can't climax

[emacky]

So recently I've been making my list and decided to begin pooning.

But today a thought just popped in my head from my last sexual experience with my last gf. When we had sex I could never climax. No matter she did or what position we did it in, I could never finish the job. This girl was my gf, so I'm thinking if I can't finish with a girl I know, how will I be able to with a random stranger?

Help? Please

 

[Health Nurse]

So recently I've been making my list and decided to begin pooning.

But today a thought just popped in my head from my last sexual experience with my last gf. When we had sex I could never climax. No matter she did or what position we did it in, I could never finish the job. This girl was my gf, so I'm thinking if I can't finish with a girl I know, how will I be able to with a random stranger?

Help? Please

Hi emacky

Just wondering if this is something that only happened with this girlfriend or if it has happened in the past with other partners?

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[emacky]

Hi emacky

Just wondering if this is something that only happened with this girlfriend or if it has happened in the past with other partners?

HN
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Well unforunately my exp is limited. Recently I hooked up on hallween with this girl and the same thing happened. We were at it for a good hour and after a while we past out from just being too tired to try anymore.

 

[Health Nurse]

Well unforunately my exp is limited. Recently I hooked up on hallween with this girl and the same thing happened. We were at it for a good hour and after a while we past out from just being too tired to try anymore.

Hi emacky

From what you have described it sounds like this is a real concern for you and has happened with different partners in the past. The problem you describe is called delayed ejaculation.

Here is a link for additional information. The bit on delayed ejaculation is at the bottom.
http://www.sexualityandu.ca/professionals/male-dysfunction-4-3.aspx

Sex therapists believe there can be a number of different causes such as medical conditions, medication side effects, intimacy issues and partner’s issues.

Emacky I do not know about your medical history or what types of medication you are on if any. I also do not know your full sexual history for example have you ever been able to ejaculate. Given this I would just suggest that you visit your family doctor, tell them what you told us and they will be able to do a physical exam and review your medication.

If everything is ok with your doctor I would suggest that you visit one of our local sex counselors that specialize in this area.


Local resources in the lower mainland.

Dr David R. McKenzie
http://www.davidrmckenzie.com/

Dr Pega Ren
http://www.smartsextalk.com/index.html

Dr Bianca Rucker
http://www.biancarucker.com/

Dr Marelize Swart
http://www.femalethoughts.com/


On Vancouver Island

Victoria:

Julian Young
http://www3.telus.net/youngconsulting/index.htm

Sylvain Boies
http://www.bctherapy.net/


Nanaimo:

Mark Giesbrecht
http://www.markgiesbrecht.com/


Let us know if you want us to expand on a topic. Remember if you would like to ask me a personal question just send me a PM.


HN
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