Bringing my heavy duty Boss to Van on wed - thurs,and was wondering if there were any sp's that could fullfill his desires.(might be well over 350 lbs)
Bringing my 350 lbs BOSS to Van to poon -- Any takers ladies ??
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Are you pimpin him out? This is the paid ad area mister matchmaker. Oh and thank you for not posting pix.
Pharisaicalness at its best...or is that worst?
), and how that person repeatedly villified in a subsequent thread, that no-one has said anything about these comments.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not slagging VV or Ashley about what they've said, just noting and pointing out the lack of reaction. I wonder, is that because people have gotten past it (not likely because these types of comments are still being made) or because of who made the comment in the first place (more likely).
Then again, there are a lot of sanctimonious assholes running rampant on this forum.
It's interesting to me that after how hyper-sensitive this board got re: weight after one person made some comments, which seemed to me, that were not intended to be malicious but, rather, were those of a person who is perhaps a little too used to being honest ('cause honesty is a bad thingLMFAO yah we dont need the visuals
), and how that person repeatedly villified in a subsequent thread, that no-one has said anything about these comments. Don't get me wrong, I'm not slagging VV or Ashley about what they've said, just noting and pointing out the lack of reaction. I wonder, is that because people have gotten past it (not likely because these types of comments are still being made) or because of who made the comment in the first place (more likely).
Then again, there are a lot of sanctimonious assholes running rampant on this forum.
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Do you like the person on who's behalf you're looking. If not, if you really hate him and want to make him feel shitty and possibly humiliated I can suggest someone.
Oops, did I just write that.
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Do you like the person on who's behalf you're looking. If not, if you really hate him and want to make him feel shitty and possibly humiliated I can suggest someone.
Oops, did I just write that.
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Your "boss", huh?
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=86662
I`m just going to say this: As you may have guessed from my handle and sig line, I too am a very heavy guy. Luckily, I`m just over 6 feet tall and broad shouldered, so I might carry it a little better than some other heavy guys but I don`t try to hide the fact from any lady that I contact about potentially meeting that I am an overweight, fat guy. I will ask them before hand if they would be comfortable seeing me and have now been told on more than one occasion that I`m too hard on myself. But when I see this kind of attitude on the forums from some of the ladies, I remember exactly why I approach the ladies in the manner that I do. As I recently explained to a certain lovely someone, I have no desire to see anyone who would be uncomfortable seeing me. I don`t wish to waste anyone else`s time anymore than I want my time to be wasted. If threads like this have the effect of showing us some of the SPs who clearly aren`t comfortable seeing fat guys, then it just means that for future reference, I know who not to potentially contact.
And it also makes me feel very lucky to have spent some time with the relatively few, very understanding, lovely women that have been willing to share their time with me. And to any of you ladies who are reading this, now you know why I`m always so grateful to you and thankful that you are willing to share that time with me.
Maybe because it is a lost cause.It's interesting to me that after how hyper-sensitive this board got re: weight after one person made some comments, which seemed to me, that were not intended to be malicious but, rather, were those of a person who is perhaps a little too used to being honest ('cause honesty is a bad thing
Don't get me wrong, I'm not slagging VV or Ashley about what they've said, just noting and pointing out the lack of reaction. I wonder, is that because people have gotten past it (not likely because these types of comments are still being made) or because of who made the comment in the first place (more likely).
Then again, there are a lot of sanctimonious assholes running rampant on this forum.
Many of the ladies that advertise on this site are disrespectful to potential clients. Yet, some people will still see them so they are under the impression that their actions have no repercussions.
Perhaps you guys could put your dollar votes towards ladies that are nice to all people that contact them, instead of justifying the inappropriate behaviour of some as "just being honest".
What type of society would we have if we were all honest all of the time. Considering that everyone has flaws, then we would hear alot of insults out there.
Is that the world that you are advocating? Where "honesty" supersedes common courtesy?
Perhaps ladies should be appreciative of the business that they receive. Far too often ladies get caught up in their own ego and think that they should only see clients that are "perfect".
Not being nasty but on the flip-side, what kind of world are YOU advocating? One where kissing ass, politicking, as well as political correctness run amok supercedes basic honesty?
A world where our educational system is so diluted that it, at the very very best, breeds mediocrity just to spare the feelings of children who would ordinarily have been held back a year for not performing up to par in their classes?
Regarding the rest of your post: don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that courtesey and tact should be ignored. And in the incident that I referred to it's clear that that is the case.
I, myself, am, for my height, approximately 90 lbs overweight. Even allowing for a heavier/denser build I still could do with losing approx 60 pounds. Nevertheless, I've never had any indication, in all the time that I have spent with the person in question, that my weight was an issue. Nor has she indicated any reluctance to see me.
You are completely misrepresenting my point. I am not advocating a world in which people lie to others and/or kiss butt. I am promoting a world in which people do not intentionally insult someone else.
What type of world do we live in if someone can ONLY see your additional 60 pounds of weight, and not the real you?
Weight has absolutely no bearing on the personality of the person...it is someone's character that is important.
How would you feel if everywhere that you went someone made mention of your extra 60 pounds?
Would you frequent a coffee shop that each time you picked up your drink they yelled, "....grande americano for the 60 pound overweight guy".
Perhaps that is the world that you want, but I would prefer the one where people tried to see the positive things in people and not the negative.
misrepresenting or misinterpreting?
Either way I assure you that I understand your point completely.
There is absolutely something to be said for seeing the good in people, I'm not saying that we shouldn't do that. But, by the same token, there is something to be said for being bluntly honest at times. ESPECIALLY given that the world we currently live in is filled with more and more people who are too used to having an overwhelming sense of entitlement because they are too used to being coddled, pampered, and generally having their asses kissed by others because those others were too concerned about hurting their feelings to tell them when they were being jerks, wrong, etc. (I'm speaking generally here and not about any one person or incident.)
How many people do you run into on a daily basis that are so ego-centric and self-absorbed to the point of endangering the lives of others? I usually encouter 2 or 3 on my daily commute who are too busy yakking into their cell phones to relaize that they should have changed lanes half a block ago so they could make a right turn in the intersection they just happen to be driving through RIGHT NOW.
I am not promoting a world in which intentional insults are the norm. I am merely pointing out (haha) that your preference, while noble, also has its downside if taken to the extreme. Just as mine does.
I am promoting a world in which people actually used the 5kg lump that resides at the end of their neck for something other than a doorstop or a cell phone cradle.
I brought up the educational system in a previous post because it seems that Mr. and/or Mrs. Jones, who happens to sit on the school board that oversees the school district in which their little Johnny goes to school, are worried about Johnny's feelings being hurt because he didn't make the grade. So rather than helping little johnny get help with the math or english he has trouble with by helping him with his homework or getting him a tutor. Rather than finding out why he's disupting the class and acting out towards the other students and teach, they decide that the best way to deal with the problem is to not look for it. They push to have certain areas of the curriculum cut back so that Johnny can make the grade given a reduced expectation. That's right, they ostrich the problem. They don't actually address the problem itself, they just address the symptom, but in a manner that is detrimental to the whole for the sake of the one.
Years ago (actually, a couple of decades now) my father was invited to sit on the Burnaby School Board and that's exactly what he encountered. Which is why he only went to one meeting.
Again, there anything inherently wrong in your point of view, nor do I oppose it in principle, I'm just saying that we already live in a world where we're so consumed with not offending this person or that for this reason, that reason or yet another reason that the real message gets obscured by all the fluff we have to pack around it in order to make it non-offesnsive to the entire population before it can even exist as a thought in someone's own mind.
Ideally there would be a balance of both of our views but sadly, given the current state of affairs, that is unlikely to be the case.
Not intending to get in the middle of all the brouhaha that's bubbled up here, I just wanted to say that I enjoy meeting my clients who may be carrying a little extra. Just like I enjoy all my clients (for the most part
And, not meaning to generalize, I have noticed the bigger the gentleman is, the more fastidious he seems to be about his hygiene. And I love a man that smells good!
As for the other points posted here, I'm not trying to be PC, just respectful. People are the way they are and one just excepts that. Usually those that insult others are the most unhappy with themselves. Treating others the way one prefers to be treated is a good rule in my book.
But really, in this industry, it just comes down to a fun attitude, mutual respect, simmering sensuality and hot sex! 'Nuff said.
Classy girl you are ANNA!!!
Hope you are well? Be and stay safe!
LowerMainlander - I agree with you. Unfortunately one of the problems we face today is that the sense of entitlement seems to also include people having lost basic courtesy of human interaction. People feel "entitled" to be rude and antagonistic. Is it any less honest to say you didn't click with somebody than it is to insult them?
I find it funny how some people see things so different...
I just tell people I am short for my weight.
oooooooo Simonn, I think it's fair to say his next bonus depends on how good this SP is..... LOL hmmmm does he get a bonus/promotion, or get fired?
I just tell people I am short for my weight.
oooooooo Simonn, I think it's fair to say his next bonus depends on how good this SP is..... LOL hmmmm does he get a bonus/promotion, or get fired?
No, it's not any less honest to couch things differently; which is a matter of tact and sometimes people just are not tactful.
However there DOES exist a difference between tactlessness and maliciousness and I was merely pointing out how, it's interesting that one person can be thrown to the wolves for what was, in my opinion, a moment of tactlessness. While other people can get away with open mocking. Whether the subject of the mocking will ever read/hear the comments does not figure in this discussion.
Bear in mind that this is my opinion only and that it's based on my experience with a certain person who, contrary to popular opinion has provided consistent, exemplary service and been willing to spend time with me in spite of the fact that I'm also a larger guy.
Bottom line: my personal experiences with this person in no way supports the postulate that she is prejudiced against larger guys or will only see so-called "hot" guys.
I find it funny how some people see things so different...
I just tell people I am short for my weight.
Hahaha I've used that one too: "I'm not overweight, I'm undertall."
