Still a tiny bit nervous about pooning—what's your secret?

[trackstar]

I'm not nervous about the play I'm more nervous that they get the right impression of me. This is because i want the lady i'm seeing to be comfortable with me and I with them. I'm more concerned about the generalchemistry than about anything specific because I don't want to be out $$$ and get nothing out of it and on the flip side, I don't want to waste her time with a client who doesn't enjoy themselves. The way I get over nervoussness is to remember that we're all humans and there's a decent chance they're nervous, too. This is supposed to be fun. Stop frontin', be yourself and have fun (that goes for both sides of the coin).

But doesn't the nervousness add to the excitement a bit? Like when you're going over that first hill on a roller coaster, or looking over the edge on your first bungy jump?

 

[Voyeur]

ahh, this is a great thread for those considering pooning, but haven't...

I've been thinking about pooning for a couple of months now, but haven't done so, due to many reasons...I booked a session with Sara S a couple of weeks ago, but had to cancel to due a work emergency...haven't had time to rebook since...

PARTLY for work reasons, partly for nerves. =)

As i indicated in another post, if she doesnt enjoy the session, i won't enjoy the session. I've never been selfish in that aspect..not who I am ... so I get anxious about performance...havent quite figured out how to get past it...

should probably stop thinking so much...though a R&T (uh rub n tug) seems like a good way to dip my toes into the pool..

 

[trackstar]

ahh, this is a great thread for those considering pooning, but haven't...

I've been thinking about pooning for a couple of months now, but haven't done so, due to many reasons...I booked a session with Sara S a couple of weeks ago, but had to cancel to due a work emergency...haven't had time to rebook since...

PARTLY for work reasons, partly for nerves. =)

As i indicated in another post, if she doesnt enjoy the session, i won't enjoy the session. I've never been selfish in that aspect..not who I am ... so I get anxious about performance...havent quite figured out how to get past it...

should probably stop thinking so much...though a R&T (uh rub n tug) seems like a good way to dip my toes into the pool..

Or even booking a "Sensual" or "Tantric" massage. That way you are in a sensual environment, you talk to the lady and the session is all about you. Many woman do not want too much focus on themselves. DATY and stuff is great, but if they receive it many times throughout the day or week, it does tend to take something away from their pleasure, so feel free to be a bit selfish during your session. That is what you are paying for

 

[Voyeur]

One of the things I *do* look for, is the ability to converse a little..which almost immediately rules out anyone but Indy ladies..

I've emailed a couple Indy ladies and didn't get a response back. nada. IMO, the emails I've sent are kindly written, humorous, and just looking to break the ice...so if they can't find the time to write back, well, that makes me feel like just another number...and doesn't meet my requirements for seeing them..

(which is a crying shame, because I really wanted to see a couple of them).

If I were to take the Agency plunge, I'd be seeing Alexis or Taylor (Tyler? arg, can’t remember) from Top Models..

If I looked deeper, into why my primary contact method is email, I would have to think it is because of my inherent shyness in this arena...if you knew me 2 or 3 years ago, there is *no* way on earth I would be remotely ok with ANY of this ...

(I've grown and changed a lot in the last 3-5 years...hehe)

 

[Arrrg]

Wow, Arrrg—a juicy tidbit, especially from someone who has written several articulate and courageously critical reviews... Not sure, though, why you're so concerned about "giving her a good time." I mean, SPs do this for a living, most are totally non-judgmental about men’s need for physical release, and I don't think they expect a great deal of mutuality as long as they only get your business (though of course it's always nice if we can please them too).

Hehe, yea it's the internets, easier to admit stuff like that and not care

I don't know why I'm concerned. Maybe cause I think it's silly that they would be moaning about how great it feels when in fact it probably doesn't and they're thinking about the other guy that really wowed her. I'd probably reply back with something like 'yea right' hahahah.

I don't want someone that will just lie there while I pump away either. Like Voyeur, there would have to be a bit of chemistry or it probably just won't work for me.

I'll do just a tug or something with someone first usually to see if I'm even interested to go any further. So far, not quite yet... well there was one I'd go back to but she's apparently left vancouver for her studies.

 

[SFMIKE]

Best advice I can give is this:

Remember the Nike slogan?

JUST DO IT.

 

[Voyeur]

There is no such thing as a "pooner nervousness". There is just "nervousness". Luckily, there are also many ways of working on it, and if you do it persistently, it will diminish over time.

so will my bank account.