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new worker threatened with bad review.......

susi

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@the Meat Market!!!lol
i just ran into a friend of mine who just entered the industry, is beautiful and i told her how great it is as a job and how the guys are not jerks and are mostly nice, generous and respectful of boundaries......

well, she got a job and on her very first call ever, ran into an idiot from this board, specifically named perb to her, who pressured her to engage in unsafe sex-ie DFK and BBBJ and when she said she was not comfortable and that unsafe sex practicies were beyond her boundaries, her threatened her with a bad review and stated it would ruin her career.....

she said he was an asian man and i am here to tell you, if i knew who you were i would try to black list you.

her first fuckin call and she gets some fuckin idiot bully trying to make do things she doesn't want to do.....

it's called extortion boys and it's illegal. it's bullshit like this that gives all customers a bad name and fuels abolitionist statements that all customers are predators.you are a predator...jerk.

i hope you are proud of yourself ruining a young womans first experience in this industry. people like you undermine trust between workers and customers and now she is completely nervous instead of having been intriduced to our life style in a way that would have empowered her.....

now she is afraid and keeps checking to see if this idiot is going to run her down with a review...

you fuckin suck......

end rant
 

Bombaman

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Show his ID here to all of us. Some Asians are really bad i must agree...You should reveal his name and id at least we can protect the SPs this way.
 

anonanon

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Not cool...:(
 

oppai

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Show his ID here to all of us. Some Asians are really bad i must agree...You should reveal his name and id at least we can protect the SPs this way.
I think you should change that to SOME MEN. It has nothing to do with him being Asian, it has to do with him being a dick.
 

hunsperger

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my sense is...

Susi has been drinking too much wine this Thanksgiving weekend...

almost reads like Mariposa's escapades...
 
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Rambo

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well, she got a job and on her very first call ever, ran into an idiot from this board, specifically named perb to her, who pressured her to engage in unsafe sex-ie DFK and BBBJ and when she said she was not comfortable and that unsafe sex practicies were beyond her boundaries, her threatened her with a bad review and stated it would ruin her career.....
If she were to post an anti-review herself, before that guy (in the appropriate forum), I'm sure many would understand, and appreciate that she was offering a heads-up pro-active report vs. a re-active defence.

Tell her, it's just as important for bad pooners to be reviewed as it is for the ladies to be reviewed.
It generates support for her, and helps warn other ladies.

At the same time, a bad experience with a client doesn't necessarily mean a bad review of him should be posted - if there's no chemistry or some sort of false expectations, that's one thing.
"Reputation blackmail" is another. It sucks, but it does happen now & then, I'm sure.

That kind of behaviour doesn't fly, and SHOULD be shot down!
 

susi

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@the Meat Market!!!lol
my sense is...

Susi has been drinking too much wine this Thanksgiving weekend...

almost reads like Mariposa's escapades...
cutie!

many women thinking of entering the industry talk to me about it i think because i am so public...i can't wait for trade secrets to be done so i can give complete information to people curious about fnding work in the sex industry.....

on a side note...wine gives me a head ache and is so foofoo....i'm a scotch/single malt/beer drinkng hell raiser!!!

it just upset me because she was talking about doing it for months and i had told her she would be fine. i guess i kinda feel i let her down, where she was so excited especially when she was hired at an agency i told her was good, and is good....and now she just seems a bit disillusioned. i guess she would have been disillusioned eventually anyway but i just wish it hadn't been on her first call....know what i mean?

love susie
 
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Picklebreath

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Sounds like bostich.

Tell her not to worry, no one listens to him anyway. (Plus no one has been as banned as he is from everywhere)

If a poor review shows up of her, just be looking for it and your post will expose him and his handle. :)

I am not sure why people seem shocked by this --- this has happened to just about every new sp out there -- threats from people claiming to be reviewers to get more for less.
 

Holly Taylor

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That's a real shame, Susi. I feel bad for this woman.

My own first experience with a client was so good - and he was Asian. I don't appreciate the anti-Asian remarks going on here. It has nothing to do with that - this guy was just a jerk, apparently.

I don't know if this is something your friend will be able to overcome or not. Frankly, I was introduced with such great experiences that I never looked back. I don't know what it would have been like for me if my first experience was bad. I probably never would have pursued a second experience.

Best wishes to your friend!
 

chilli

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i wish i could but he was anonymus to her, she didn't know his name or handle....dang it!!
Her first lesson.

She should know something about anyone and everyone she meets.

The guy is an ahole, but imagine if he was a physically abusive ahole - just another dead escort? who knows...

Psychos all sound like nice guys.... (at first)

Tell her she needs to be smarter.
 

TheSilkenBadger

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Why is it that as soon as I read the OP's comments Bostitch just dropped right into my mind.. good call.. it probably was him....
 

treveller

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Anyone new to the business should start on the Island. We are all upstanding gentlemen over here. Just ask the ladies!!
 

susi

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@the Meat Market!!!lol
she just started babe!she's nervous and doesn't know better, as far as she knew, 1 bad review could end her career. that's the point, inexperienced workers being taken advantage of in the most vulnerable moment of their career...their first customer....an experienced worker would of course know better.....
 
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