i think she meant things like, knocking loudly at her incall, talking about her or the biz at her front door where her neighbors can hear etc.
Best and worst aspects of this hobby/business?
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good one hubs!!!!Putting on Old Spice doesn't represent going that extra mile
I finally figured what your problem is and it was from your 20k a month thread. You make under 10k a month and find it hard to take that a lot of these girls make more than you. You like to talk about how much education you have and how smart you are. That being said, one would figure you would be making a whole lot more money than you do. If you have to work long hours to make that kind of money, that's your problem.
Instead of bitching at girls that may make more than you, why not enhance your own situation? Why is it you have to feel so much anger towards these girls? Personally, I couldn't care less how much anyone makes and I don't begrudge anyone who makes more that I do. In fact, I like to see people do well for themselves.
I don't wanna get into a war of words with you Krusty but you bitch about the same sh*t over and over. Making UNDER $10 K a month is your problem, if you are worth more or want more, go get a better job but quit slamming the girls over and over again..................it's getting real old!
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best-
time spent....
worst-
spent time....
it is what it is.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo,
jxxx
604-961-6260
Putting on Old Spice doesn't represent going that extra mile
I finally figured what your problem is and it was from your 20k a month thread. You make under 10k a month and find it hard to take that a lot of these girls make more than you. You like to talk about how much education you have and how smart you are. That being said, one would figure you would be making a whole lot more money than you do. If you have to work long hours to make that kind of money, that's your problem.
Instead of bitching at girls that may make more than you, why not enhance your own situation? Why is it you have to feel so much anger towards these girls? Personally, I couldn't care less how much anyone makes and I don't begrudge anyone who makes more that I do. In fact, I like to see people do well for themselves.
I don't wanna get into a war of words with you Krusty but you bitch about the same sh*t over and over. Making UNDER $10 K a month is your problem, if you are worth more or want more, go get a better job but quit slamming the girls over and over again..................it's getting real old!
FYI - yup I make less than $20k per month.
Less than half that actually!
I have in the past made $12k per month as a contractor.
Due to these difficult economic times I took an employee position & on occasion make more than $10k when I put in considerable OT but I average just under $10k per month.
I am not complaining about my own income, I make well above average for my type of work & education level.
I could finish my Masters & make a lot more but that is a ways away.
No, my problem is not that these gals are making that much -
it is that they are making it & not paying taxes or even some of them are on welfare while making huge $ as a prostitute!
Don't try to tell me that doesn't happen either cuz I have seen it numerous times over the years!
As for taxes, they are using the health care as much if not more than the rest of us so the least they can do is help pay into it!
As it is now our Healthcare is bankrupt!
Also - IF you are gonna charge $250+ per hour -
give the guy a FUCKING decent session!!!
He's paying ya good money so don't rip him off!
Also don't try to get info on the guy which you can use to extort with later!
Gals making good money like this need to appreciate their clients!
Is that really so unreasonable?
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There are tons of people scamming the system, not just SP's. and i'm sure krustee you've been one of them at some point in your life, most people have had a job that has payed them cash whether its short term or long term.
FYI - yup I make less than $20k per month.
Less than half that actually!
I have in the past made $12k per month as a contractor.
Due to these difficult economic times I took an employee position & on occasion make more than $10k when I put in considerable OT but I average just under $10k per month.
I am not complaining about my own income, I make well above average for my type of work & education level.
I could finish my Masters & make a lot more but that is a ways away.
No, my problem is not that these gals are making that much -
it is that they are making it & not paying taxes or even some of them are on welfare while making huge $ as a prostitute!
Don't try to tell me that doesn't happen either cuz I have seen it numerous times over the years!
As for taxes, they are using the health care as much if not more than the rest of us so the least they can do is help pay into it!
As it is now our Healthcare is bankrupt!
Also - IF you are gonna charge $250+ per hour -
give the guy a FUCKING decent session!!!
He's paying ya good money so don't rip him off!
Also don't try to get info on the guy which you can use to extort with later!
Gals making good money like this need to appreciate their clients!
If that really so unreasonable?
There are also a lot of SP's that DO claim their earnings. I know a few of them
Although I get your point about some SP's ripping you off with bad service. It seems like you are being fairly selective about your indignation. What about the girls that do provide you with great service do they all pay their taxes? Also it seems a bit hypocritical railing against "prostitutes" who drain our system, yet supporting them by paying for their services. Kind of like the dude who buys a stereo system from the back of van then complains about the theives stealing stereos.
FYI - yup I make less than $20k per month.
Less than half that actually!
I have in the past made $12k per month as a contractor.
Due to these difficult economic times I took an employee position & on occasion make more than $10k when I put in considerable OT but I average just under $10k per month.
I am not complaining about my own income, I make well above average for my type of work & education level.
I could finish my Masters & make a lot more but that is a ways away.
No, my problem is not that these gals are making that much -
it is that they are making it & not paying taxes or even some of them are on welfare while making huge $ as a prostitute!
Don't try to tell me that doesn't happen either cuz I have seen it numerous times over the years!
As for taxes, they are using the health care as much if not more than the rest of us so the least they can do is help pay into it!
As it is now our Healthcare is bankrupt!
Also - IF you are gonna charge $250+ per hour -
give the guy a FUCKING decent session!!!
He's paying ya good money so don't rip him off!
Also don't try to get info on the guy which you can use to extort with later!
Gals making good money like this need to appreciate their clients!
Is that really so unreasonable?
The worst part about this hobby/business is that it has kind of jaded me from going after regular girls. Sure, I go on dates and stuff too - but after meeting women from literally all walks of life/backgrounds in this industry, I have a hard time looking at women in the same light as before. It's made me complacent. And for a guy that's on the shy side, doesn't really help me out much.
But when I poon - I have my alter-ego going - I'm the alpha-male I really should be, but in regular life this doesn't come out for some reason.
But when I poon - I have my alter-ego going - I'm the alpha-male I really should be, but in regular life this doesn't come out for some reason.
I alluded to this in my initial post in this thread, but you nailed it. When it comes to a choice between trying to meet chicks in the real world and then doing the wining & dining thing or getting good sex from a hot-looking SP, I will opt for the SP. And considering that in the real world, I'd be lucky to reel in an average-attractive girl, I find that I don't really want to bother with real-world dating when I have those hot SPs.The worst part about this hobby/business is that it has kind of jaded me from going after regular girls. Sure, I go on dates and stuff too - but after meeting women from literally all walks of life/backgrounds in this industry, I have a hard time looking at women in the same light as before. It's made me complacent. And for a guy that's on the shy side, doesn't really help me out much.
But when I poon - I have my alter-ego going - I'm the alpha-male I really should be, but in regular life this doesn't come out for some reason.
I suppose that being a pooner can warp their own expectations of real-life dating. The SP can give you an enormous ego boost that makes you feel that you really are a hot powerfuck stud which unfortunately doesn't translate to real-life mating rituals.
Best parts of the job:
-The thank you messages after the date. I feel an enormous sense of satisfaction and pride when I have truly made someone's week, or month!
-Seeing Vancouver from so many different angles (hotel room views)
-Meeting and talking to so many different kinds of people, in all different kinds of jobs and stages in their lives. Honestly, I can't think of many situations in which I would get the opportunity to talk so candidly with doctors, lawyers, teachers, soldiers, transit workers, business people, entrepreneurs, construction workers, and so on. I have learned so much from the different life experiences of all the people I have talked to.
-Unexpected gifts. The most memorable gift I ever received was a beautiful hardcover copy of one of my favourite books, signed by the author, the editor and the artist. Very special indeed!
-The opportunity to explore my sexuality and learn new things.
-The opportunity to experience other people's sexuality and learn what different people like and dislike. Yes, there is a bit of a voyeuristic Kinsey element to this one!
Worst parts of the job:
-Worrying about safety (although I don't worry that much, really, since I started requiring references)
-Feeling judged and disrespected by society at large. Specifically, I am angered by unjust laws and prudish moral norms.
-The thank you messages after the date. I feel an enormous sense of satisfaction and pride when I have truly made someone's week, or month!
-Seeing Vancouver from so many different angles (hotel room views)
-Meeting and talking to so many different kinds of people, in all different kinds of jobs and stages in their lives. Honestly, I can't think of many situations in which I would get the opportunity to talk so candidly with doctors, lawyers, teachers, soldiers, transit workers, business people, entrepreneurs, construction workers, and so on. I have learned so much from the different life experiences of all the people I have talked to.
-Unexpected gifts. The most memorable gift I ever received was a beautiful hardcover copy of one of my favourite books, signed by the author, the editor and the artist. Very special indeed!
-The opportunity to explore my sexuality and learn new things.
-The opportunity to experience other people's sexuality and learn what different people like and dislike. Yes, there is a bit of a voyeuristic Kinsey element to this one!
Worst parts of the job:
-Worrying about safety (although I don't worry that much, really, since I started requiring references)
-Feeling judged and disrespected by society at large. Specifically, I am angered by unjust laws and prudish moral norms.
x2!
I don't have any choice though, since I could approach every woman in the city and not a single one of them would ever sleep with me. Knowing that straight guys out there actually get laid without paying a hundred dollars in cash completely blows my mind.
Of course I'm very grateful towards this hobby for giving me a life. I only wish I had've been introduced to it as soon as I sprouted my first pube. It would've saved me years of frustration / being on the brink of insanity.
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... or even saying our "name" in our doorway lol (my incall is in an apartment). Repeating our apartment # out loud .... trying to kiss you in the doorway... taking loudly near the door.... okay I am paranoid ... lol!
Pro VS Con
Con - after 3 years in the hobby(novice compare to some of you). i have to say for some pooners, this is a VERY DANGEROUS hobby. It is a mental addiction close to gambling.
it can be a slippery road to detach from reality. I have now find myself looking at women more as sexual objects at times and have to make an effort to switch back to reality.
Anyways, this is the dark side of this hobby.
Pro - Obvious from pooners's point of view.....major fantasy turn on and etc.Even for guys with normal girlfriends and wives.The worst part about this hobby/business is that it has kind of jaded me from going after regular girls. Sure, I go on dates and stuff too - but after meeting women from literally all walks of life/backgrounds in this industry, I have a hard time looking at women in the same light as before. It's made me complacent. And for a guy that's on the shy side, doesn't really help me out much.
But when I poon - I have my alter-ego going - I'm the alpha-male I really should be, but in regular life this doesn't come out for some reason.
Con - after 3 years in the hobby(novice compare to some of you). i have to say for some pooners, this is a VERY DANGEROUS hobby. It is a mental addiction close to gambling.
it can be a slippery road to detach from reality. I have now find myself looking at women more as sexual objects at times and have to make an effort to switch back to reality.
Anyways, this is the dark side of this hobby.
Same. Now I always think to myself, "How much would she cost?" I've even thought about offering money to female acquaintances, though I would never actually go through with it unless unless I knew she wouldn't freak out.
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The best aspects of my work include being able to enjoy a huge variety of kinky experiences in a safe controlled environment, meeting intelllient people from all walks of life and learning new things from them. My work has deeply enriched my personal life, especially over the past year. I also earn a solid income without allowing myself to feel stressed or burnt out.
The worst things about my work would have to be the negative stigma attached to professional dominants. I find myself saying "yes I actually love men" alot more than I used to lol. There is also a certain isolation which comes with any sex- related occupation. I'm very lucky to have awesome family and friends who support me. This board has also been a great meeting place for like minded ladies. Damn I've got it good
The worst things about my work would have to be the negative stigma attached to professional dominants. I find myself saying "yes I actually love men" alot more than I used to lol. There is also a certain isolation which comes with any sex- related occupation. I'm very lucky to have awesome family and friends who support me. This board has also been a great meeting place for like minded ladies. Damn I've got it good
Well if you keep that frame of mind, you will NOT get laid. I take the opposite approach. I assume everyone women wants to sleep with me, unless told otherwise. Sure, most probably don't - but if I take the attitude that none do, then you're right - none will.
As a shorter guy who absolutely loves tall women, I always try to meet them first. It's a personal victory if it works - but certainly not the sole reason to approach a tall woman, that would be silly. I am genuinely attracted to them though.
I'm still a firm believer personality has to win in the end. A really gorgeous lady friend of mine got married on the weekend, to a really really average looking guy as short as myself. So I know it's bound to work in the end, you just have to have faith
A very good attitude and good advice!Well if you keep that frame of mind, you will NOT get laid. I take the opposite approach. I assume everyone women wants to sleep with me, unless told otherwise. Sure, most probably don't - but if I take the attitude that none do, then you're right - none will.
As a shorter guy who absolutely loves tall women, I always try to meet them first. It's a personal victory if it works - but certainly not the sole reason to approach a tall woman, that would be silly. I am genuinely attracted to them though.
I'm still a firm believer personality has to win in the end. A really gorgeous lady friend of mine got married on the weekend, to a really really average looking guy as short as myself. So I know it's bound to work in the end, you just have to have faith
Best Aspects:
- meeting new and interesting people that I probably would not have otherwise had a chance to meet
- having experiences (i.e. travel, dining, etc.) that I might not have otherwise had on my own
- being able to spend time with intelligent, successful people who are incredibly motivating to me and genuinely seem to care about my well-being and my future
- being treated like a lady and being told that I am pretty and/or sexy (in "real life" guys underestimate the positive effects this can have on their significant others)
Worst Aspects:
- poor hygiene
- having to decline clients (or repeats) when I don't think we will be (or already know from experience that we are not) compatible
- when a client doesn't cum and we have to end the session eventually --> makes me feel like I didn't do my job properly, didn't turn them on enough, wasn't sexy enough, etc.
- meeting new and interesting people that I probably would not have otherwise had a chance to meet
- having experiences (i.e. travel, dining, etc.) that I might not have otherwise had on my own
- being able to spend time with intelligent, successful people who are incredibly motivating to me and genuinely seem to care about my well-being and my future
- being treated like a lady and being told that I am pretty and/or sexy (in "real life" guys underestimate the positive effects this can have on their significant others)
Worst Aspects:
- poor hygiene
- having to decline clients (or repeats) when I don't think we will be (or already know from experience that we are not) compatible
- when a client doesn't cum and we have to end the session eventually --> makes me feel like I didn't do my job properly, didn't turn them on enough, wasn't sexy enough, etc.
best-sp that is friendly and enjoys or seems like she enjoys herself
worst-people on this board who seem to call shill way to often
worst-people on this board who seem to call shill way to often
