Have you ever...

[hunsperger]

been turned down by one of the SPs on Perb because of your posting history...

I PMed her about a session, she said she reviewed my posting history, and based on that she has concluded I would not be her type ...

talk about a kick in the groin...

must not be a sports fan...

such is life...

 

[Thatotherguy]

Never happened to me, but it's probably better that she was honest about that. You can usually get a pretty good feel for what a person is like from their posts, and if she figured you wouldn't get along, isn't it better for her to come out and say that rather than have you pay for what will probably be a disappointing session?

 

[Arrrg]

I've been turned down because of my review history. Given the reviews I have given she deduced that she probably wouldn't be my cup of tea.

Oh well.

 

[BJhunter]

That surprises you? There are ladies on here! Don't think for one second you and BJH acting like jack asses isn't noticed by them too. Instead of taking it personally, maybe take it as a sign to clean it up a bit.

Wrong again

some SPs love my anti-BW bashing, b/c it even makes them sick.

 

[wilde]

Wrong again

some SPs love my anti-BW bashing, b/c it even makes them sick.

Aren't you a little too old to have imaginary SP friends?

.

 

[FortunateOne]

I'm just surprised anyone would be surprised by this. There are a lot of posters here who will have no trouble getting an appt, some who will never get an appt, and others who will have some difficulty with some sps, all based on how you present yourselves on line.

I think a lot of people automatically assume that sps, who advertise services for $$, aren't picky about who they see cuz it's all about the $$. The only ones who don't get to be picky are amps, mps, agencies and micros (and you've all seen the results of someone who is chosen who would have rather had the option to say no).

 

[Small pleasures]

Since you asked...

A glance of someone's posting history is like a snapshot of their personality.

Only looking at the last couple months of yours most of it is sports related or 'nice' comments. There are a few that would put me off though:

whatever happened to our moral compass MissJasmine ...

living proof that brains and beauty don't go hand in hand...

no one is saying that is a good situation...

but because you pander to a man's carnal instincts and will pee on him for a fee...

you come across as sanctimonious and hypocritical ...

and certainly not the right spokesperson for the cause...

Pretty strong, negative comments to a respected paid advertiser (Miss Jasmine). It's okay to disagree with someone but your wording implies a type of disrespect that tends to come from more dominant men toward female Dommes.

Szabby, your deserve to be spanked for that comment ...

Susan Boyle is nothing more than a ugly half-wit with a nice voice...

she should be permanently institutionalized...

and every media type who took advantage of her should be assassinated...

did I spell assassinated properly...

I mean't that metaphorically ...

What the hell? Kinda mean, even if you were trying to be funny.

did Krista work as a dancer with the stage name Cadence at Club Paradise/Uranus Lounge...

BIG RED FLAG: this crosses lines of discretion and 'gossip'. Whether that lady was a dancer at some point or any other occupation, it's not your place to post anything about it on a public forum.

she is a nice lady and all...

but $400 an hour...

outrageously over priced...

To just post that comment, unsolicited in a thread where she was being positively reviewed. WHY? I also have reason to believe the provider you made this comment about is one that you had never met, so you wouldn't have any first hand experience to know if she was overpriced.

I would like to suggest a name change for the twins...

Teenie and Weenie ...

Just found this rude.

 

[ZeroX]

been turned down by one of the SPs on Perb because of your posting history...

I PMed her about a session, she said she reviewed my posting history, and based on that she has concluded I would not be her type ...

talk about a kick in the groin...

must not be a sports fan...

such is life...

I'm not surprised. You and BJHunter's douchebaggery can be a turn off for a lot of SPs.

 

[Fullhouse]

been turned down by one of the SPs on Perb because of your posting history...

I PMed her about a session, she said she reviewed my posting history, and based on that she has concluded I would not be her type ...

talk about a kick in the groin...

must not be a sports fan...

such is life...

It looks like there are more than 1 lady that would refuse you service.

Can't say that I bame them, after reading some of your quoted posts above.

Wow - that sucks, but you could always PM buddy BJH, the suck expert.

 

[ZeroX]

It looks like there are more than 1 lady that would refuse you service.

Can't say that I bame them, after reading some of your quoted posts above.

Wow - that sucks, but you could always PM buddy BJH, the suck expert.

 

[sevenofnine]

actually once, yes,
she thought i was wierd,
and had issues,

me issues, wierd,

seriously, a couple of posts and you judge someones whole life, whole worth,

and it worked out for the better, for me anyway,
im seeing two of the hottest sp's in my city on a regular basis
and im interviewing with one very exclusive lady, very beautiful and exculsive.

its been going on for two weeks, the interview.
christ the lady knows more about me then
my priest my wife and my dog combined,

my advice to any one turned down by a lady, or for whatever reason on the outs with a lady
try another one,
i have always found a better sp then the one i left behind.
there are some very amazing women out there,
don't get stressed out over one,

 

[Fullhouse]

.

its been going on for two weeks, the interview.
christ the lady knows more about me then
my priest my wife and my dog combined,

try another one,
.,

Two weeks of interviews ???????????????

Holy shit, are you planning to work for her, move in with her, look after her parents,------or are you just trying to have a sexual rendezvous with her in exchange for money??????

Yah, but are you fucking all three of them????

Take your own advice, look for another one.

 

[FortunateOne]

Don`t be selfish: we need details, please.

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=110821

 

[Small pleasures]

seriously, a couple of posts and you judge someones whole life, whole worth,

Whole life? Whole worth?

What the...?

More like judging:
-if there's a good chance you'll 'click' or not
-if you feel comfortable having this stranger in your home and possibly knowing personal things about you

If you're a provider who prides herself on never having had a bad review and having every client leave happy a part of that is screening to ensure the client is making the right choice in choosing you.

In the OP's case it could have been that the SP predicted he wouldn't enjoy his time with her based on a personality conflict...or maybe she wondered if he would keep personal information 'personal' after seeing what he wrote about another lady who he thought used to be a dancer.

SP's who's incall is in their home often screen a lot more than others too. If there's any red flags at all it can be a no-go.

 

[wpgguy]

I've never been turned down because of what I've posted but I've certainly passed on a few SP's because of what they have posted. Once I see two ladies get in to a long drawn out cat fight on one of the boards or start an argument over a minor negative comment I usually take them off my TDL.

 

[rafterman]

I've never been turned down because of what I've posted but I've certainly passed on a few SP's because of what they have posted. Once I see two ladies get in to a long drawn out cat fight on one of the boards or start an argument over a minor negative comment I usually take them off my TDL.

Ha ha ha....it certainly cuts two ways with both the pooners and the ladies whacking out on occasion. Don't know why but the Victoria forum seemed to have the highest concentration of stalking, flaming and just general melodrama...until a few permanent bannings took effect.

 

[smackyo]

I turned down a client because he used to throw around the N bomb on a forum. He swore it wasn't racist because he didn't live in the southern US

lol, thats rich. so if i throw around "jew, kike" in a derogatory manner, its not racist cause i don't live in nazi germany in the 30's?????

gotta love some peoples logic.

 

[lenny]

ever been turned down by one of the SPs on Perb because of your posting history...

If there was a poll no doubt at least 50% wouldn't call 911
if they found me bleeding to death in the gutter ;

 

[EuroSZabina]

she said she reviewed my posting history, and based on that she has concluded I would not be her type ...

...

Don't you think it goes both ways ?

You guys are looking at our posts as well. Doh

 

[sub882]

A glance of someone's posting history is like a snapshot of their personality.

Only looking at the last couple months of yours most of it is sports related or 'nice' comments. There are a few that would put me off though:

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Pretty strong, negative comments to a respected paid advertiser (Miss Jasmine). It's okay to disagree with someone but your wording implies a type of disrespect that tends to come from more dominant men toward female Dommes.

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What the hell? Kinda mean, even if you were trying to be funny.

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BIG RED FLAG: this crosses lines of discretion and 'gossip'. Whether that lady was a dancer at some point or any other occupation, it's not your place to post anything about it on a public forum.

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To just post that comment, unsolicited in a thread where she was being positively reviewed. WHY? I also have reason to believe the provider you made this comment about is one that you had never met, so you wouldn't have any first hand experience to know if she was overpriced.

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Just found this rude.

Brilliant. Intelligent. Well research... and oh so funny. Great to start the day with a laugh. Thanks.