what are your thoughts on repeats vs variety?

Yea when starting out. I never repeated Just like the variety. Then I started liking particular SPs and doing multiple sessions. I will repeat if I like the SP. Now it’s 50% new and 50% repeat for me.
There is definitely a problem getting too attached that’s said in other post so I have to remember to keep it professional and maintain my boundaries and not to get to personal which is super hard cause we are of course physically intimate

You ever think a lot of us just overthink things? Just go out and fuck

So I like variety but repeats come down to proximity, vfm and chemistry, there was a girl who was at an incall near me for a month saw her like 5 times that month because at the time she ticked all 3 boxes.

Just adding my two cents.
I rarely did repeats with SPs early on. But as I settled on what I wanted from an SPs, now I pretty much have one regular I see whenever she visits.
I also found when seen a bunch of new girls, some dates you just don't click and some can just become so awkward.
With my regular, I know what to expect. It's nothing new, but I'm at least guaranteed a good time. Doesn't make me feel like I wasted my money or was catfished.
In a perfect world I would have 2 regulars(1 white, 1 asian), and then the occasional new girl every once in a while.

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My issue with being stuck to repeats is that you miss out on that new hot amateur action where lots can come and go in this business. I remember an old closed down agency that had many young ladies showing up for easy university school money or whatever back in the day but if you didnt partake they could retire on any given day. You get to be that lucky son of a gun who was lucky enough to go xxx wild with such amateur hotties that may never touch this business ever again. I know of one from a different agency that retired who I had seen at a bar on a weekend out. Turns out she used to work at the agency but retired to get married. Let me just say holy fucking daaaamn! that moment at the bar would of been a thousand times better if I had booked her when she was working and available at that agency. To know I could of had such personal x rated wild memories with her before she retired was a big mind screw. She was a view to remember in person let me just tell you......😮 why cant you do both and have the best of each world?

sddghkfd said:

As a new pooner, I've only repeated with a girl once. I mainly stick to agencies, plus one instance of PDC (collective). I enjoy the variety plus my favorite agency has quite a bit of turnover. Usually the girl I saw last isn't working the next time I'm looking.

Does the experience get better the more you see a girl? It makes intuitive sense since she becomes more comfortable and gets an idea of what you like

On the other hand, as someone with an additive personality (literally addicted to every form of dopamine minus hard drugs), I'm afraid of catching the feels

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I also catch the feels, my friend. Gotta be careful with repeating.

Girls come and go. Variety is the spice of life. Men always chase after the shiny new toy. It's more of a thrill. If my mind is blown away by a girl, I'll consider being a repeat, but there's also a chance my mind will be blown away by the next girl too. In theory, being a repeat should result in a better service over time with familiarity and comfort, but these girls won't even remember you unless you see them often. We're just dates; they go through the motions, provide a service, get paid, move on to the next. If anything, once they get to know you they will figure out more ways to bleed out and appointment to get you out the door faster. If you're an emotional guy who gets attached then there's another reason to avoid being a repeat.

sddghkfd said:

As a new pooner, I've only repeated with a girl once. I mainly stick to agencies, plus one instance of PDC (collective). I enjoy the variety plus my favorite agency has quite a bit of turnover. Usually the girl I saw last isn't working the next time I'm looking.

Does the experience get better the more you see a girl? It makes intuitive sense since she becomes more comfortable and gets an idea of what you like

On the other hand, as someone with an additive personality (literally addicted to every form of dopamine minus hard drugs), I'm afraid of catching the feels

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this is a good post. i think that multiple sessions are definitely better than one, but there is always the notion of whether there is synergy between you and the person involved also. you have to measure that before agreeing to see someone continuously. you can have 10+ sessions with someone and things only get better with each iteration. it's not uncommon.

on the flip side, you may be wasting money on someone when you could be finding better providers. i've been in such situations, and it's not fun.

so it's best that you keep browsing even if you have a SP you see regularly. you will have better success this way.

Boogeryyc said:

You ever think a lot of us just overthink things? Just go out and fuck

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Those stupid questions like,

Does she deep throat?

How would you rate her face?

Does she kiss good?

Like, just book em and find out yourself. I get annoyed by time waster questions on a review board. I cant imagine being an independent having to deal with these fools on a day to day.

Newuser505 said:

Those stupid questions like,

Does she deep throat?

How would you rate her face?

Does she kiss good?

Like, just book em and find out yourself. I get annoyed by time waster questions on a review board. I cant imagine being an independent having to deal with these fools on a day to day.

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Ugh tell me about it. They ask me these anonymously on ngl and I'm like... is this fun or interesting from a distance?

rinamood said:

Ugh tell me about it. They ask me these anonymously on ngl and I'm like... is this fun or interesting from a distance?

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Wow the last message sounds like a real charmer .
On a side note , never heard of NGL.
Something tells me I’ll never need it though .

Once you go black said:

Wow the last message sounds like a real charmer .
Ok a side note , never heard of NGL.
Something tells me I’ll never need it though .

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It's an anonymous question platform for social media. I answer what I feel like, and tidy up often 😇 I do laugh at the silly ones!

Newuser505 said:

I can understand why you have such a rigorous pre-screen to root out as much retards as possible. Its too bad some of them cant read.

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People definitely screen themselves out by electing not to book me! It's the right thing for them to do, especially if they fail to take in basic information or they approach me callously.

My booked clients are super chill and nice to me though. I'm very glad they can read 😜

For what it’s worth, with regards to the original question, I’m a new pooner (only visited 2 SPs so far) and I’ve repeated, because it was really great. I think I’m also working through some ethical hangups around this all 😂

But I am looking forward to variety going forward, and hope to see some more independent providers soon.