overnights
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I do agree overnights are meant for fun but I have had a few over time and sleep has occured. I believe it is a case of knowing a little about the provider you're having spending the night. I also take precautions, hide alot of things of value, use safeguards such as things that will trigger if your partner does decide to roam throughout your house. It also can be recommended that you negotiate a rate for "sleep" time.
The safest solution for those concerned with the safety of over-nights is to go with someone you have seen before......... and/or do it in a hotel 
A girl who is well reviewed, and has a good reputation, is less likely to screw that up - than somebody very random that you know little about!
The overnights I have had, were in hotels. Hotel sex is SO hot IMO overnights in a nice hotel, are much more decadent, and you can take advantage of room service, amenities, and have lots of fun without having to worry about your valuables etc.
A girl who is well reviewed, and has a good reputation, is less likely to screw that up - than somebody very random that you know little about!
The overnights I have had, were in hotels. Hotel sex is SO hot
IMO overnights in a nice hotel, are much more decadent, and you can take advantage of room service, amenities, and have lots of fun without having to worry about your valuables etc.Yes Hotel makes great sense if your worried about anything. Shower, sleep, food, sex all in 1 room...I am in lol
Although an action packed evening is expected.. it should also be a given that both of you have SOME sleep... at least 5 hrs.
I know for myself, having been single for so long, it's hard for me to sleep for too long with someone else in the bed
I know for myself, having been single for so long, it's hard for me to sleep for too long with someone else in the bed
Never try a all-nighter before, but I think it's important for both the SP and the client to agree on the hours and content of the all-nighters, like how many hours of sleep is expected and how many hours are for fun. Probably just like every other thing on the menu, it's as specific as possible.
I have had overnights twice.
The first time I will admit I was a little nervous, only because I wanted to be a good host. My wife was a big help with advice on hospitality etiquette and making sure the house was clean and stocked with things she knew a woman would appreciate. It was a duo session. I picked up the girl who was going to be spending the night and drove her to my place, which is out of town so I think it took more trust on the her part for an overnight than any concerns I might have. We got to have a few hours together first before the second lady arrived so we were in our bathrobes sitting on the deck when she got there. I knew the girls pretty good so I found it a very relaxed and comfortable encounter. After a few hours we bid our duo partner goodbye and had the rest of the night to ourselves. I thoroughly enjoyed having the girl stay over, I thought it was romantic and just hanging out and talking was perfect.
The next time was a spontaneous occasion. I called her up and she just happened to be near where I was so we met for dinner. Afterwards we strolled along the avenue, did some shopping and had some drinks. The subject of sex came up and since she had no plans we decided to get a hotel room. We made a couple more stops for supplies, deciding which condoms to get was even fun. It was also exciting to check into a hotel with her on my arm. I would agree with other posters that hotel sex is HOT! It was very passionate and will be one of the most memorable nights I've ever had, for particular reasons I felt I was living out a fantasy and believed it was an experience like Leonard Cohen writes about.
For me the content or hours are not that important. I am not the type of person to have certain expectations or insist on this and that. My goal is for a mutual enjoyment and comfortable flow, to let things happen naturally. I like overnighters, it takes pressure off and makes it feel more real without the aspects of schedule or regiment. My next goal is a vacation with a girl, hopefully this spring.
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The first time I will admit I was a little nervous, only because I wanted to be a good host. My wife was a big help with advice on hospitality etiquette and making sure the house was clean and stocked with things she knew a woman would appreciate. It was a duo session. I picked up the girl who was going to be spending the night and drove her to my place, which is out of town so I think it took more trust on the her part for an overnight than any concerns I might have. We got to have a few hours together first before the second lady arrived so we were in our bathrobes sitting on the deck when she got there. I knew the girls pretty good so I found it a very relaxed and comfortable encounter. After a few hours we bid our duo partner goodbye and had the rest of the night to ourselves. I thoroughly enjoyed having the girl stay over, I thought it was romantic and just hanging out and talking was perfect.
The next time was a spontaneous occasion. I called her up and she just happened to be near where I was so we met for dinner. Afterwards we strolled along the avenue, did some shopping and had some drinks. The subject of sex came up and since she had no plans we decided to get a hotel room. We made a couple more stops for supplies, deciding which condoms to get was even fun. It was also exciting to check into a hotel with her on my arm. I would agree with other posters that hotel sex is HOT! It was very passionate and will be one of the most memorable nights I've ever had, for particular reasons I felt I was living out a fantasy and believed it was an experience like Leonard Cohen writes about.
For me the content or hours are not that important. I am not the type of person to have certain expectations or insist on this and that. My goal is for a mutual enjoyment and comfortable flow, to let things happen naturally. I like overnighters, it takes pressure off and makes it feel more real without the aspects of schedule or regiment. My next goal is a vacation with a girl, hopefully this spring.
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Very interesting post... So your wife helped you organize this encounter. wow what cool wife!!! How exactly does that work. Your wife and Sp?????I have had overnights twice.
The first time I will admit I was a little nervous, only because I wanted to be a good host. My wife was a big help with advice on hospitality etiquette and making sure the house was clean and stocked with things she knew a woman would appreciate. It was a duo session. I picked up the girl who was going to be spending the night and drove her to my place, which is out of town so I think it took more trust on the her part for an overnight than any concerns I might have. We got to have a few hours together first before the second lady arrived so we were in our bathrobes sitting on the deck when she got there. I knew the girls pretty good so I found it a very relaxed and comfortable encounter. After a few hours we bid our duo partner goodbye and had the rest of the night to ourselves. I thoroughly enjoyed having the girl stay over, I thought it was romantic and just hanging out and talking was perfect.
The next time was a spontaneous occasion. I called her up and she just happened to be near where I was so we met for dinner. Afterwards we strolled along the avenue, did some shopping and had some drinks. The subject of sex came up and since she had no plans we decided to get a hotel room. We made a couple more stops for supplies, deciding which condoms to get was even fun. It was also exciting to check into a hotel with her on my arm. I would agree with other posters that hotel sex is HOT! It was very passionate and will be one of the most memorable nights I've ever had, for particular reasons I felt I was living out a fantasy and believed it was an experience like Leonard Cohen writes about.
For me the content or hours are not that important. I am not the type of person to have certain expectations or insist on this and that. My goal is for a mutual enjoyment and comfortable flow, to let things happen naturally. I like overnighters, it takes pressure off and makes it feel more real without the aspects of schedule or regiment. My next goal is a vacation with a girl, hopefully this spring.
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She went to the Carribean for a holiday and never never meets or talks to the girls I see. She didn't help me organize the encounter, mostly she just wanted to make sure the house was clean and presentable, and that I would have something to offer my guests....you know women.
Thanks for the many fond memories! The grand canyon was one of my best memories from all of our trips. That train trip/spa in the wild bush of Portand was a blast, too. (-; I am glad you are back.
Overnight Experience - GFE
Before you read my whole message - just remember different strokes for different people. i understand everyone has different life styles.
i do not believe in overnight sessions with a paying SP, in fact, i don't even spent more then 1 hour at a time with my regular SP.This is beyond a money issue.
people poon for many reasons, i am merried and before that i have always had true GF relationships. i paid for sex because i crave variety and as a man, it is more a physical satisfaction. i find the emotional part way more intimate then the physical part.
i rather reserve the emotional part for someone who is a true "GF" that really does understand your point of view or you understand hers.
IMO, overnight is streching one hour "acting" into a 24 hour session. Afterall, if it is a true GFE i am looking for, i will get a true GF.
my 2 cents.
Before you read my whole message - just remember different strokes for different people. i understand everyone has different life styles.
i do not believe in overnight sessions with a paying SP, in fact, i don't even spent more then 1 hour at a time with my regular SP.This is beyond a money issue.
people poon for many reasons, i am merried and before that i have always had true GF relationships. i paid for sex because i crave variety and as a man, it is more a physical satisfaction. i find the emotional part way more intimate then the physical part.
i rather reserve the emotional part for someone who is a true "GF" that really does understand your point of view or you understand hers.
IMO, overnight is streching one hour "acting" into a 24 hour session. Afterall, if it is a true GFE i am looking for, i will get a true GF.
my 2 cents.
Acting - GFE
Like i said before - everyone has different background or experiences.
if a trip extends to 2-3 days. i personally will not pay for it. when i was single, it was never an issue getting a GF compnionship for free. now i am merried, i wouldn't dream of sharing the emotional part of my life with someone i may not ever see again in 6months.
my point of view is opposite of some of the pooners in this thread. IMO, most single people are lonely - i remember those days,however, for the human emotional intimacy part of a relationship, it is far better not to pay for it. For the money spent in paying an escort for 2-3 days, i would just take out a women/girl i know for 3-4 dates and get to know them - probably still be cheaper since not all dates cost a lot, in fact, i have dated a lot of women who wants to pay for a portion of the date.
The excuse of "my life is too busy" for a relationship is exactly what it is - excuse.
I am not against pooning or the physical sexual part of the experience, it is just that the emotional portion is a line i will not cross.But, if others want to get emotional attached to SPs, all the powers to you.
Like i said before - everyone has different background or experiences.
if a trip extends to 2-3 days. i personally will not pay for it. when i was single, it was never an issue getting a GF compnionship for free. now i am merried, i wouldn't dream of sharing the emotional part of my life with someone i may not ever see again in 6months.
my point of view is opposite of some of the pooners in this thread. IMO, most single people are lonely - i remember those days,however, for the human emotional intimacy part of a relationship, it is far better not to pay for it. For the money spent in paying an escort for 2-3 days, i would just take out a women/girl i know for 3-4 dates and get to know them - probably still be cheaper since not all dates cost a lot, in fact, i have dated a lot of women who wants to pay for a portion of the date.
The excuse of "my life is too busy" for a relationship is exactly what it is - excuse.
I am not against pooning or the physical sexual part of the experience, it is just that the emotional portion is a line i will not cross.But, if others want to get emotional attached to SPs, all the powers to you.
spooner he ain't missing anything. he's in it for different reasons. that's pretty clear. ie read the 2nd line of his first post again.
great insight
i like the hotel safety aspect,but i am not one to trust much, sleep with my wallet under my pillow i guess.
i have slept over night with a well known to me sp but it wasn't planned just happened and i woke up a fair bit. my place, i have hid things in my house in the past pre appointment many i haven't since found.
life could be a fair bit less complicated. we are pretty much within a legal arrangement why not make it official?
the escort business is what it is, no secret about that.
wow isn't that a tad of topic.
i like the hotel safety aspect,but i am not one to trust much, sleep with my wallet under my pillow i guess.
i have slept over night with a well known to me sp but it wasn't planned just happened and i woke up a fair bit. my place, i have hid things in my house in the past pre appointment many i haven't since found.
life could be a fair bit less complicated. we are pretty much within a legal arrangement why not make it official?
the escort business is what it is, no secret about that.
wow isn't that a tad of topic.
risk
there has been mention of a bond developing between pooner and sp, the bond has a lie at it's foundation. and we had mention of being lonely as a single person, all the worse.
a good business relationship can only be complicated by strong feelings.
there has been mention of a bond developing between pooner and sp, the bond has a lie at it's foundation. and we had mention of being lonely as a single person, all the worse.
a good business relationship can only be complicated by strong feelings.
Most over nighters that I've seen advertised come with the stipulation of 6- 8 hours sleep. I don't know about most guys but paying a person to sleep is ridiculous in my opinion. Why not just book 3 separate 4 hours appointments instead?
Unrushed
The thing I like about extended, overnite, or little trips is the casual off the clock attitude with the girl. You don't have to keep an eye on time so you can just go with the flow and enjoy the evening and each other. No big deal if you pop with a quick bj because you'll likely have msog throughout the time together. Definitely not something I would do unless I had previously seen her or she had fantastic recommendations.
The thing I like about extended, overnite, or little trips is the casual off the clock attitude with the girl. You don't have to keep an eye on time so you can just go with the flow and enjoy the evening and each other. No big deal if you pop with a quick bj because you'll likely have msog throughout the time together. Definitely not something I would do unless I had previously seen her or she had fantastic recommendations.
