SP's and PoF... SP's on PoF.

[MrPeterNorth]

I signed up not too long ago again on PoF as a good friend of mine is just tearing it up on that site.

In the process I've come across the profiles of many "working" girls - Yaletown Taylor, Chanelle, Adriana, and many many more.

What cracks me up is that on every single "working" girls profile - they have a disclaimer : "Must Not Be Looking For an Intimate Encounter" or the other favorite - "Must Not Have Messaged Users Looking for Intimate Encounters".

But if a guy has $200... LMAO.

As an aside - how are others doing on PoF?

 

[Adriana✿]

the 21 year old blonde adriana???? or is someone using my pics???

 

[MrPeterNorth]

Sorry, I meant Arriana Royale.

I hear this a lot - Vancouver women being lonely. Or is it a case of being too picky? I can't tell you how many Friday and Saturday nights I see hot women browsing PoF. You're going to tell me the 50-60 messages she received during the week, not a single guy was good enough for a date? I'm not too sure about that.

I guess I'm more interested in knowing why my friend in another part of the country is having a dead opposite experience with it than the one I'm having. My general idea of the whole thing is that the effort should be spent ON the date, not spending all the effort trying to get one.

 

[rescue911]

plenty of nothing

i have tried that site and find that it is worthless as far as finding a female to meet with.

i too have run across profiles with pics of sps. i just took it for granted they were looking for someone other than a client....as someone above said..a friend for a wing nite or even a real date.....i do not contact those i know as i do not want to intrude on their "for me time"...a lady is not always looking for work you know.

 

[MrPeterNorth]

I wouldn't contact an SP off PoF either. The only girl I've seen before for pleasure was Chanelle, and I wouldn't send her a message on there.

My experience with PoF so far has been basically a site filled with women that don't really want to meet anyone. A large group of women that would rather complain about being alone and bored, than to meet someone for a date. I was on there a few years back with better success, and I still recognize some of the profiles from back then! I'm really not big on the idea of talking to someone on a computer for weeks on end before you meet them, especially since it's summer and so nice out. I'd rather meet the person right away and put my effort ON the date itself. My average - 20 messages, maybe 1 reply.

My friends experience with PoF : He logs in, within an hour he gets a new message or two. He's talked to maybe 20 girls at most on that site in the past month, he's gone on 5 or 6 dates, and banged 4 of them already. And these girls aren't charity cases either - most of them are tall, hot, European-type models. Within 2 messages he's got their phone number, and by the next day he's made a date. Fast, direct, forward.

Why the huge difference? Our profiles are very similar in style.

 

[bobby]

where's your friend live peter?

 

[MrPeterNorth]

That's just it though - it's all a big hypocrisy in my eyes. That's why I kind of chuckle to myself at the SP's saying stuff like - must not be looking for random sex, it's all BS. Even with the non-working girls.

That would be easy dood but I'm not getting much if anything in the way of responses. And I'm only going after girls who almost word for word are looking for a guy like me (that I find attractive as well), or at the very least have a lot in common. I don't think so much effort should be spent on getting a date, but rather the effort concentrated on the actual date itself.

The two differences between his profile and mine - he's in Ontario, and he's tall. But it's not like he's a model.

 

[smackyo]

I wouldn't contact an SP off PoF either. The only girl I've seen before for pleasure was Chanelle, and I wouldn't send her a message on there.

My experience with PoF so far has been basically a site filled with women that don't really want to meet anyone. A large group of women that would rather complain about being alone and bored, than to meet someone for a date. I was on there a few years back with better success, and I still recognize some of the profiles from back then! I'm really not big on the idea of talking to someone on a computer for weeks on end before you meet them, especially since it's summer and so nice out. I'd rather meet the person right away and put my effort ON the date itself. My average - 20 messages, maybe 1 reply.

My friends experience with PoF : He logs in, within an hour he gets a new message or two. He's talked to maybe 20 girls at most on that site in the past month, he's gone on 5 or 6 dates, and banged 4 of them already. And these girls aren't charity cases either - most of them are tall, hot, European-type models. Within 2 messages he's got their phone number, and by the next day he's made a date. Fast, direct, forward.

Why the huge difference? Our profiles are very similar in style.

i used it for a while and deleted my account.

it was ridiculous the amount of work you had to put in just to get some attention from a girl that at best was a 6 in looks. i think the other guy hit the nail square on the head, its a case of the women being too picky. every woman on there wants some personal thought out message and the kicker is they may not even respond.

i always found that so rude. you take the time to write out something unique and tailored to her and fucked if she doesn't even respond, you'd just a see a message that says she read and deleted your message.

like jana said, i really wasn't lookin for a quick lay. truth be told i am a guy with a healthy sex drive and if sex happened then great, but it wouldn't have been something i pushed. but it can sometimes get lonely in this city and i was just lookin for someone to hit up a wing night or something with as well.

i did meet a few girls on there and had sex with one but for the amount of time i spent sending messages and the dents to my self esteem with not even being responded to, multiplied by how many women i messaged, it really wasn't worth it for that one lay. had i have met some cool people off it along with that lay then it might be different but the few women i met from it i haven't talked to since.

i have a buddy on it in toronto and he cleans up, i also have a few friends on it out here and a couple of them are visually what women want so they do not too bad i guess but not as good as my buddies back in ontario.

 

[smackyo]

That would be easy dood but I'm not getting much if anything in the way of responses. And I'm only going after girls who almost word for word are looking for a guy like me (that I find attractive as well), or at the very least have a lot in common.

just something to add to this. if you are messaging women that are saying "they want a nice guy" or something to that effect of being "nice" and you think of yourself of a nice guy and present yourself as such.

well if they are under 35, they are 90% of the time not looking for a "nice" guy. they are looking for that player that will fuck them silly, treat them like shit, cheat on them and play mind games so they can play mind games back. its all a big game and a challenge to them. the only reason they say they want a "nice" guy is because thats what their mom's told them they should want and so they don't come across as a slut.

i said the above at the risk of being flamed by many ladies on this board cause i know many of you are under 35, but in my defence and i'm not just saying this, i find that sp's are a little more mature when it comes to men because of the nature of their job.

if an sp that is under 35 told me that she really wanted to find a "nice" guy, i would believe her.

 

[Adriana✿]

just something to add to this. if you are messaging women that are saying "they want a nice guy" or something to that effect of being "nice" and you think of yourself of a nice guy and present yourself as such.

well if they are under 35, they are 90% of the time not looking for a "nice" guy. they are looking for that player that will fuck them silly, treat them like shit, cheat on them and play mind games so they can play mind games back. its all a big game and a challenge to them. the only reason they say they want a "nice" guy is because thats what their mom's told them they should want and so they don't come across as a slut.

i said the above at the risk of being flamed by many ladies on this board cause i know many of you are under 35, but in my defence and i'm not just saying this, i find that sp's are a little more mature when it comes to men because of the nature of their job.

if an sp that is under 35 told me that she really wanted to find a "nice" guy, i would believe her.

I totally agree Smackyo. It feels kind of good /bad/good in a weird twisted way to be dominated and trashed by the guy you love. Fucked up but true. The whole domination/him treating me badly thing really gets me going. Not healthy, so addictive LOL If a guy is nice and will do anything you want; is nice. Ugh. Boring.

Keep in mind that us girls get a million messages on there and you just can't reply to them all. I feel so bad deleting a well written reply but its just so insane going thru 100 messages and replying to everyone "sorry you are not my type".

Same goes for the guys on there WOT. Three times I was stood up, they didn't even bother to show for the date so I deleted my account too. blah. I would rather it happened randomly anyway.

 

[smackyo]

I totally agree Smackyo. It feels kind of good /bad/good in a weird twisted way to be dominated and trashed by the guy you love. Fucked up but true. The whole domination/him treating me badly thing really gets me going. Not healthy, so addictive LOL If a guy is nice and will do anything you want; is nice. Ugh. Boring.

Keep in mind that us girls get a million messages on there and you just can't reply to them all. I feel so bad deleting a well written reply but its just so insane going thru 100 messages and replying to everyone "sorry you are not my type".

Same goes for the guys on there WOT. Three times I was stood up, they didn't even bother to show for the date so I deleted my account too. blah. I would rather it happened randomly anyway.

i would have showed up if it were me, but i bet you were one of the ladies that just deleted my message.

 

[Adriana✿]

i would have showed up if it were me, but i bet you were one of the ladies that just deleted my message.

Your face pic gets mine LOL

 

[smackyo]

Your face pic gets mine LOL

lol, good one. i always had my face pic up though. i have nothing to hide and think that i'm a decent looking guy. just not good enough for some i guess.

 

[MrPeterNorth]

Hahaha, no, I'm not talking about being a "nice" guy. I don't even think I come across that way even on here haha. I'm very very sarcastic and witty most times. Usually if I respond to an ad, it's a lady who's written something smart and witty herself. I'm by no means looking for the "one", I don't even think such a woman exists. Let's face it though, good sex never hurt anyone.

I'm trying to keep an open-mind. But it certainly is very time consuming. It gets to the point where I just cut all the chit-chat out and just ask them straight up to go for coffee.

It simply appears women in Ontario and places east also want to have a good time, are a lot more easy-going, and would rather meet somebody and go their separate ways than to not meet someone at all and then complain about being "alone".

I don't expect to be every woman's type. And if I sent 50 messages and heard back from 20, again the 30 I don't hear back from wouldn't matter. But 100 messages to hear back from 5, only to meet 2 for example - that's a bit excessive. But I'll remain optimistic. I'm certainly not losing sleep over it like Keithks does.

 

[Shiver22]

never going to look for a normal date on pof and cl again

For the past month I've been on pof and posting occasionally on cl. The emails I got back were rude. I wanted to just delete all of them after going through 10 of maybe fifty a day. I agreed to meet for coffee with one guy on pof. He was late. He didn't even sit down before inviting me to have a quicky in his car. Got rid of POF. Dont get me started on the guys on CL.

The clients at the ranch yesterday were nicer to me, didn't lie or manipulate, and to my surprise interested in mutual satisfaction.

Now that I've tasted it, I think Ill stick to being an sp

xoxo Leanne

 

[smackyo]

For the past month I've been on pof and posting occasionally on cl. The emails I got back were rude. I wanted to just delete all of them after going through 10 of maybe fifty a day. I agreed to meet for coffee with one guy on pof. He was late. He didn't even sit down before inviting me to have a quicky in his car. Got rid of POF. Dont get me started on the guys on CL.

The clients at the ranch yesterday were nicer to me, didn't lie or manipulate, and to my surprise interested in mutual satisfaction.

Now that I've tasted it, I think Ill stick to being an sp

xoxo Leanne

try responding to the guys that had a decent picture up and a good write up about themselves instead of the guys that take a picture of themselves in the mirror while pulling their shirt up over their abs or the closest looking to brad pitt.

you might find a decent guy that can carry on a conversation over coffee.

 

[Adriana✿]

lol, good one. i always had my face pic up though. i have nothing to hide and think that i'm a decent looking guy. just not good enough for some i guess.

I had my face pic up too but was terrified a client would see it and post it on perb, hey there's a hooker on POF looking for a man LOL I have a face, hair and eyes that are very distinctive. I was living in fear LOL

 

[MrPeterNorth]

Just because I found at least 10 SP's on PoF doesn't mean I'm going to post their links on here for the world to see. But the fact of the matter is simple - there are so many women in this city that are lonely, and sadly, it's through no fault but their own.

 

[Shiver22]

try responding to the guys that had a decent picture up and a good write up about themselves instead of the guys that take a picture of themselves in the mirror while pulling their shirt up over their abs or the closest looking to brad pitt.

you might find a decent guy that can carry on a conversation over coffee.

I actually prefer boys with some meat on them. I have this fetish about watching people eat. lol

 

[aznboi9]

it was ridiculous the amount of work you had to put in just to get some attention from a girl that at best was a 6 in looks. i think the other guy hit the nail square on the head, its a case of the women being too picky. every woman on there wants some personal thought out message and the kicker is they may not even respond.

i always found that so rude. you take the time to write out something unique and tailored to her and fucked if she doesn't even respond, you'd just a see a message that says she read and deleted your message.

I've been on POF for about a month now and that seems to be my experience as well. You go thru all the trouble of writing a decent hello just to have deleted with no response, that's just incredibly rude and very deflating.