Gifts?

FortunateOne

Banned
Jan 29, 2008
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We give gifts because we want to.

By giving a gift do I want something out of it? No of course not. It's who you are as a person.

The gifts that I have gave away are: weed and a new cd that had previously came out the day before. Funny because she was going to go and buy it.

The gift(s) that I have recieved are: Priceless!

:D
And Kevin101, btw, has made it quite clear in other posts that he does not
...just have the money .
But according to the OP,
having more or less money doesnt make one more or less stupid.
Don't know many people who would not find that an insult to anyone who gives gifts.
 

CaraClementine

Gentlemen Prefer Blondes
Gifts are wonderful, and give me "warm fuzzies"... however are never expected. I am always blown away by the generousity, when given them :)

Men that do choose to give them should not be judged... just as men that don't also shouldn't. It's a personal choice.

The best gift is always repeat business.
 

triplegun

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Mar 27, 2009
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gifts

i gave gifts not to get better service it was just a nice thing to do. when you go and see an SP that person is human too. when you do go see someone a couple of times it is different than going to a new SP every time.
 

Man Mountain

Too Old To Die Young
Oct 29, 2006
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In a way, gifts aren't rational things anyway -- they are emotional ones, which is why any rational response you get is going to sound cold and calculating (eg., better service in the future, etc.). People give gifts because they want to. Otherwise, why should people exchange gifts at all at Christmas time? They should just tell their friends, "Look, I'm going to buy you something you don't want, you're going to buy me something I don't want, why don't we both just save our money and use it on ourselves?" Makes sense, sure. Is it fun? No.

But just to explore your question for the sake of exploring it, I would say SPs by and large deal in the pleasure business, which is why they elicit a more emotional response than say, getting your car fixed or getting your teeth cleaned. An orgasm by definition is an emotional thing.

If prostitution is really the oldest industry in the world, I would imagine so is tipping your favourite girl. Some of it has to do with making a girl feel good who made you feel good, some of it is human nature in wanting to be thought of as special (ie., be her favourite client), some more of it is male competitiveness (ie., getting your favourite girl the biggest and bestest present ever), and some of it is hoping for or expecting special treatment in return. These are the same feelings and expections people have in their other relationships, just with the volume dialed up because of the sexual component.

Gifts only make sense if you think of people as emotional creatures and not rational ones. Then it makes all the sense in the world.
Well said, threepeat. Best response I've seen on the topic yet.
 

sarahpassion

The passionate one!
Dec 7, 2006
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I have received many gifts. Some were little things mentioned on the board, like my fav perfume. When a man shows up with your fav perfume on a first visit, you will never forget him, and also be honored by it. I still think about him everytime I wear it!

Wine, chocolate and flowers are always nice, as well as new toys, lingerie and things like that.

Some regs gift at christmas, b-days, and special occasions, others just on a whim.

Gifts and tips are not expected but always appreciated. They just make you feel so appreciated!
 

itooam1

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Jan 27, 2008
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GIFTS.

If your so fond of giving how about those who have joined since jan 2008 and have more than 1500 replies give the gift of SILENCE, since its obvious your just windbags.?

Maybe start a support group for each other ,that would be a gift that would keep on giving....lol
 

trackstar

Swollen Member
Jun 26, 2004
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GIFTS.

If your so fond of giving how about those who have joined since jan 2008 and have more than 1500 replies give the gift of SILENCE, since its obvious your just windbags.?

Maybe start a support group for each other ,that would be a gift that would keep on giving....lol
Let's hope that you get the gift of an education! Yours is extremely lacking and you're in serious need of one :rolleyes:
 

summerbreeze

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Sep 19, 2004
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sad to think that conduct like a gentleman needs defending, let alone explaining

respect for other human beings without judgement or class distinction used to be the domain of a well rounded and proper education

it is also a sign of class

some have it, some don't (hint, you can learn it)

being a guest in someone's home used to always prompt a form of thank you in the form of simple, thoughtful gift, a sign of respect, and a show of friendship

to many, this gesture is automatic and considering the intimacy of the service, a gift to someone whom you graciously extend this form of friendship is just good manners dispite the briefness of it being a single encounter
 

Fillup

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Oct 12, 2004
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I give the gift of a couple of ounces of reproduction fluid all over the boobies.

Actually, I tip about 20% almost always. Like I tip the waitress at Earls. She doesn't get the reproductive fluid though. Shame really.
 

shuffle

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When I give a gift, it is usually on a return session. It is a thank you and acknowledgement of the personal side of our previous meets. They are never big ticket items, but they are specifc to the lady in the sense that they speak to something from our previous conversations. I am a romantic at heart and this would be the type of thing I would do for all sorts of ladies, not just those that I see as a client.
 
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