Domme-"drop"/sub-"drop"

[mistressfreyja]

So, I'm experiencing the drop, from generating mass amounts of adrenaline, endorphins, and excitement.

We always speak about the sub-drop, but never the domme-drop. And it's very real.

Gypsy did some needles on me the other night, and I almost/did faint.

Then, I attended a private party on Sunday night, re-introducing a sub back into BDSM. Her Master did a wonderful job of planning and orchestrating the event, with multiple male doms, and one femdom (Me), related to her fantasy.

It was a weekend event for the sub-girl...heavy impact and fisting on the previous night, then needles and electro (10s unit) on the second. She DID pass out, and twice.

So, my point, is that I went to bed early, and woke up about 14 hours later. I'm regrouping, re-energizing.

But, Newton's 3rd Law of Motion, states that everything that happens has an equal and opposite reaction.
We all need to remember this, because it's key in maintaining balance in our lives.

 

[Aeiyah]

So how are you felling now?

It would be interesting to hear from other doms if they have similar experiences and what they did to overcome it. We never really think about aftercare being just as much for doms as it is for subs. I wonder how many doms need to hear from their subs after a session. Personally, I've never had what was for me an extremely intense session while I was topping, so I've never experienced the dom-drop.

I've had sub-drop. I was on a high that lasted about a day then all of sudden everything around me felt like it was collapsing. Talking on the phone with my domme helped me through it. Hearing her voice made a world of difference.

 

[mistressfreyja]

Feeling happy! And satiated!

I was craving a heavier scene. And the femme sub was SOOO yummy.

I didn't start coming down from the weekend/Sunday night event included, until mid-day yesterday, when I orgasmed like 5 times...(Just staying on schedule, and not recinding on my word)....

But my partner-in-crime(R.s.) attending the event, didn't leave my presence until evening, last night. And I KNOW he's crashing. And I don't think I really started to settle until I had a terribly long sleep and alone/quiet time.

Mostly, I just need a good proper sleep, some healthy food, and processing time (quiet, alone time), and communication with people involved...the following synapsis is always fun, and enlightening to hear other's response to the event.

It would be interesting to hear from other doms if they have similar experiences and what they did to overcome it. We never really think about aftercare being just as much for doms as it is for subs. I wonder how many doms need to hear from their subs after a session. Personally, I've never had what was for me an extremely intense session while I was topping, so I've never experienced the dom-drop.

I've had sub-drop. I was on a high that lasted about a day then all of sudden everything around me felt like it was collapsing. Talking on the phone with my domme helped me through it. Hearing her voice made a world of difference.

 

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A good "Poop Drop" helps me to relax

 

[mistressfreyja]

Ah Ha!

So, you do like anal!

A good "Poop Drop" helps me to relax

 

[trackstar]

Only if there's a fist involved TS always says

Yup, anyone that tries to stick anything up there gets to see my fist up close and personal

 

[mistressfreyja]

Point Made.

And taken.

 

[CODe333]

This will sound very odd but after intense highs (or lows) I find that fasting works faster than anything else to restore balance, perspective and a sense of well-being. The body seems to seek chemical balance very quickly when food is cut off for even half a day. Sometimes I drink only water and other times I drink diluted juice. Just missing one or two meals will often be all that's needed. I know it sounds weird but it really works. And best of all, your first meal afterwards so SOOO good!

 

[mistressfreyja]

Fasting After Heavy Play.

That makes a lot of sense! Force the body to create homeostastis, via fasting. The body doesn't have to compensate with energy to form energy...that is the energy taken to breakdown food, in order to create ATP.

I'm enjoying raspberry ginger ale and "autumn carrot soup" this evening. So, I'm definitely opting for something lighter.

I think eating a steak would tack on an extra day or 2, simply cuz it's so hard for the body to break down.

This will sound very odd but after intense highs (or lows) I find that fasting works faster than anything else to restore balance, perspective and a sense of well-being. The body seems to seek chemical balance very quickly when food is cut off for even half a day. Sometimes I drink only water and other times I drink diluted juice. Just missing one or two meals will often be all that's needed. I know it sounds weird but it really works. And best of all, your first meal afterwards so SOOO good!

 

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This is all greek to me

Only if there's a fist involved Hubba always says

 

[mistressfreyja]

Proper Sleep...

And frankly, I'm full of piss and vinegar!

 

[tampdown]

So, I'm experiencing the drop, from generating mass amounts of adrenaline, endorphins, and excitement.

We always speak about the sub-drop, but never the domme-drop. And it's very real.

Funny... just had an amazing session myself. Wowza!!!!

I have that amazing exhausted feeling... feeling like I've just had a work out.... violated, zapped, pinched, beaten (my balls at least), pierced... but yet a certain feeling or peace and serenity.

What I want to do...

Be by myself
Warm bath
Quite music
Stay in the moment

tamp

 

[mistressfreyja]

Satiation...

Happy to hear about the feeling of serenity! We had so much fun with you. You're a gem.

xoxo

Funny... just had an amazing session myself. Wowza!!!!

I have that amazing exhausted feeling... feeling like I've just had a work out.... violated, zapped, pinched, beaten (my balls at least), pierced... but yet a certain feeling or peace and serenity.

What I want to do...

Be by myself
Warm bath
Quite music
Stay in the moment

tamp

 

[PuntMeister]

I hate fasting. ....and it doesn't soften the descent for me.

My post-session therapy consists of reflective distraction, gluttony, slumber, and cleansing. I like to watch some sort of sporting event at a bar within 2 hrs of a session, eat looots of hot spicy food and drink a bunch of beer, but not tooooo much. Then I sleep like a log for about 10 hrs, have a loooooong hot shower, stupidly late latte and breaky, a nice big dump on the throne with a full-on version of the weekend Sun, a modest and mellow walk in the sunshine with a BA Grin on my face, and life is good. Then I can take on the world, and win

 

[HB40]

Here's a thought for you Genius, how about having the "nice big dump" before the "loooooong hot shower?

Thats how Hubba does it, ITB insists!

 

[PuntMeister]

Here's a thought for you Genius, how about having the "nice big dump" before the "loooooong hot shower?

Technically I prefer to dump before hitting the suds. However I find in the morning my anatomy does not cooperate with this sequence owing to the fact that my penis interferes with the front lip of the toilet seat, until it softens and relaxes from a nice hot shower. Perhaps you don't suffer from this same affliction. Fortunately I have a pressure washer rigged to the flush lever of the toilet, so I remain fresh as a daisy after the throne speach. Thanks for your concern though.

 

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[_Gypsy_]

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are you saying you puke your guts out after playing?

 

[_Gypsy_]

Lol

ouch! You're nasty Hubba *chuckles*

No....just when he walks by a mirror

 

[trackstar]

Thanks for sharing, PM. Although I really could do without the "dump" conversation.

Thus my previous post

I know you are usually much more classy than this but just responding to the "riff raff" boys

That's not nice