is pooning really cheaper?

[CJ Tylers]

Precisely...people that are more interested in intimacy and emotional involvement (the healthy kind)... these are things that a sp can never provide.

They aren't the person you come home to at the end of the day, give a hug and a kiss to... someone you can travel with and really share those moments of discovery... someone who, when the simple moments in life happen, make them magical.

*shrug*

I realize that for alot of guys, their wives don't do this either. Maybe you're with the wrong person?

 

[melissa.in.abby]

I say pooning is not cheaper (unless you are dating gold diggers).

For example, last night I was hanging out with an ex-boyfriend. He bought me 2 drinks, I bought him 1 shooter, I drove him home, he bought me a red bull.
End of night: 2 hours PSE

 

[Katlyn]

okay I'm going to make a serious comment here rather than my teasing at the beginning of the thread...

Don't any of you guys cuddle on the couch and watch a movie with your girl? A girlFRIEND is someone you WANT to spend time with, someone you care for, a FRIEND. Not a paid date. I think pooning probably is cheaper than DATING but a real girlfriend shouldn't have to cost you anything. If two people care about each other spending $10 on cheap take out and playing the wii all night long is all that you need to have a good time.

Any relationship where the guy must spend $100/night on a girl several times a week, or is expected to buy her gifts, etc, is not a caring girlfriend/boyfriend relationship...it is basically prostitution but wrapped up in a fancy bow: Boy pays for everything, impresses girl, girl rewards. Boy pisses girl off, girl with-holds. It is a more acceptable form of prostitution but really when you get right down to it if you need to spend money on a girl for her to want to spend time with you, what else is it?

This is not a relationship, this is not dating with intention to love which is what I think a girlfriend/boyfriend is. If a lady wants to spend moments with you at home, camping, walking outside (or doing other free activities) and is surprised when you buy her dinner and cherishes the gifts you give her, this is real.

So no, pooning is not cheaper than having a girlfriend. No way, no how because financially a real girlfriend costs very little...in fact you may save money by spending time with her at home you would have spent at the bar. BUT pooning is probably the cheapest way of getting good regular sex if you do not have a special person in your life and it is probably the easiest way to have good regular sex if you do not currently have the time needed to invest in building a relationship with a great girl you could love.

That is what makes us indys so great: You can develop a relationship with us so that you can get as close to the real thing as possible without any pretention from the woman that this is not simply a temporary arrangement where you are footing the bill. And that is what makes parlour and agency girls great too: If you are not looking for a connection, a regular relationship, you can simply get your rocks off

 

[HB40]

I say pooning is not cheaper (unless you are dating gold diggers).

For example, last night I was hanging out with an ex-boyfriend. He bought me 2 drinks, I bought him 1 shooter, I drove him home, he bought me a red bull.
End of night: 2 hours PSE

hahaha.... aren't you a great wife.... lmfao

 

[mclovin76]

if an sp bitches u can just write her off but if your gf does that you have to deal with it because they make it really difficult to walk away easily. As for the money issue i think going to an sp is more but the reason i do is because my gf wont give me head as i have too much ejaculation and it makes her gag and i laugh at her ( serious ) so now im cut off. I have 2 other partime fuck friends i c sometimes but i always have to do somehting or help them out or lend them money wich i never c anyways. Im trading the other gfs in for some sp's cause sp's dont text me in the middle of the night asking me to pick them up from the club.

 

[needasians]

Of course, some of us are actually looking for more than just sex... that's something an sp can't help out with...

"everybode needs somebody to love" of course...

but if you date a girl and all she wants is squeezing your wallett and have fun on you money? I doubt she likes you for what you are but for what you get or can do for her. I feel the greater number of asian girls here are like that. If that's the case, I'd rather spend on an sp, who can do wonderful things for you. I see it as a fair exchange. What's the point in spending as much on a vacant girl? Waiting for love to come later? It might not come

 

[melissa.in.abby]

hahaha.... aren't you a great wife.... lmfao

My husband gets only the best! LOL

 

[Validator]

I have to agree 100% w/ Katlyn on this one. I think what us guys have to realize is that if your gf is nagging you, squeezing you out of money, needs dinners out, doesn't give you regular blowjobs, etc, it means we/you are not screening out who u want to be with vs who you are settling with. A real gf won't want to use you for money. She wants you to be happy emotionally and physically. If she's not doin this, then she doesn't love you or really care about you. So you shouldn't be with a person like that, let alone xonsider her a girlfriend. If you believe this is what a girlfriend is supposed to do, then that is completely way off. My 2 cents.

 

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Don't any of you guys cuddle on the couch and watch a movie with your girl? A girlFRIEND is someone you WANT to spend time with, someone you care for, a FRIEND.

Cuddles and hugs are beneficial to our well being (opposite sex or same sex hugs don't matter). A girlfriend should indeed be a friend, but this is where my problem lies. I cannot stand the notion of limiting the number of my 'friends' to just one (not saying I have to have 5 all the time, but the option needs to there at all times). This is where I've had conflicts with my family and most of my circles of friends. I don't expect them to understand why exclusive one-to-one just won't work with me. Many people simply cannot fathom the word bf/gf being used in the plural form. This is reason #1 why I don't bother with 'dating' or whatever one wishes to call it because it takes >90% of the potential candidates out of the pool.

But what is a bf/gf anyway? Why do they have to be different from a friend? If one is able to, from elsewhere, obtain intimacy or whatever else one is supposed to get from an ideal bf/gf relationship, then is there any reason for bf/gf to exist? If one is not able to, I am saddened that we are given only ONE choice to get intimacy would be to get bf/gf. Since when is there only one way to do anything??? I do not believe that all the positives of a bf/gf relationship must be accompanied by its negatives.

There is probably much more to say, but I couldn't articulate very well.

would have to say it isn't cheaper... if you're one of those guys that spends 55 minutes talking to the girl and 5 minutes having "fun" with her... LOL.

I see you are very good at cross referencing No kidding... it was expensive! lol.

 

[CJ Tylers]

but if you date a girl and all she wants is squeezing your wallett and have fun on you money?

That's the kind of girl I toss back after the first date... there's plenty of fish in the sea, I think I can be choosy about getting the right kind of gal for me. If someone is rude, disrespectful, arrogant, unappreciative and self centered... we won't get along at all.

If someone is kind, considerate, friendly, respectful and appreciative... we'll get along. They aren't super stringent requirements, but they are ones I value.

 

[HB40]

My husband gets only the best! LOL

That's why we poon!

 

[moi]

I think much depends on the age of the woman, her location & her stature in life. 3 females I've dated in the past 5 years.





Asian woman, age 37. Senior Financial chick working on contact in Calgary. Owned own home & car. Issues with me going out for drinks with buddies: none. Cost per week for food/me driving (we ate in Chinatown alot) 50 -100bucks (never paid for dinner herself). Low maintenace. Sex 5+ times a week. Quality of sex: very good to excellent.

Winner: Girlfriend. Even when compared to Asian micro's. Bad girl behind the "corporate image"




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so if the winner was the GF then why aren't you still together?
IMHO pooning gives you the opportunity to have great sex (if seen by the right SP/MP) hopefully good company and she won't call you the next day to bother you.
Nor will you go through emotional attachment, insecurities, problems of jealousy on either side, complications of possession, pressures of marriage/commitment, and you have the openness to see whomever you like.

Having been an SP/MP for awhile now, I love the sex and the money, and really enjoy the great company I encounter BUT i miss the intimacy, the ability to just have no make up on, with a big t-shirt and have a man look at me like i'm the hottest shit since sliced bread, getting to dote on someone special like cooking, and cuddling at night.

 

[moi]

"everybode needs somebody to love" of course...

but if you date a girl and all she wants is squeezing your wallett and have fun on you money? I doubt she likes you for what you are but for what you get or can do for her. I feel the greater number of asian girls here are like that. If that's the case, I'd rather spend on an sp, who can do wonderful things for you. I see it as a fair exchange. What's the point in spending as much on a vacant girl? Waiting for love to come later? It might not come

i agree! alot of asian girls ARE very materialistic. but not all! i'm not like that i had a date recently and I paid for dinner (and yes! im asian although half) because I know I make more than he does, as he JUST started at an accounting company.

Probably being in this industry has made me independent and self-reliant and I think most of the girls in this industry likes to spoil their guys because, of all the crap and bullshit in life, those little surprises or gifts or extra touches mean THAT MUCH MORE.


i also wonder about personal relationships as it was mentioned a few replies before about having sex w/o a condom. Do couples actually get tested together or do they just trust each other? I'm very wary (mom scared the shit out of me as a teenager) so I almost never have unprotected sex with a boyfriend

 

[jackcb]

First off I'm pretty sure most escorts supply condoms so they are costing you nothing but I still ahve to make a comment here...

Am I mis-reading? Condoms cost you $50 everytime you see an escort? I'm allergic to latex and go through an average of 3 condoms per appointment and that costs me $10. If you are spending "$50 a pop" I am REALLY impressed...especially if you are using latex, that would be like 65 condoms!

What do you do if your alergic to latex? I have a sensitivity to Latex myself and use a different condom called Avanti...just curious what your using.

 

[melissa.in.abby]

i also wonder about personal relationships as it was mentioned a few replies before about having sex w/o a condom. Do couples actually get tested together or do they just trust each other? I'm very wary (mom scared the shit out of me as a teenager) so I almost never have unprotected sex with a boyfriend

First - Your mom did good! I am going to have to scare the shit out of my kids, about the important things (ei. unprotected sex, drugs, smoking, dangerous driving)! I have heard from several people that if their parents would go on about certain things, quite a bit, it would be drilled into their heads. The result being that they abstained from the behaviour.

Second - This is a big concern of mine (the whole std issue, in my case particularly oral). I just started in the business, and it is very part-time for me. I will be going to the Doctor soon. I am going to tell him my new profession. He has been my doctor since I was a little girl and he is Mormon so I am a little nervous! He can't tell the police right?? Anyways, I figure I should get tested more because I am in the business. I would like to be tested once a month. I think hubby could get tested slightly less?

 

[CJ Tylers]

Any room for HOT in there too?

Attractive... but I tell ya, I've met a few HOT women who don't have what I'm looking for...and, well, I'm still single

 

[Validator]

Yes get tested and see the results together.

 

[Katlyn]

Second - This is a big concern of mine (the whole std issue, in my case particularly oral). I just started in the business, and it is very part-time for me. I will be going to the Doctor soon. I am going to tell him my new profession. He has been my doctor since I was a little girl and he is Mormon so I am a little nervous! He can't tell the police right?? Anyways, I figure I should get tested more because I am in the business. I would like to be tested once a month. I think hubby could get tested slightly less?

Melissa just go to a different clinic if you think there will be a problem at all. Your family doc does not NEED to know what you do as long as you are very aware of stds and your body and get regular tests outside of his office.

 

[Katlyn]

What do you do if your alergic to latex? I have a sensitivity to Latex myself and use a different condom called Avanti...just curious what your using.

I use Avanti, it is what the std clinic recommends. There are other non-latex but this is the one that is the best as far as I can tell. They are not that stretchy though so I like to use a cock ring on top of the condom to make sure it stays on. The FDA has just approved a non-latex condom in the US so Durex US is not making Avanti anymore and is instead starting to produce this new one. I don't know what is happening in Canada, noone seems to know.

 

[Tabitha]

Katlyn:


Personally, I find sex with prostitutes far less gratifying than it is with a GF or a good fuck friend. It lacks intimacy & it lacks passion. It's often a robotic act & I certainly understand that. It's gotta be hard to get excited about sex if you have 3 clients a day. But...not everyone is looking for intimacy & the things a GF brings.

not everyone does 3 clients a day.
i prefer quality over quantity
like 3-5 clients a week( at most)

Robotic and lacking passion? where the hell have u been going ? find someone who LOVES sex and is doing it not just for money but for the kinky sex and meeting exciting new people.