Looking for some advice

[vinni077]

Hi

Joined Perb today. Quite a few questions and not sure where to start...

The only woman I had in my life has gone for almost 2 years now and I have given up hoping for her return... Tried to find a girl friend on plentyoffish, but could not 'catch' one ... Started looking at craigslist, but most postings smelt fake and risky (health-wise). Then found a nice girl on eros (sp) and thinking of meeting her. She seems like a nice person... However, since this is my first time meeting someone like this, not sure about so many things. Any advice for a greenhorn in searching for someone like this?

 

[BJhunter]

Go see her.Pay her money. Fuck her.Take shower. Leave.

(You're welcome)

you forgot to cum on her face

 

[Harmony-bc]

Go see her.Pay her money. Fuck her.Take shower. Leave.

(You're welcome)

Please don't listen to these guys. There is so much more to do than that.

you forgot to cum on her face

Ask permission first. Most girls don't like this

 

[melissa.in.abby]

Go see her.Pay her money. Fuck her.Take shower. Leave.

(You're welcome)

That's the gist of it though....

 

[LaSwiss]

Here's my take, my man.

While it is true what muffineatr stated, it is also EXTREMELY glib(basic, simplistic). From what I can tell of BjH from his other posts, he's just being his usual 'smart-ass' self.

First, it's about knowing what you want. I enjoy the service of the ladies here because you can "fine tune" your exeperience...provided you do a little research.

After reading your initial post, I would also like to say

*CAUTION*

Beware of wearing your heart on your sleave!!

You sound like someone who is, on some level, lonely.

Dude! Don't take that too harsh, okay? Probably the main reason I sense that is because I'm familiar with the situation, at least somewhat. I posted a review once, I believe it was my first post ever, in which I stated how I could have my heart broken easily by a particular girl.

I will be, always and forever, a sucker for a pretty face. Tack onto that a sharp mind and sweet personality and I'm done for! (If you wanna know who I'm refering to, you're going to have to try and find out from my other posts...hint: she's asian.)

Let us all know here at PERB how it works out.(Keep us "posted." nyuk nyuk!)




I fell in love with a hooker/she laughed in my face. So seriously I took her/I was a disgrace. - Soul Asylum

Ahh, loneliness and cheeseburgers are a DANGEROUS mix! - Comic Book Guy

 

[LaSwiss]

Dude......the malt shop?? LOL!

However, I do want a chocolate malt all of a sudden. Mmm.

 

[Harmony-bc]

Me too, me too, hand waving in the air, While you're there, can you get me a malt too?

I think sometimes some guys are looking for easy, hassle free sex.

Sometimes though, they are looking for an experience.

From his posts, I think he is looking for some affection to go with his sex.

 

[JohnnyBlue]

Best way to start off your session, check out the sp's website for her likes and ALWAYS bring her something. Usually I opt for bring a couple bottles of wine as my sessions usually are a couple hours long. Lets you take your time and relax more of a gfe session. Give the sp a call before and ask her what you should bring if you don't know. Be polite and get the money situation over at the beginning, make sure to leave it on the take in an envelope as alot of girls won't take it from you directly. (In case your a cop I've been told.) If you tell her its your first time she'll probably also help direct you and make you feel more comfortable. Hope this helps and good luck man!

 

[LaSwiss]

Meet the parents. Tell them your intentions for the girl. Put them at ease.DONT rush things.

Meet the parents..on date #2??

Yikes!!

I don't think I've ever met a gf's parents previous to having sex w/her...multiple times. So, that's GOTTA be AT LEAST date #4. hahaha!

 

[Lady Companion]

Hello, and welcome!

The most important thing when ventruing into this arena is to ensure you are meeting a lady who provides the type of service you are looking for. Some ladies just want to get down to business with no real personal interaction, some prefer to develope true friendships with their suitors, and most fall somewhere in the middle.

It sounds as though you are looking for an experience as opposed to simply getting done what you can do on your own.

If that is the case, it is important to make a genuine connection with the lady. Read her website to ensure that the way she projects hereself is appealing to you. (It sounds as though you have already moved passed that).

Call her or email her and let her know of any questions or concerns you may have. Each lady is an individual, so generic advice given here isn't the most useful.

Be upfront about what you desire, and ensure that she is able and willing to provide that.

Once you arrange for the liaison, ensure you are on time, and tidy. Other than that, just be yourself!

You are there to relax, have fun and share some new experiences. You don't have to try to impress anybody....just be yourself! If you have selected a lady who is suited to you, she will be duely impressed, and the two of you should have a wonderful time!

Best wishes!

 

[vinni077]

You are absolutely spot in your assessment LaSwiss. Thanks.

Hopeless romantic, so would fall in love anyway , but in this case, not expecting it back - so that's fine. However, I do expect her to like me or care for me in some way - as a person at least. Else, it is going to be too mechanical for me.

So I think the 'experience' and 'affection' part is way more important (and I think you guessed that ). Thanks again.

 

[vinni077]

Sorry, I was just trying to keep it simple.Alright. Phone her up, take her to a movie and then to the malt shop for a milk shake, then drive her home and make sure she gets there by ten. Walk her to the door, kiss her on the cheek and leave.
That should be enough for the first date.Don't rush these things.

Hehe. This much I could manage for sure

 

[vinni077]

Me too, me too, hand waving in the air, While you're there, can you get me a malt too?

I think sometimes some guys are looking for easy, hassle free sex.

Sometimes though, they are looking for an experience.

From his posts, I think he is looking for some affection to go with his sex.

Yes dear. 'He' is definitely looking for buckets full of affection

 

[vinni077]

What about the legality of all this?

Perhaps should have started with this... Is this legal? Last thing I want is to get into something illegal

 

[FortunateOne]

Technically no. As long as you aren't picking up street walkers. As long as you choose a provider that is well known (and reviewed) you'll be fine.

That's a weird thing to say.

Prostitution in Canada is 100% legal i.e. the exchange of sexual services for money. (note the threads elsewhere on the topic lol) You should not try to pick up an SW and you can't meet an sp for coffee first (both would imply that you want to discuss rates & services in a public place -- that alone is illegal). Whether an sp is well known & reviewed is neither here nor there, provided you feel comfortable going to see her. There are a lot of sps who don't get reviewed (& don't allow reviews) and are not publically active who are perfect matches for many different clients.

A newbie needs to be very clear about what sort of sp that will hold his interest: age, body type, location, services & rates. Then go from there.

 

[Harmony-bc]

That's a weird thing to say.

Prostitution in Canada is 100% legal i.e. the exchange of sexual services for money. (note the threads elsewhere on the topic lol) You should not try to pick up an SW and you can't meet an sp for coffee first (both would imply that you want to discuss rates & services in a public place -- that alone is illegal). Whether an sp is well known & reviewed is neither here nor there, provided you feel comfortable going to see her. There are a lot of sps who don't get reviewed (& don't allow reviews) and are not publically active who are perfect matches for many different clients.

A newbie needs to be very clear about what sort of sp that will hold his interest: age, body type, location, services & rates. Then go from there.

You are so smart FO.

Not only is she smart, she is also right

 

[vinni077]

My First One...

Finally had the courage to do it a few days back. All the advice from the 'experts' helped ease the anxiety - as far as the first step was concerned. So a big thanks for that.

Reached about half and hour before, so had to roam about the streets after taking the address. Did it feel loooooog or what (the time that is ). Finally, got the instructions in an sms (very sweet of her to do that as I did not have a pen/paper - so that's another thing to note). However, since it is in a nice area, you have lots to see/do around while you wait.

The place is easy to locate and in a very central location, so no eerie feelings. Went up, met a lady who was towering above me (I am a short guy), and felt a bit let down because I was supposed to meet only her and no one else... But then, she introduced herself - and it was actually her in a 6" heels... hehe. Felt relieved that I was meeting her only...

Point to note - and I hope she does not mind my stating that... She has two cats, so if you are allergic to cats, perhaps should keep this in mind. But since I am not, it was not an issue for me - though I find it a bit funny how cats stare into your soul.

We went from her living room to her bedroom. Nice, clean, comfortable place. Felt at ease. She offered my some water sensing that I was a bit nervous. Very thoughtful. Then gave me a hug. Most importantly, the way she treated me was as if knew me already and that was very nice. Again - felt at ease.

She has the softest of skin and a lovely body to touch and feel. She did seem a bit concerned about her hair though - perhaps because she had colored them recently... She helped me remove my clothes - oooo. And I had the opportunity to see her in her full glory... I loved what I saw . I would not go into the intimate details, but just say that I am happy that she was my first... And once I can come over my embarrassment, I think I would love to meet her again.

Thank you Harmony.

 

[Harmony-bc]

I was concerned about my hair? I am sorry, I didn't mean to give that impression that I overly care about my hair. You can run your fingers through it, pull it (gently, hahaha), play with it, etc. I'm confused, lol

I did really enjoy meeting you. You are a wonderful man, and I enjoyed our time together very much.

Any time you feel the need for some hugs, cuddles, and sweet love, come on over,

Love Harmony xoxox

 

[nd1]

But I Thought You Didn't Want Reviews...?

I should have written mine long time ago; now that all the nice things have been said by the others, I am left with nothing to say...

What Vinni077 said was spot on though. Thanks for the review!

I was concerned about my hair? I am sorry, I didn't mean to give that impression that I overly care about my hair. You can run your fingers through it, pull it (gently, hahaha), play with it, etc. I'm confused, lol

The hair was absolutely lovely! I am such a sucker for long hair...

Any time you feel the need for some hugs, cuddles, and sweet love, come on over,

Save some for me too!!

After my brief moment of embarrassment , loved my time with her. Sweet girl.

Forgive me for being nosy, but could someone please come clean on what that "brief moment of embarrassment" was all about? Anything juicy and interesting?

 

[Harmony-bc]

I should have written mine long time ago; now that all the nice things have been said by the others, I am left with nothing to say...

What Vinni077 said was spot on though. Thanks for the review!



The hair was absolutely lovely! I am such a sucker for long hair...



Save some for me too!!



Forgive me for being nosy, but could someone please come clean on what that "brief moment of embarrassment" was all about? Anything juicy and interesting?

hahaha, nosy parker

Any time you feel the need for some hugs, cuddles, and sweet love, you are more than welcome too.

I have lots of love to share!!