BBBJ's Yay or Nay...
- Thread starter Lilithlovesme
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well lilith this does open a can of worms
generally any guy that picks up someone is a bar is going to be taking the same risks as he would if he went to an SP right? Your poll shows that most clients taking your survey would "prefer" this service, although it will probably not stop them from seeing you if you provide good service and attitude in your sessions....That's pretty good data.....
generally any guy that picks up someone is a bar is going to be taking the same risks as he would if he went to an SP right? Your poll shows that most clients taking your survey would "prefer" this service, although it will probably not stop them from seeing you if you provide good service and attitude in your sessions....That's pretty good data.....
That's really too bad about the SP you mentioned Threepeat. This is definitely a 'bring your thick skin' biz, although I haven't had anyone who has been rude or agressive about it when they ask. Just polite inquiries and the subject is dropped after I say no.
I also agree about level of service making a difference. If the chemistry is right, and you get caught up in the moment and let the experience run its course as it will, do you really walk out of there tallying up exactly what services you did or didn't get?
I also agree about level of service making a difference. If the chemistry is right, and you get caught up in the moment and let the experience run its course as it will, do you really walk out of there tallying up exactly what services you did or didn't get?
Like most of the dudes on here said, I'd prefer it but I'm not going to stop seeing a girl I'm into just because she doesn't give it up.
You're getting your dick sucked, get stoked!
You're getting your dick sucked, get stoked!
It took a while but someone wrote exactly what I did. Fellas, if you have ever found yourself in a situation (bar, club, party, drunken bridesmaid) where you have a young/not so young gal hungry for your salami did you say hold on there let me pull a raincoat on? I'd say your risks are higher in the civilian ranks than in the pros.
Well..
The way I see it, is every women I take home from the bar, or date or whatever has given bbbj, and likely it's a pretty common occurrence everywhere based on just how hot it is to get it. Now it's pretty well all I go for, though granted, I am not making too many of these stops, as this is mostly offered by the out of towners. I wish more locals offered it.
The way I see it, is every women I take home from the bar, or date or whatever has given bbbj, and likely it's a pretty common occurrence everywhere based on just how hot it is to get it. Now it's pretty well all I go for, though granted, I am not making too many of these stops, as this is mostly offered by the out of towners. I wish more locals offered it.
Good for you, moi.
You CAN and WILL catch disease if you give BBBJ's. Ah, herpes..the gift of life. And guys can catch disease too, but I have been prodded to be civil on this board so I will not go anywhere with that.
There is a group of girls that offer services that put both them and the client at risk of disease. Some even post here. Let 'em do it.
I know of one girl working that was happily spreading gonorrhea around for a short period of time while she was taking meds to clear it up. Oh, and she caught it from a customer, too.
I was rooming with an escort years ago who had genital herpes and went on calls all the time. And she let guys go down on her....
Kudos to the girls who make money in this industry without putting their lives and the lives of their clients at risk.
And I laugh inside at the girls that have to do GFE etc. to make a living, and the guys who don't realize that the ultimate prize, conditions permitting, would be a nice case of AIDS. Tick-tock, tick-tock, tick-tock...it is only a matter of time.
PS, I also know of a few dancers doing the grind with customers and the girls were HEP-A positive...and the club mangers/owners knew of it.
I prefer ladies that offer bbbj and that is a factor in who I see. I have seen many ladies that offer this and have "NEVER" had a disease or any kind of std.
20 Years ago, anal was a porn fetish, now it is rarely not included in a scene.....
BBBJ used to be a service that might have occured between regulars and their SPs, and something you worked towards.
The power of the PERB board is MILEAGE gets discussed all the time, and base level service expectations are higher.....
Overall perberites resent each other for their mileage to some degree and there is a significant level of mileage envy.
While I respect SPs that can provided "equal mileage, with no variance", the best providers are great at adding a personal touch to their sessions which is an underappreciated subtlty.
Someguys want BBBJ becasue they think they deserve it..... others want it becasue they heard someone else got it..... and I think some like the "RISK" factor from it.
Good for you, moi.
You CAN and WILL catch disease if you give BBBJ's. Ah, herpes..the gift of life. And guys can catch disease too, but I have been prodded to be civil on this board so I will not go anywhere with that.
There is a group of girls that offer services that put both them and the client at risk of disease. Some even post here. Let 'em do it.
I know of one girl working that was happily spreading gonorrhea around for a short period of time while she was taking meds to clear it up. Oh, and she caught it from a customer, too.
I was rooming with an escort years ago who had genital herpes and went on calls all the time. And she let guys go down on her....
Kudos to the girls who make money in this industry without putting their lives and the lives of their clients at risk.
And I laugh inside at the girls that have to do GFE etc. to make a living, and the guys who don't realize that the ultimate prize, conditions permitting, would be a nice case of AIDS. Tick-tock, tick-tock, tick-tock...it is only a matter of time.
PS, I also know of a few dancers doing the grind with customers and the girls were HEP-A positive...and the club mangers/owners knew of it.
There is an old picture of three monkeys......
TT300Z YOu are regularly more of a knob than me on the board, but you are very right......
Lots of stuff that people DONT WANT TO THINK ABOUT.......
Plenty of stories being told every day...... every perberite wants to beleive that they are different and dont get lied to.... and some actually beleive it.
Oh the stories I could tell....from the workers side.
Even girls working together spreading disease amongst themselves.....
Most girls who do GFE etc. are looked down upon by their peers. Personally if a girl has to risk the life of her client as well as hers to make money, then she has serious fucking problems. I mean, this is selling sex. Any moron can do it, and do it safely and make a good living.
And the guys who risk it as well, well that is another story. I don't want to get banned just yet for being honest and speaking the truth of what I think of them.
I look at it like this. BBJ is like real breast and CBJ are like fake breasts. I prefer real breasts to fake breasts and I prefer BBJ to CBJ but I would raher have a CBJ than none at all, as I would rather have a fake breast in my hand than no breast at all. Whatever the woman is comfortable with
You do know herpes and HPV/Genital warts can be transmitted even when using a condom? I heard from my best friend's cousin's neighbor's brother... wait no, it was my best friend's brother's neighbor's cousin
- I heard that his girlfriend's sister knew someone who caught herpes from CBJ as a result of skin to skin contact. It turns out it was from one of her ex boyfriends, only to this day he has never had an outbreak. He never knew he had it, nor would he have ever known, had he not gone to get tested at her request. I heard from someone who knew one of his ex-girlfriends that in the few years he was not aware he had herpes, he had slept with quite a few women. SOme BBBJ and some CBJ. I guess we'd have to look at those statistics....although I bet the first girl to get tested and who got it from CBJ, probably doesn't give a fuck that her odds of getting it were lesser than if it had been BBBJ. The result is what matters, isn't it?
The fact s that nothing is 100% safe so I'd really suggest getting off that high horse, for one.
And second, your BS third person gossip is really irrelevant to the discussion.
You're just trying to stir up shit and what makes you think I would believe a single one of those stories? It's pretty easy to write just about anything you can think of so you can create a little drama, when you're an anonymous poster on a message board. You might want to take a serious look at the FRIENDS you hang with - You know what they say about "Birds of a feather..."I know of one girl working that was happily spreading gonorrhea around for a short period of time while she was taking meds to clear it up. Oh, and she caught it from a customer, too.
I was rooming with an escort years ago who had genital herpes and went on calls all the time. And she let guys go down on her....
PS, I also know of a few dancers doing the grind with customers and the girls were HEP-A positive...and the club mangers/owners knew of it.
I have nothing to do with the way my friends are. Has nothing to do with the way I am. Check my post history and you will see exactly what I think of the desperate for business piglets that do GFE etc. and the fact I would never do such a thing.
AND, I was always busy and made hella money playing safe.
One way or the other
btw, this is by far the most adult and civilized discussion of this topic that I have ever read. The main lounge tears this apart, making those who prefer giving and receiving cbjs look like paranoid morons who don't know how to have a good time, and for the sps, deserve to see their business suffer for their lack of bbbjing.
You are not likely to get a disease or any kind of std from receiving your bbbj. I don't think that is the issue. The Health Nurse does clearly state that the sp is the one who has a HIGH risk of contracting certain stds from giving the bbbj. The risk to the client is small, so I agree that you really shouldn't be concerned. You would increase your risk, if she had one maybe only if you kiss. Even performing daty on her is also very low risk to you, I believe.
btw, this is by far the most adult and civilized discussion of this topic that I have ever read. The main lounge tears this apart, making those who prefer giving and receiving cbjs look like paranoid morons who don't know how to have a good time, and for the sps, deserve to see their business suffer for their lack of bbbjing.
