Not wanting to give a good review

[Airwreck]

Every so often I encounter a really good SP and become her regular (until she leaves town because her visitor's visa is up). I don't want to write a positive review of her because I'm selfish. I don't want a lot of other guys suddenly going to her and making it harder for me to see her. But when I read positive reviews of the SP I feel a bit "possessive" for the same reason -- more guys may want to see her too.

Anyone else feel the same?

 

[Airwreck]

LOL...your a selfish bastard, I'm good with that
I'm sure whoever it is will read this and be so impressed of your feelings
Move it along Airwreck, I think you should be posting in the "fell in love with an SP thread"

Bah. No, emotional attachment, just good service. I hate it when I can't book an appointment with a SP I like (who isn't mechanical, for example) because she's gotten too popular.

 

[FortunateOne]

Compromises

If you like somebody, just prebook your time make it a regular date.

But if not posting a review somehow hurts her business, she isn't going to stick around long, is she? Unless you see her 3 x a day 6 days a week, your one visit isn't making much impact. Wouldn't you rather see her extend her visit because she is doing so well? Plus, it is possible that she likes you better and your service and attitude will always be better than others simply because she knows every Wednesday at noon, you're going to show up.

 

[trackstar]

I guess I can understand not doing a review, but why come out and say, "I've got a gem, but I'm not going to tell you about her"?

 

[HunkyBill]

I guess I can understand not doing a review, but why come out and say, "I've got a gem, but I'm not going to tell you about her"?

Maybe that'll probably piss people off more than anything.

 

[trackstar]

Maybe that'll probably piss people off more than anything.

Is that what he is trying to do? I guess I was trying to give him a chance to explain rather than think the negative right away...

 

[Irresistible Isabelle]

This is one of the many reasons why some of us don't want reviews.

Some of us would rather develop a real rapport with our clients and see the same small group of people than be the flavour of the moment to dozens because of a review. This way, everyone feels special.

The clients feel better, because who wants to know who else is spending time with their personal favourite. And who wants to know if someone had a different type of encounter than what they've had, that perhaps they find erotic but have never expressed a desire for such an encounter. I've had a few clients get a little cranky/jealous/bitter/sad about such situations.

I can't speak for all the ladies, but I know I dislike having my inbox flooded just because I showed someone else a good time, and I find it, ironically enough, a little awkward knowing someone is only booking because they read a penthouse forum letter style review about what I did with someone else. Also I've found I'm less apt to connect with my clients when they are just booking because I was at the top of the current good review pile, than if they found me on an ad site, amongst dozens of others, and they had to read to find out what I'm like based on the content of what I disclose, rather than someone else waxing poetic about various body parts or activities.

 

[nd1]

Reviews Need Not Be Play-By-Plays

This is one of the many reasons why some of us don't want reviews.

Some of us would rather develop a real rapport with our clients and see the same small group of people than be the flavour of the moment to dozens because of a review. This way, everyone feels special.

The clients feel better, because who wants to know who else is spending time with their personal favourite. And who wants to know if someone had a different type of encounter than what they've had, that perhaps they find erotic but have never expressed a desire for such an encounter. I've had a few clients get a little cranky/jealous/bitter/sad about such situations.

Long ago I watched a Japanese TV program on "Second Favorite Sushi Restaurants." Apparently nobody wanted to disclose their MOST favorite sushi place for fear that it would be over-run with new customers going there on the review, so they would only show the SECOND favorites. There is something to be learned as far as professional companions are concerned.

That having been said, one needs to be careful to strike some sort of balance, for without at least some review or publicity to go on, prospective clients might not feel comfortable to visit a professional companion. She could disclose all kinds of wonderful details about herself on her web-site or advertisment, but, exaggerations and mis-statements seemingly more the rule than the exception, one just does not have much trust in them. Reading about others' experience and observations, subjective as they are at times, helps one make up one's mind. And that could make or break a professional companion. As such, on the one hand, one may not want one's favorite companion to be shared by too many, on the other hand, one does not want to be so secretive and protective that her enterprise becomes so unviable that she quits either.

At the end of the day, reviews need not be play-by-plays: a lot of the intimate details are best left etched in one's mind, rather than on open display. Reviews are most helpful when they either corroborate or dispute important information, such as age, measurements, and so on, advertised by the professional companion. Whereas this really helps sort out all the diamonds, such as Ms. Isabelle and others, from the pebbles, too much more beyond that just sets up unrealistice expectations, to the detriment of everybody.

 

[HB40]

Also I've found I'm less apt to connect with my clients when they are just booking because I was at the top of the current good review pile, than if they found me on an ad site, amongst dozens of others, and they had to read to find out what I'm like based on the content of what I disclose, rather than someone else waxing poetic about various body parts or activities.

Well I checked out your website; since you don’t like reviews I guess I just have to take your word for it. Lots of good info and the details about yourself are intriguing, but so far all I can be sure of is you like words that start with the letter I. Still interested as we have something in common, except I like words that start with the letter D.

I like the list of qualities you find irresistible, a very discreet way of saying I am always a wildly passionate and eager companion as long as you meet my standards, but you are honest and admit you hope the undesirables will be discouraged. I’m still interested though, I have a high opinion of myself too and convinced our session could still be special. Need more Details.

You have your own idea of GFE, nothing new there as that always seems to be open to interpretation. My own ideas are no kissing and everything covered so I’m not too hard to please. You describe it as a torrid affair experience but now I’m wondering if that is the 1 hour flirtation package or do I need to book the $2000 torrid affair package? Now I’m a little Disheartened.

So reading a review would probably assist me now, only to confirm all the wonderful things you have described about yourself. You provide no less than 45 on your site so obviously you feel there is some value to them. I can respect your preference for lack of detail but understand I just want some corroboration for what is usually an embellishment of details. I’m still not Dissuaded.

I appreciate reviews but don’t always read them first. Sometimes I like to be spontaneous and take my chances. I will inundate you with PM’s and e-mails soon. It may take me some time to contact escorts I know to see if they can provide a reference for me. Maybe one will just write me a review so I don’t have to keep bothering them. I’m getting Disillusioned.

I think the special girls should be promoted. I have always recommended ladies to friends and only care to know if the experience was favourable. I may get overly detailed in some reviews, sorry to the women I’ve horrified. I am not a stud, so when I have an experience that inflates my ego I like to share. Who else am I going to tell? I try not to fool myself into thinking a girl only does special things with me. That is when I really get Deluded.

In the sphere of natural investigation, as in poetry and painting, the delineation of that which appeals most strongly to the imagination, derives its collective interest from the vivid truthfulness with which the individual features are portrayed.
—Humboldt, Alexander, Baron von