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Why is it whenever I see a wedding ring on an SP's finger, it freaks me out? Am I the only one? I was just oggling the photos of Tina on the "Platinum Club" website thinking all sorts of sordid and carnal thoughts, and then I saw that god forsaken band on her ring finger and *poof* all thoughts of visiting her disappeared.

Ultimately, I'm not comfortable having sex with another mans wife. I'm not married, so I can ply this sordid hobby all around town without a guilty conscious. I would hope that if I do get married, I will start collecting stamps or take up origami, officially ending my pooning days. Is it this same logic that creates my aversion to married SP's? Or maybe it's because if I was the husband of a working girl who had several strange fuckers groping her everyday, I think I would go bananas. And I don't want to be part of that "strange fucker list". (No offence to all the other strange fuckers on here).

Am I just being a big fat pussy? Someone please talk some sense into me, cause damn...I really wanna pitch it to Tina guilt free.

Curse me and my high & mighty value system...Simon
 
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Ultimately it is just a job for them Simon, but I do know what you mean.
 
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simon said:
Curse me and my high & mighty value system...Simon
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May the curse of curses in sorrow prostrate you now! :rolleyes:




Quit being such a pussy Simon, you're fooling yourself if you think most of these girls don't have a boyfriend or someone that helps them separate the work from a normal, intimate personal life.
 
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simon said:
I'm not married, so I can ply this sordid hobby all around town without a guilty conscious
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Simon get your mind right. This is by no means a sordid hobby.
This form of entertainment is so much fun. Enjoy yourself.
Now necrophilia, I would say is a sordid hobby. No offence to the necrophiliacs
out there, but just not my thing.
People being kidnapped or forced into this trade for what ever reasons, I do
find reprehensible and very sordid.
But ladies who have decided to make this a career choice for themselves and
are having a nice time.. no need for you to have a guilty conscience.
 
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I know how you feel. It is this damn judeo-christian society that we live in that cultures us not to covet thy neighbours wife. When you are bombarded by these morals all through your upbringing it is only natural that you feel guilt because of them. I used to have the same problem. To me, it is about fantasy, and knowing that there was a significant other out there diminished part of the fantasy. I would much rather not know about the s/o or husband, as that helps keep the fantasy of it alive for me...
 
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Man i feel the same way sometimes, IMO though I don't feel guilty if the SO knows about it, but if they don't then it kinda gets to me
 
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I am more with Dark Knight on this one. It is one thing to see a SP with a boyfriend, but to see one who is happily married? Obviously they love their SO and their SO loves and accepts what they do. So how are they going to enjoy being with me? If I can't actually please the lady, I am certainly not going to be pleased myself. I'll just feel guilty and feel like a pig.

Engaged, no problem... made it official, problem.
Men are almost as strange as women sometimes, lol.

Good topic Simon. Something I never expected to see being discussed on here.
 
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Markl said:
It is one thing to see a SP with a boyfriend, but to see one who is happily married? Obviously they love their SO and their SO loves and accepts what they do. So how are they going to enjoy being with me?

Engaged, no problem... made it official, problem.
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Markl, I have to disagree with you. What difference does it make whether the SP has a long-term boyfriend, fiancee, or a husband? No matter how amazing and enjoyable her sessions are with the pooners, at the end of the day, she is going home to her guy. I personally believe that the better SPs gets their enjoyment more from the satisfaction of a job well done.

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I personally have no issue with married SPs so long as I don't know that they are being deceptive with their partner.
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Strongly agree with you: one of my favorite SP told me 5 minutes into our first session that she has a SO who knew what she does. They ended up getting married about a year later, and I really can't say that her marital status really bothered me much at all. I have been seeing her ever since.
 
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I think part of it is the fantasy that the SP is yours, even if for only an hour. But seeing that ring or knowing she's got a SO kinda kills it. Or maybe the pooner get jealous of the SO.

In those cases, I say turn that around into another fantasy - her guy ain't delivering the bacon so she takes you as a secret lover.

But when I'm with a SP, we don't really talk about SOs much in most cases. Not unless it's someone like Kendra, who was quite open about her recent marriage.
 
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Ha ha ha Well I am married and have been for awhile now. Yes, this is my job, but I am also doing it cause I can have my cake and eat it too.
I love sex period........as I get older, I swear I am getting hornier.
The girls at work would ask my husband how he could handle me doing this job. He replies "I am just not enough for her" He says this with a big grin on his face.
And it is true. I want it all the time. No, I am not a nympho, they cant cum. I have no problem there either.
Besides, when we do end up fighting(rarely), he cant cut me off.......cause he knows where I am getting it :D

Dont fret about it Simon. We do this for many reasons.

love and laughs
April
 
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I agree on the so thing. A very popular visting sp visited Edmonton last December and just before I went and visited her I looked on her website and it was posted "SO" I was like frick! I still went and saw her cause it was a half hour before the session. I felt bad if i cancelled. Well the session didnt' go good I had no juice. I wasn't mad I just should've looked first. Also, a very popular mp in Edmonton I had a session with her and it was a excellent session after I found out she is married. Man just killed me. I just feel bad being with a another man's woman. That's just me. I'm a little old fashion that way.
 
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I don't believe what I've been reading!
The moment you pay & the SP accepts, it's a business transaction, for her to provide a stranger (usually) with a service that you clearly cannot get from a friend, wife etc. In other words, money breaks the barrier & allows you to go from stranger to intimate in seconds but only for as long as the money-clock ticks.
In this situation refined thoughts, as initially expressed by Simon & agreed by others later, is simple hypocrisy.
Of course if you feel so 'bad', forgo the pleasure & donate the money to some charity for fallen women, or some such.
In the meantime I'll play happily, recognizing the deal with ladies who are smart enough to have worked it out too.
 
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nicholasp said:
I don't believe what I've been reading!
The moment you pay & the SP accepts, it's a business transaction, for her to provide a stranger (usually) with a service that you clearly cannot get from a friend, wife etc. In other words, money breaks the barrier & allows you to go from stranger to intimate in seconds but only for as long as the money-clock ticks.
In this situation refined thoughts, as initially expressed by Simon & agreed by others later, is simple hypocrisy.
Of course if you feel so 'bad', forgo the pleasure & donate the money to some charity for fallen women, or some such.
In the meantime I'll play happily, recognizing the deal with ladies who are smart enough to have worked it out too.
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It's called morals, and respecting a commitment two individuals who are truly happy with each other have made.
Not everyone will agree of course, because most of society has no morals.
 
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