work and I’ll contact someone else.

2) SP’s who say “Provide all your screening information with your request for a date”. Guys are not giving screening info to you if there is no possibility of us seeing each other. If your screening options include a reference from another provider think through the scenario on our end. I always give an SP a heads up when I’m using her as a reference, It's common curtesy. If you give references yourself you likely want to know who is getting your name and aren’t going to be happy if I ask too many times. You may be fully booked or on vacation when I want to see you, so why would I bother my references without even knowing if a date is possible? That is also a waste of my references' time. See above.

Just some thoughts.